Well don't think I'm desperate or anything! I know a lot of girls around me and everything, but it's just that I never felt anything for any of them and there is this girl that I chat with over the net and I really care about her, and I have big feelings for her! Do you think that is possible?
No, not really. Although it seems I've just ended a long term, well 5 months, internet relationship with a guy myself. Big sigh. He was perfect, well close anyway. We were very similar, but I don't dare taking it any further and at some point you just don't want to talk anymore just wasn't to meet.. Sigh. It was magical in the beginning. But I think it's rather easy to get misunderstood over the net, that's all I can say.
You will never know until you guys meet in real life. Better sooner than later. The longer you wait the more impatient each of you will get. I assure you that.
Possible. However, be careful who you are talking to, you don't really know the other person on the other side of the computer screen. One of my friend was dating this girl online and three months later found out that she was a guy. He was devastated, and despite what happened, got into another relationship with another girl online, and that turned out to be a guy as well. However, if you are sure, sure that the person on the other side is a genuine girl and that she has some feelings for you (she might be in a relationship and having an affair with you online, anything is possible on the internet!) then the relationship could be possible. Just be careful :)
Yes that is possible. You got to know her personality first. That's always a plus. Getting to know someone before you go out always makes is easy. You can be yourself.
Possible, but hard to really say. The internet gives the advantage of expressing yourself behind a curtain, thus making communication very open and productive. It's really easy to express and talk openly about pretty much anything when you are not face to face to one person. The physical distance enhances the communication and therefor, you get to know the other person's deep thoughts, ideas, perceptions, etc. And then you bond, and then you bond some more. On the other hand, a real life relationship develops differently. You express and communicate differently, and many times not so openly.
But I think the final test is meeting in person and having that chemistry and reality check. Then, you will have a better answer to your question.
Definitely possible....mayana has related very good points about the communication....I found all of what she said to be true.....a trustworthy matching site is important though...a chat room would be a dubious place to meet someone.
I met a girl through a matching site (EH) and, after a whirlwind two months of communication through emails, IM, and phone calls, we finally met. It was like meeting a best friend and we spent the next four days together. We had both known the compatibility was there before meeting and we just needed to affirm the physical attraction....OMG, we were both sore for days afterwards.
We still are not physically together because of the long-distance thing but we have made plans for that to happen. Until then, the communication is as vigorous and numerous as when we first talked. Are we in love?......most definately!!!
Compatibility plus attraction....that's the combo you're looking for. It seems you may have found the former, now you need to discover the latter. Good Luck with it!!!
I don't believe in love over the net; however, I have met girls online and after a lot of chatting, we realized we had a lot in common. Then we met in person, and we went on to date for a while. So I think is possible to meet future partners online, but I don't know about falling in love online. Mayana made great points that also applied to me.
Yes, it is possible to fall for someone over the internet. And fall in love. I met the love of my life there almost two years ago, in April 06. But it takes time and a lot of effort to get to know someone this way. The most important thing you can do is talk to her. My girlfriend and I emailed each other everyday, sometimes more than once. We talked on IM, and we talked on the phone as well. Then after getting to know her, you can plan to meet her. Don't let anyone tell you it can't happen, but it does require a lot of effort from both of you, for the relationship to be successful. Good luck!
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