How do you attract younger girls?

My husband and I started dating when I was 16 he was 23 I think its fine we actually started to sleep together before we dated. I see nothing wrong with it we have now been married for 2 years together for 4 and it its been the best 4 years of my life. He is my sol mate and I am his and if its legal there is no problem

Lmao wow ...to be honnest you sound like a dirty old man ..but ur not going to get a "matuer" 16 year old. lol Believe me at my high school there are girls that looks old but act more sluty and they are dumb as rocks lol

my boyfriend is 23 and am turning 18 in 3 days. we been going out for 6 months now.
and we are so gr8 togther because I love older guys and he loves younger girls.
i don't mean soooo young like 10 14 or 16! just 17 and up I guess. lol.

Hey there's nothing wrong with wanting to date a younger girl. It's the same thing as a girl wanting to date an older guy.
Personally, I've never dated a guy my age. I met my previous boyfriend when I was 15 and he was 20, we stayed together for two years and had an awesome relationship, even though in the end it didn't really work out.
Now I'm 19 and also in a serious relationship with a guy whose 24 and we've also been together for two years. We survived the age difference and had a long distance relationship for a year (while I was at boarding school and he was at college), and I couldn't be happier and more proud of both of us for committing to each other the way we did. After I graduated high school I also decided to go to college in Boston, so we have now been living together for a year and our relationship couldn't be better, it's simply amazing!
What should matter in a relationship is not the age difference, but rather the level of maturity of the two people involved and the feelings they have for each other.

Now my tip:
If you really want to make it work with someone whose younger, just be yourself. I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. When I met my bf, he treated me just like he would treat someone whose his age, and this made me respect him even more.
You just have to make sure both you and the girl have the same ideals and are at the same level of maturity. Show her that you're not just in it for sex (girls biggest fear when dating an older guy) or whatever, but that your actually looking for someone to have a serious relationship and stuff. Be willing to confront people that go against the relationship and also be willing to protect and defend her. Try to gain her trust by being honest and respectful.
And please, if you eventually do go out with a younger girl (whose a virgin), don't pressure her into sex. I was glad my boyfriend respected me and was willing to wait for me. It was good he had already hooked up and had sex with other girls, so he was actually willing to wait and appreciated waiting for something more special.

If you would like to know more about my story and hall it all happened, look at this page :
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for my answer to Does any one think a 5/6 year age difference is bad/too far apart?. It may help!

Good luck! ;)!

Right, here is an answer from a girl who has always fancied guys much older than her and who, at 16, would have gladly got with a 23-year-old.

Age irrelevant, you're talking about girls like they're objects. Objects with a sell-by date, no less. I don't think a woman over 25 would be particularly attracted to that either.

The problem with that is that you're not actually attracted to the person. For someone of 16, it's more important that you are, because you're still getting to know yourself when you're 16 and what you want sexually. If you find a particularly mature 16-year-old then fine, but in that case, she's probably not going to settle for someone who's thinking about screwing her more than anything else.

Ok I find nothing wrong with this since I'm 18 and I just recently dated a guy who is 28 (he wasn't a pervert!). Girls mature faster than guys (in most cases) so, younger girls are more compatible with you.

but you have to meet them in their world, which might mean going to a high school basement drink fest or something. Go somewhere you know there will be younger girls and do the whole flirt bit.

If you find yourself connecting with 25 year olds then so what if they're older? You might miss out on something great because you're interested in her younger sister.

Ignore everybody. If its legal, then go for it. &
I dated this guy who was 9 years older than me when I was 18, and he had to be one of the best boyfriendss I've ever had. Sounds creepy, but I'm being serious. He was so educated and cultured. So mature. He taught me so much about life and he was so great in bed. I guess its all about maturity. Dating an older guy is different than dating someone your age.

So, I guess you have to be that mysterious older guy that younger girls love.

Good Luck ;D

i think if yur willing to sleep with a 16 or 17 year old and yur 23 .. yu might need some help and I no it is legal in your state but I find that to be really gross.. if I was yu I would stick to more around my age like 18 or 19 at the youngest.. if yu want 19 mayb try going to a club or bar to c if yu can pick someone up there. I no that sounds kinda desperate but it's not

To be honest I say skip age group til around 18.Your more likely to "connect" when their around that age,but I'm not sure if you really want to go that young,you'll be limited on where you can go and do. Not that I have problem with the age difference. I dated a guy 8 years older then me for almost 2 years.

There really isn't a special way to make oneself connect with a person.All you can do is be yourself with the girl and if you and her "connect" then great.If not,there are plenty of more girls out there.

Ever thought that your too mature for that age group? Maybe that's why you don't connect?

