I have gone out with a guy three times and had a really good time with him. He acted like he did too and like he liked me and I know he is attracted to me. Now I asked him if he wanted to come over this weekend. He said he is busy. Then he says he likes me but he is not over the last girl he dated and he doesn't know what he wants. Any suggestions? I think I should quit contacting him and see what happens.
I think he's feeding you a line of bs. Guys always know what they want and then they do whatever they can to get it. Guys are simple. If he's too busy well then you need to be too busy to text, email, talk or call him. If he wants to be a douchebag and blow you off then blow him off too. I agree with you, quit contacting him and see what happens. Absence could make the heart grow fonder OR you can see him for who he really is and later be glad you didn't waste your time! Best of luck (:
What is the worst, I assume that is to pursue him, call, etc. Why would he even bother to talk to me and tell me this if he has no interest? I would think he would have not even replied. - 2 months ago
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He is a rank coward, but that's ok. - 2 months ago
I would forget about him.whether that's true or not it sounds like he doesn't want anything serious right now.find someone who does.plenty of fish in the sea.
Well, one thing's for sure. He doesn't want to go further with you. It's pretty harsh to say he's lying, using you or doesn't like you... it is totally possible that he's really not over his ex and needs time before he can start seeing someone new. Still, that's your cue to let him go and find someone who knows what he wants and is looking for the same things as you.
Committed? Like in a mental asylum? - 2 months ago
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No I mean, he's got you. He just got out of a relationship so he doesn't want to commit to another girl.. he's probably trying to take it slow with you. He probably hopes he can enjoy you without getting serious.
Give him space. Otherwise you might end up hurt. - 2 months ago
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