I'm a muslim, and believe it or not, I couldn't be happier with any other girl than my catholic girlfriend. my ex was a muslim but I've never seen a great benefit to that, it put only limitations on the way we communicate because we didn't have the same views on everything, a modern muslim is VERY different from a conservative/closed-minded/extremest muslim.
my current girlfriend always encourages me to pray, attend religious events and prayers and celebrations, and even more she would join me and my family in these sometimes... because she knows the spiritual side is very important in a longterm relationship, and we both know it's best way to eliminate stress, discharge emotional pressure and enlighten up the mood, all of that leads to a better relationship. we believe in the same god, we ask for the same god, so what's the problem!
what is advised here is just to make sure you are on the right lane, make sure no complications are going to happen in the future and most importantly make sure she/he is the dependent type and won't give a damn about their family or community approval. know all these things and ask all the questions you need to ask before you start anything emotional with them.
It's ok to love yor current Girlfriend but don't assume any Muslim girl is close minded, if she does what Allah says you should salut her for that! - A month ago
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Ceesa, my ex only started praying so the guy she got married to would admire her and respect her, she wanted him to think she is religious, what she got from the religion before that was only the old corrupt social traditions, our religion says when you love someone you should marry them, her arabian traditions says only get married to a wealthy older man, and don't ever let the one you love ask for your hand, otherwise your mom is going to kill you - A month ago
ALERT!! *BS-meter out of range* ALERT!! "her arabian traditions says only get married to a wealthy older man"
If your foolish assumption were true, few Arab girls would ever get married. - 19 days ago
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HAHA jacquesvol you're a funny older dude, don't know if you're trying to make a BS blabber of me or you're just trying to be smart, I meant by a wealthy older man that they choose the wealthiest or at least the most financially stable they can get for their daughter in the end. In egypt for example, a girl would preferably look for a guy that has his own flat or house... but once again, enlightened and cultured arabs do not think that way, and a real muslim can never be a gold digger as well. - 19 days ago
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Im a muslim and I have dated both christina and muslims and to me its not a big deal.
I dated a Jewish guy and to be honest, my parents weren't too thrilled, and just by attending family events with him at his house, I could tell it wasn't going to work. It was a learning experience though, but it wasn't the situation for me. I was raised Catholic, and I intend to marry someone who is Catholic.
No, I wouldn't. For me. If you don't have the same viewpoints on life, the same passion for your religion there will eventually cause a huge breakdown in the relationship.for example If I am a christian and I date an athiest... and I decide to marry the person... what will the children be.. Religions have different viewpoints on life, and one might not agree with the other which will give great conflict and the relationship will probably end.
Oh...im not a die hard though . I'm a pretty regular american teen. I don't wear hujabs or cover myself up like crazy or demoralize myself...i just happen to be a west african muslim. :] - A month ago
You are on the land of free..maybe, but God didn't allow Muslim girls to marry a non-muslim. Beside I feel or I'm sure you must have the same view of God wether you're a Muslim or not. Not caring about your parents opinion is not something to brag about! - A month ago
Calm down the Ceesa! parents are not always right and don't ALWAYS know what's best for you! and when it comes to love if its good and real no you SHOULDNT care what your family thinks just because of religion! - A month ago
"God didn't allow Muslim girls to marry a non-muslim. " It's only the Quran that doesn't allow it, a 14 centuries old copy of the Old Testament. - 19 days ago
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Thank you bellahgd and jacquesvol for backing me up!! and ceesa...i didn't say that I didn't care what my parents think...i said my family which means my aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. My parents actually do let me follow my heart no matter what religion the guy is. :D - 10 days ago
I wouldn't date anyone who was religious...period. However there may be exeptionl circumstances. But I wouldn't give a muslim man a chance. There is no way in the world I would like someone that believes in supressing, depressing, degrading and demoralising women. As if I would ever go out with a man that practices these beliefs and thinks its okay to treat women the way they did hundreds of years ago, why don't you all grow the f.u.c.k up and realise your religion is based on fictional stories written by misogynistic men...also known as the Qur'an. And don't give me the sh*t that islamic religion is beautiful and allah loves us blah blah blah. If you want to comment with sh*t like that don't even bother. You can't brainwash or impose your ungrounded views on me as much as you want to.
