Is it bad for a 20 year to date a 29 year old?

personally I would never date a 20 year old if I was 29, lowest I would go is maybe 25. 3-5 is my limit, anything more than that is just creepy to me. Imagine, when he was in college, you were in elementary/middle school...yeah no thanks.

No. I'm actually interested in a 29-year-old girl at the moment.

I'd like to think my aspirations aren't socially unacceptable.

It's not about how old you are physically but how old your a mentally. If you're compatible there is absolutely no problem with it at all.

It isn't about number, it's about the stage you are at in your life and the difference in maturity. (And trust me, there IS a difference.) As you get older though, the gap disappears. (age gaps don't matter as much once you are both out of college, settled in a career, financially independent, etc.)

What could you possibly have in common with someone 9 years older than you...I don't know your maturity level or his but there has to be a big difference in the two...