I've always dated at least three years older then me,but that was because I could never find a guy in my age that I connected with.I was always on a different,possibly higher level of maturity then them...I never had a childhood or teenage life,so I can understand to a point of feeling the lack.

You're sick. How the hell can a teenage girl be in her prime if she hasn't even finished developing fully yet? And the way you worded the question gives the impression that you said 16-21 only because 16 is the legal age. You would probably go lower than 16 if it weren't illegal. You're a creep. Do you feel that you can't impress a woman your own age?

How is 16 natural? You're just saying that so you can justify your fantasy. A 16 y/o lacks maturity and life experience and is more vulnerable to be played by a guy older than her. Society is completely correct in making an issue out of a grown man preying on underage girls. Date someone your own age.

Girls that age are usually pretty superficial. A 23 year old creepy loser who can't even attract women his own age is not going to be attractive to the average 16 y/o girl, I'm sorry hun. Unless you are super rich, very hot, can get them into the hottest clubs for free and get them into exclusive parties it's probably not gonna happen. Which really is for the best.

The same way you attract older girls. Younger girls fall easier because they're more naive. Especially if you use tricks with women your age. Good luck!

Flowers and chocolate go a long way. Just be sure to buy the roofie bar and coat the bouquet in chloroform.

come to think of it I think you just asked this question to p*ss people off

sixteeen is really not acceptable.. I'm 18 and I'm dating a 23 year old.. that's about as young as you can go dude.. 16 is just robbing the cradle.

Dude,
If my 16 or 17 year old daughter brought you home to meet me, you'd be shot or at the very least, have a pfa put on you. Have you ever heard of 'Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor'? Most parents feel that way. You're looking for issues when you date little girls.

You can't be all that mature if you are trying to scam little girls. Go find a therapist...You definitely need one!

Why do you think you feel the lack? What happened?

Mate, Are you a child molester?

I don't care if it is legal, that's just wrong. Teenaged girls are *not* in their prime, they're not even done growing yet.

16 good god, get some help that's sick

Um I don't know but listen to what your saying. your 23 and you have a thing for 16 yr. old girls? Your well above an adult and you have a thing for underaged girls? I know you said its perfectly legal but dude seriously. I wouldn't go Looking for underaged girls to be in a relationship. Its kinda creepy.

im just stating my opinion that's all I don't excpect everyone to agree

Umm.. if you are 23 then don't go any younger than 18 or you are a sick bastard. Young girls are delicate and inexperienced and don't need someone who should know better swooping in and breaking their hearts. My boyfriend hooked up with me when I was 18 and he was 29 and he took my virginity. We just recently broke up 3 years later, but I haven't dated anyone but him.. I hate him for it. He was such a creep to prey on me even if he did really like me.. It's wrong to influenced women so much and it's easy when your older. The right thing for him to have done was keep it in his pants and let me experience a few things before tying me down to him. He did the same thing with 17 year old girl before me and he broke her heart without even dating her. She was a virgin too so if you're really interested you should ask him because he knows all about how to f*** girls over.

DUDE!
your not looking for love. your looking for lust.

i may be young but girls 18 or younger aren't worth the trouble of jail time.
their young. they got boundaries. you gotta put up with their parents.
they could be soo dayme childish that its frustrating.
i can go on forever with a list but its not worth the time.
young girls are hard to handle.
stick to adult girls.

i hope when you pop kids with a kid you'll have a girl.
once you have a girl you'll learn to respect females and see men in a different point of view.

my opinions here. you don't like it.
SAY SOMETHING ^_^

Are there 16yr old girls in Troll Country anyway?

I bet you anything if this was a 23 yo girl asking about dating 16 yo boys, nobody would care.

I do not know where you are, but you clearly do not understand the climate in america these days. Any age difference is looked upon as sick and perverted; they do not care what the law says. It is the pendulum swinging too far to the extreme in reaction to media hype about pedophiles.

Ice cream?

dude, if you're 23 and still looking for 16 year old's you have a seriouse case of peterpan syndrome or you're just hoping to p*ss off some parents. Anyone under 21 really isn't worth it. Think about it, with younger girls you always run the risk of getting into trouble (if not legally then socially) then you gotta pay for everything which is most likely why'd they date you in the first place. Trust me the only reason why 16 year old girls date someone over 21 is so they can get them alcohol or ciggerettes. Not worth it dude.

It mainly just sounds like you're only looking for an easy lay with a girl who has no clue what sex is. Probably girls your own age know that you suck in the sack and word of mouth ruined your rep. So just rent some porno's and take some notes. Much better alternatives then deepthroating a shotgun because her dad doesn't like pedophiles.