Religion like that DOES NOT deserve respect. - A month ago
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Ok There is nothing in the Qur'an that supports domsic volince.....It's just a bullsh*t attatude that sadly hasn't changed in 1,400 years..... - A month ago
About EVERY "religion is based on fictional stories written by misogynistic men." They all teach "religion is beautiful and god/allah/jahwe loves us blah blah blah" The Bible is not much better then the Qu'ran: just read Numbers 31 and read Saint Paul letters (part of the Gospel) for instance. Same for the Torah. (which I don't know as well as the Bible and Qu'ran, but I read it too)
You can't brainwash or impose your ungrounded views on me as much as you want to - A month ago
Have you ever read the bible? it demoralizes women quite a bit. but you're quite ignorant to think that all muslim people are that conservative. yes the really traditional ones can be as you say. but many, if not most muslims, live by a less strict set of rules and do not mistreat to marginalize women. the same is true with modern jews vs. traditional orthodox jews an liberal christians vs. fundamentalist christians. - A month ago
If anything, scientology promotes the most injustice against women lol. I think the reason you've got such harsh views against islam is that you've brain washed by out culture which says that islam = bad. it used to be jews that everyone loved to hate and I'll bet in 20 years, we'll stick our noses up at taoists or hindus. - A month ago
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When I wrote this I was just using islam as an example but it goes for christanity and other religions too, don't get me wrong. I despise religion in its entirety. Bible, Qur'an and all. Long live atheism. - A month ago
Please! a Muslim guy is dying to know you, LOL ! Yet ,when you talk about a religion know what you're talking about cause right now you look like a fool :-) - A month ago
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Of course a religious person like yourself is going to say that I look like a fool. People like you don't like your religion to be questioned, but religion itself is foolish and irrational, I thought by now (thousands of years after religion was invented) people would have come to their senses but obviously not. - A month ago
i've done that before so yes I dated a christian when I'm agnostic so yeah it doesn't matter what your religion is (religion is interesting to me anyway)
i mean, sure. But they have to be cute nd stuff, and I dnt think a lot of middle eastern guys are cute. I like white guys and black guys prtty much. I might go out with an indian if he was really cute (which I've seen. half black is gorgeous. I've seen a half asian guy who was prtty cute. He was like tan and had abs and stuff though. Yah. So basically I dnt care wht religion he is.
I would not marry someone unless he was Christian or at least believed in God. So me dating a guy who didn't share the same religious beliefs would be pointless. I'm not gonna date a guy if I already know it will not work out.
i think it matters, beause so many religions collide with each other! But the thing is, if those two are devout to their religion, it's trouble. However, if they're just "casual," about it, then, no prob.
i don't see why it should matter. as long as you don't try and push your beliefs onto the other person its fine. I'm Catholic and the majority of people I've encountered have been atheist.
I'm a christian and I'm pretty hard religious in a true christian way, not all that denominational stuff people like to have. I have no problem dating girls of other religions as all my girlfriends have been, mostly atheist. My main thing is for them to respect my way of life, that few do. I will go to church on Sunday and I will pray over my food. I'm not pushing anything on her so she shouldn't try to push things on me. However I have found many girls that I have been looking at, have push there view on me. Maybe it because I get them to think, few but some of them have come to faith. Maybe it the fact that they are scared of think a new way that makes them scared and want to change me.
SinfullySweet, IMHO, Buddhism is much more a philosophy than a religion. - A month ago
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I'm not a person who practices any religion but that would not stop me from dating someone religious. I respect all religions and those who follow it.
The only problem is, it's not likely that I would be accepted by those who are religious. Due to certain restrictions in their religions, there's a slim chance that someone with absolutely no beliefs would be accepted. I would gladly date a religious person as long as they would date me.
