I met this guy while I was working and he told me he goes to a recovery house. It didn't matter to me because he seemed like such a great guy and I wanted to get to know him more. We've talked on the phone and texted for about a week. Through that week he's told me all about his past and how he's trying to make his life right. Not once did I think twice about talking to him. I knew that I shouldn't judge him. He said he really liked talking to me and that I had a sweet voice and even say he missed me. He wanted to take me out on a date but he said he couldn't drive for the first 30 days which I completely understood I didn't mind being patient. Well two nights ago I texted him just saying hey and he called me like 20 min later. He had just gotten out of a meeting which he said went very well. our conversation went something like this him: listen I left the recovery house Me: o really why? him: Me and the guy who heads the house were not getting along and I just couldn't take it anymore. me:o ok. I'm sorry it didn't work out him: don't worry I'm not getting high right now or anything (in a joking manner). I'm staying with a family member now but by the end of the week I'll be at a new house. The people there are really great so I think it'll be better for me. me: O ok (in a relief manner) that's good. I'm glad that's working out him: hey but listen before I go move in we should really get together and hang out. me: yea def that would be great him: hey can I call you back?
So he never did call me back that night but I was like watever its ok don't think too much on it. the next day he didn't call and I didn't want to seem clingy and text him. Now its today and I'm not sure if I should call him or anything. This guy is so hard to read. We seem like we really connect and stuff but its like I feel like I don't know what he wants. should I be patient or is this guy not serious? guy's: what's he thinking?
Proceed with caution. Everyone deserves a second chance, but you have to know this is not going to be a smooth ride. Guard your heart.
If he said he would call you back, he should have called. Trust is going to be an issue, and he should do everything he can to build that trust. Keeping his word is an important component of building that trust.
Text him today and see if you get a reply. But keep your eyes up for a guy with less drama.
he is probably busy.. but chances are he can't have anybody over to his soon to be "house" so he wants to be able to see you in private.. chances are what he meant by that is that he wants to ... ahem... well I'm sure you know... that's how I would put it if I wanted some ass... be carefull when hangin with these guys.. trust me, I'm one of em' and I know what I want when I meet a female.. good luck with it tho.. (dont txt him, let him contact you)
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