I'm not going to even bother reading the posts because I don't care what they say.

There's nothing wrong with wanting what you want. It's pretty superficial, and is has a huge "I want to TAKE" mentality, but it's not wrong!

WHy do that older girls connect with you better? Because they're looking to connect. They want rapport and you're likely good at creating rapport.

But the younger girls don't want rapport. They want attraction. They want fun and exciting and unpredictable. They're superficial like you and you'll not hook them unless you can meet their superficial needs.

If you're not physically attractive then you must do three things - improve your body (the gym), improve your face (learn the basics of grooming, haircuts, etc.) and improve your fashion sense (read GQ, and pay attention to what "cool" guys actually wear - and these are cool guys that WOMEN think are cook, not you, otherwise you'll end up looking like a UFC douchebag)

Next you must learn about attraction. There are a million websites that talk about how to pickup girls (under 23) so go find them.

You won't find love when you build a relationship based on looks and pickup lines, but you will find sex.

Just be don't be a d*** - if you're going to be superficial at least be honest about it. Girls have no problems with one-night-stands as long as they've agree'd to it. You don't need to Trick girls into sleeping with you once you've gained their attraction. So don't try to be a player, and don't waste time on lies.

This will push the young girls away super fast. As soon as they can smell that you're "trying to get something" from them they'll run the other way. But if, instead, you're offering something - like fun, excitement, sex - they are far more likely to stick around.

Good luck and keep us posted!

~ Robby

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You shouldn't feel any lack from not dating then, but you should definitely date closer to your age than to 16, I say this because younger girls can be immature, but besides that they can be attracted to the age difference.

As per your update, it doesn't look like you can TYPE English very well, so don't be surprised if people can't understand your gibberish.

Candy?

you have gotten an answer to your question, plenty of times and its all the same.

Ewww

Creepy

Date people your own age

no dude. I'm 23 and the lowest ill go is 19-20. The girl I'm kinda seeing now is 19 turning 20 and I couldn't imagine dating any lower than that age group. 16? do you like braces? 25 yes, that's completely cool, and if you can find an older girl, more power to you but this line right here bothers me.

"However I like the younger ones, they are the ones at their prime, and I want them, just one very cute would be enough."

thats in pedophile territory.

they are not in their prime

early to mid 20's is their prime and that's where you should be dating.

Where do you live, maybe I'll move there? I would never break the law but I don't like girls my age, in addition to being less attractive they all have serious baggage and are very mean.

Um, you don't
You should instead consider 20-25

I'm also 23, and I wouldn't date a 16 year-old



Stop trollin, dogg

Where the hell are you from man? You sound really creepy.

"I want them, just one very cute could be enough" ... Are you talking about buying something or humans?

The reaso you aren't attracting 16 year olds is becuase you don't have much in common with them. They find you creepy, they see that you're too old and don't see you in that light ooooor you just dont' have the game to impress a young girl - which is usually pretty easy sadly.

18 or above man... stick with them.

LOL...16? Come on!...

Legal or not, there is a wall that should not be crossed..

I look at the freshman in my university (they're 18) and they look like they're in middle school (mentally and physically..have you ever messed with college freshmen?..it's like fishing with dynamite..but you feel like you need to take a shower afterward..a long one...)

I will assume that you will see the light and stay away from the 16-18 range (18 is legal, but they're too naive for it to be even counted as fair)..

anyway, for 19 and up girls throw/be a part of college parties (I assume that you have one friend who is in college)...have a party somewhere with a pool and cool neighbors, a slip and slide never hurt, and make sure to invite sororities (they are on the 19-22 range; the one that you will have to settle with)..

and don't mope, because socially acceptable will only grow older for you, when you turn 24 and you go out with a 19 year old sophomore, society will shake its head...eventually if you go out with college girls, society will do the same (legal does not equal socially acceptable/moral)

seek counseling (I'm not being mean, I'm serious/trying to be helpful..they will help you be happy with a girl around your age and will help you get over the fact that you didn't enjoy your youth sexually..it happens)

You're telling me you want a clingy, hyper, loud, immature, obnoxious, flaky, 'has no clue what she wants' younger girl? If you are just looking to f*** one than go to the bar. If you want a relationship with one...well then god help you.

1. Learn to live with a low batting average; most that age will think you're too old.

2. You have to be very good at dating women generally; she can find average shmoes her own age.

3. Your life gets ten times easier if you're a part of her scene; she's at the age of peer pressure, you need to be cool with her friends first.

I hear ya. I have a thing for younger women myself, and over time I've learned to appeal to them. I don't dare to share my secrets, as they're just too powerrful, but I've been known to attract em as young as 46!