[note: By religious here, I mean very religious - those who strictly follow their religions. People who say they have a religion but don't really follow it can't really be considered religious, in my opinion. They just have a religion for the sake of having one. I don't respect those people as much as those who are actually religious.]
I like what you said about respecting people more who are actually religious,you see it the way that it is.I'm a Christian who takes it seriously and it annoys me when others call themselves christians,but they don't really follow it fully.They give the faith a bad name I think&the bible talks about not to be that way.But I wouldn't date some who wasn't religious because we won't be on the same page&my faith is a huge part of my life. - 2 months ago
i think religion is fascinating, but I don't practice one myself, if someone want to bring something new to the table, I'd be fine with that. just so long as it didn't infringe on my right to be an individual. I would happily date a Muslim (I find a lot of Islamic people very attractive) but I wouldn't be willing to walk behind him on the streets or cover my face. if I were in a Islamic country, I would respect their customs and wear the proper apparel, but here in the US or if I'm in say Britain, I would not. i'm very open to other people's views just so long as they aren't trying to impose them on me. I love culture, but not missionaries.
Indeed, religionS are fascinating , a fascinating part of sociology and scial history. I once was in Tunesia during Ramadan and I fasted like they did. I discussed religion with Berber Beduins (Berbers aren't considered to be very religious) in their campment, waiting half a day for a truck to pass by. I was in Cairo (Egypt), at the Al Ahzar (religious) university, just passing by and discussed a whole afternoon about religion with the bearded students. Fascinating indeed. - A month ago
I'm between A and B, because I do believe and a lot people do, and I wouldn't push someone to believe in same thing I do because we are individuals after all with our own choices, but I wouldn't tolerate with someone who would tell me that my belief is wrong or that his belief is the right one. There is no right or wrong, just choice! And somehow I find it hard to find people who would respect my interests and won't try to polish me to their standarts...
Since I'm not particularly religious myself it wouldn't bother me much if their beliefs were different, besides it's always interesting to look at life from a different perspective.
i think love surpasses all...right now I'm head over heels for someone not my religion and I really don't care..in the end of the day I just wana be with him
I'm an atheist, and I can't really actually see myself dating someone who is particularly religious, at all. Maybe someone who believes in God but also evolution and sh*t, but I don't know if I could have a serious relationship with someone who believed anything more than that.
I'd probably date, but I'm not sure how serious it could get in terms of marriage as I would want my children raised in my faith and I wouldn't want any confusion for them.
you MUST have similar values, it's as simple as that. sure, it's great to be open-minded, but when you are with someone who believes in something so strongly and you do not, there are certainly going to be arguments and what fun is that?
i really like being christian and I also respect what others like being but if you assume that this person i`m dating is the one I get married to its a diffirent matter, think of it this way if I married a muslim (muslims hate christians ,islam is a radical relegion)then how about our children what are they gonna be muslims or christians? I never wanna think of marrying someone who contradicts my religion its stupid ,what kind of hell is that?
Wow you need to get your facts straight. Islam is not a radical religion and not all Muslims hate Christians. Sure there are radical Muslims that hate Christians, but there are just as many radical Christians who hate Muslims. Both of those religions teach love and understanding so if you really loved someone don't you think you could put aside the minor differences between your religions? - 2 months ago
She's racist, or at least sounds like a right-wing protestant like those mormons, no one wants to get near them anyways - 2 months ago
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I`m so not racist i`m not a right -wing protestant , i`m a latin christian who fell in love with a muslim 4 years ago it wasn't a problem to him that I was christian but his parents had some serious problems with their son who was dating a christian it was shame to his socail life and he ended up moving to work in dubai while I finished school in a public school in amman where they don't teach christian religion ever since I don't dare to think of a future with a muslim guy in it .btw so srry . - 2 months ago
"muslims hate christians" Muslims who hate Christians disregard the Qu'ran: Qu'ran 29.46 And dispute ye not with the People of the Book, except with means better (than mere disputation), unless it be with those of them who inflict wrong (and injury): but say, "We believe in the revelation which has come down to us and in that which came down to you; Our God and your God is one; and it is to Him we bow (in Islam)." http://www.jannah.org/qurantrans/quran29.html (I read the Books)
Muslims don't hate christians as individuals, actually Quran complimented them as having faith but yet, they've lost the right path, that's all! Islam did allow Muslim men to only marry Christians or Jews for a reason. - A month ago
I don't really have a religion, being native american I just believe everything has life in it and a sort of energy so it doesn't really matter to me. As long as one another can respect their individual beliefs then dating will be fine.
