I'm newly single for a couple days now and met a guy online that's not too far from me and I been talking to him for couple days now. He sounds like great guy and we lots in common. We going go on a date hopefully soon. Possibly this Saturday, I'm going to take a bus to where he lives because I don't drive. I might stay with him overnight because the bus service opened till 12 am so I might not make it back so I going stay with him but I told him I not the type that sleeps on first date and he understands so do you think it will work out with me with this new guy. Any advice or tips anything be great.
Update: I'm not going go to his house he going meet me at the bus stop meet half way and he said he would do the same to meet me. I'm not desperate and didn't know I was going meet him and stuff. Things happen and def meet him in public place I'm not dumb.
More than a year ago
It could very well work out, but staying over at his place on the first date just because you don't have transportation isn't really a good idea. I hope it works out if you do that, but I'd feel better about it if you found a way to get home instead of staying overnight.
Slow down and stop to think what you just proposed to do. Regardless of whether this guy has an official angel designation from God himself, stop and slow down.
Besides, why can't this guy drive over to meet you at a coffee shop? Call me old fashioned but the guy generally meets the girl for a first date and does not make her drive cross country.
Take it easy and do not rush things. I am sure your in 7th heaven to have found a new guy this quickly but you need to exercise some caution as well.
Careful, don't get hurt. It's a guy you met online, and you're going to stay at his place the first night. Even I wouldn't meet someone at his/her place, if I met this person online. Why can't you guys meet somewhere else, like a coffee shop, perhaps? It's better that way ^ ^
Lol probably not the smartest idea. You're newly single? You shouldn't rush to get back into another relationship. If you are that desperate to be with a guy, then you need to work out your issues before you jump back into something else. Before you can be dependent on someone, you should be able to be independent.
As far as taking a bus to some STRANGER. And yes he is a stranger. Just because someone seems like someone on the internet doesn't mean they are. Sure he might be a good guy, but you never know. It is not hard to appear nice online. Ever heard of guys that rape girls from the internet? Its not just a myth, it happens all the time. To who? To girls who trust guys and go to see the guys by themselves.
And then you're going to stay the night at his house and you haven't even met him? Are you kidding me? It doesn't matter if you have sex with him or not. What kind of girl sleeps over at a guys house that they just met? This isn't even an impromptu thing, you're actually PLANNING IT OUT. And this guy can't come see you, and meet you with some friends where you live? Are you nuts?
I'm sorry hun, but seriously, you need to check your common sense meter. And check your self esteem while you're at it. I hate to be a jerk, but you really have some issues you need to work on.
Listen to them - they're all right sweetie doesn't a guy need to pick up a girl? And definitely meet this guy with a lot of people around you - have smarts!
Im not sure we are going meet yet were talking about it and he told me I don't have to stay at his house and I probably not. I just saying I might but things change. I careful who I date I taking things slow just talking to him and we making plans to go out on a date he doesn't drive yet I don't either but I probably going meet him at his work that's not far from me. I told him I just got out of relationship he understands that and get to know him more as days go by. I'm smart I just was asking. - More than a year ago
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Ok but still be careful who you talk to - More than a year ago
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