How long should I wait?

Are you afraid of what he'll think of you if you do it too soon? Then I'd sat wait until after the 5th date, at the earliest. By that time you'll know whether or not you might have a change of feeling about doing it.

There are no hard set rules for this so play it by ear. If the guy is fairly conservative and you want to be in a relationship with him then you should wait a bit until he is more comfortable with you. That would be the lady-like thing to do.

If he is very sexual himself, which can be gauged by bringing up sex questions in a conversation, and you appear to be quite sexual yourself then go for it.

Just make sure your intention of wanting to go down on him is because you enjoy it and not in the hopes of trying to win him over.

Get to know him and take your time. There is no rush at all to jump into things physically. If you go down on him early, how do you know he likes you for WHO you are, and not WHAT you have, or WHAT you're doing. How do you know he's not using you for sexual favors or for your body. Have some self esteem, have some class and wait. If you whore yourself out on the first date, and he's attracted to that, then that's not a good guy. I would never date a girl like that. Because if she will go down on me early, then that means she will or has gone down on many guys. How is that special? If he's ok with that, then he's just using you for your sexual favors.

What is the hurry? Where is the fire? If this guy is worth dating, and you are interested in long term then slow down. There will be plenty of time for blow jobs later on, there is no need to get that physically involved this early. Think about it.

Wow, you are eager to please! A great quality in a gal for sure. Just wish more women were like you here in Virginia. I swear the entire State is frigid.

Going down on a guy would be best saved after you started kissing and fooling around. If he hasn't kissed you by say. The 3rd date he is being way too old fashioned. Hopefully he has and I see it no different than sex himself. Be subtle and smooth about it. There isn't a man in existence that would deny your intentions.

Not sure if this will secure your intentions of getting into a relationship but it will give the guy the notion that you like him more than a bit.

1-3 dates should be sufficient, depends on the guy. If he's anything like me, one night would be enough :D rotfl

Um. Well call me old fashioned but my boyfriend and I waited for oral sex about 11 months & I promise it was well worth the wait. Now keep in mind everyone is different. I suggest that you wait a little while (it wouldn't have to be as drastic as 11 months of course. Lol). I talk to my guy about thing and he says that when a couple waits on each other. It shows more love & respect for each other. Now if you both want to and you both feel as though you can take responsibility for things. Go for it. Just be safe just in case. One thing leads to another many times!
Goodluck. I hope all goes pleasant~ Hope this helped~
*~Amber~*