I don't see a problem with it. My girlfriend is Jewish, and I'm christian and we don't mind. I could see a problem if like their views are completely against your beliefs, but otherwise I think it doesn't matter.
I'm a Christian and wouldn't marry a non-believer.
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?" 2 Cor 6:14
Even though the bible warns of not dating/marrying someone who believes as you do, I can't help who I fall in love with. So no, I would not mind dating someone of a different religion. If they are willing to date me, why shouldn't I be willing to do the same?
I'm apatheist (pragmatic atheist indifferent to religion link ) So is my wife.
I'd date a religious girl (I did twice and with one of them we got nowhere and her religion was one of the reasonS ) Marrying her would be a question of a clearly discussed premarital verbal agreement as to which role & place her religion would take in her life and in mine and in that of the eventual children.
I don't really study any religion and I'm no scientist but Buddhism is my choice... because it is simple.. "treat others as you would want to be treated.. be peaceful, do not harm animals no matter how small or insignificant".. that makes sense..
Similar religious beliefs don't guarantee good companionship.. We all want to find the truth.. some find it in religion.. some find it in science.. The problem is extremism either way. I think we should all be open minded and try to understand what others believe.. you don't have to believe it.. just embrace it and let it go if you don't like it.. This is a way to show basic respect towards your common man or woman. I knew this girl who said that she would definitely change a man's mind to believe in what she believes in order for them to have any kind of relationship.. I asked her why? She said "because he has to believe in what I believe or it won't work out".. I explained to her.. "look there are many ways to get through life.. imagine life as a simple math problem.. 2+2 and the solution to this (life) is 4.. Now, 2+2 is only ONE WAY to get to that solution.. Another way is 8/2 which also leads to 4.. Another way is 6 - 2.. which also leads to 4!.. So you see, Life or End of Life is the Solution.. It doesn't matter HOW you get to that solution.. you get there in whatever way is comfortable for you".. And she seemed shocked and didn't want to accept what I had just told her. But I could care less.. as long as she heard it at least once.. I hope she doesn't still think she can change any man's mind to her liking.
Science: lets us interpret the physical world Religion: helps us cope with reality
- The belief that all can be explained by science leaves out the human experience: Emotions, compassion, culture. - At the same time, holding unexamined spiritual beliefs (which are contradicted by logic, evidence and experience), can lock us into fundamentalist cages.
I would not mind dating anyone from any religion .. even someone from no religious affiliation.. Personally, I loathe organized religion but my only limit would be, like mentioned before... extremism either towards science or religion can only lead to harm..
Balance is the key to life.. If we are blinded by the belief that there is only ONE answer (religions vs. science), then it will only take us longer to find the truth.
Since my religion is composed entirely of my own personal beliefs, technically everyone on Earth is "from a different religion". So yes, it's either that or nothing.
im not religous but some of my stupid family is ... I have no problems sexing the other religions but I guess it might be awkward if I came home with a girl with a dot on her head
Please don't be ignorant.. the dot has nothing to do with religion.. it signifies marriage. - A month ago
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Accually dot depends if it is a tilak (Red close to the eyebrows)in the hindu relgion then yes it dose signify marriage.....however if it is a bindi (that can be any colour size or shape on the upper forhead)....then it's a peace of jewelry...however a bindi can also as be simbolized as a third eye...to remind people not to judge the world with their eyes but with their mind.... - A month ago
I sometimes date pagans but for the most part, I don't have sex with people with religious beliefs. They tend to have some serious baggage around sex that usually isn't worth the effort of trying to fix.
I don't see why not. The only thing I would have a problem with is if they started telling me my beliefs are wrong. It would definitely be a plus to be the same religion but as long as they don't make fun of my beliefs its all good
catholic girl: ill give you something to confess to jewish girl: its ok its 100% kosher muslim girl: (I got nothing to say that wouldn't make me sound like a complete ass hole :( ) Buddist girl: I'll enlighten you into nirvana Athesist girl: I'd like preform natural selection with you ;D
got something for most of them... now the other parts about girls... well there's a whole site to figure out those problems. link
For me it would matter more if they were really into religion or not than if they were just from a different religion. I'm an atheist and I would have no problem dating a christian, but I don't think the relationship would work out if she was the kind of person who's going around trying to save everyone. I would actually be really interested to date a Buddhist or a Wiccan though, because those are religions really interest me, even though I don't believe in them myself.
yeh I would date a girl frm diff religion...because her religion wouldn't make any effect on me as I like to go in church,mosque,temple as well as guru dwara tooo...
I would prefer to stay with somebody who was also a christian. Personally I have something against Muslims (its a long story so don't assume I'm just being an idiot) and with a Jew it could get weird if we got married as far as where to take the kids to church.
Why do you have to take your kids to church? why can't you let them decide for themselves what they want to be? - 2 months ago
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The muslims that I've seen in Iraq were weak liars and cowards who beat their wives and treated them like property. That is why I don't like muslims. As far as my kids deciding who they want to be... That's all well and good once they're at an age where they have the capability to make a good decision. As far as religion goes, it is mostly a form of social control that tells people what is good and bad. Its a lot easier to teach kids about right and wrong if you have something to back it up. - A month ago
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You shouldn't really follow negivtive stereotypes and use it as an excuse to hate. When you think about a good percentage of Amarican of wife beaters happen to be White Christians...hmm somthing to think about. eh. I'm not saying that what you've seen in Iraq dosn't happen.(grant you the statistics for domestic violenceare higher). I'm just saying that not all muslims are like that and Domestic violence happens everywhere. - A month ago
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Firstly its not stereotypes its from life experience, big difference. Secondly show me the stats that says a majority of wife beaters are white or christian. Btw I'm a criminal justice major and that's NOT true, so good luck. I never said I hated muslims, but I have something against them and wouldn't date them. Not saying I wouldn't be friends with a muslim guy/ girl. - A month ago
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I understand your point....and I will grant you that the attatudes toword women in the middle east are sick and cowordlly but still my point is that just cause you had a lot bad exprinces with Indaviduals dosn't mean you should Judge the whole group...as for my proof regarding the Christian wife beaters.....75% of all amaricans are white.. and 75% of all amriacans are Christan....so the Chances are higher that a wife beater is a white Christan... - A month ago
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(I ran out of space in my comment)....I'm not saying that all wife beaters in amarica are White Chirstans...I was just making a point..... - A month ago
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I appreciate you getting my point but your stats are off. All things being equal yes they should do it more often, but the real stats show that that type of crime is not most often done by whites. If you said drunk driving I would say, absolutely that is a white male crime, just as murder is a black male crime (both fact not racism), but either way I am getting over my negative feelings but because of possible children I would only date a christian girl. - A month ago
Ah right I just read your comments sorry. Not all Muslims accept domestic violence or violence of any kind. You cannot hate or be against all Muslims because of what's currently going on in Iraq. Whatever goes on there I think is to be blamed on both Muslims and Christians. Its a stupid and pointless war. I'm not saying that you should start dating Muslim girls haha, I just felt the need to comment on what you said about having something against Muslims sorry. - A month ago
Parto, firstly you need to read more carefully and not being so damn sensitive like muslims stereotypically are. As far as my mindset, it is based off what I've seen so can't be helped. Also regarding the war, it is very cliche to say it is pointless but there is a point, though you may not agree with it or think its justifiable. - A month ago
Since I'm Agnostic, I'd date someone from any religion, but if I was religious I'd only date people in my same religion. Similar values, beliefs, etc. are very important in a real relationship.
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