So where do you cut off your 'standards'?

Personality and intellegence is predominantly important to me, being more of an intellectual man. Therefore, standards vary too much from man to man due to their unique personalities. So to be able to generalize or put in a neat label is an ardous feat. I can't stand the shallow, vapid, narcisistic women that predominate society today, not all are just some. But saddly, that's all I atract now having left the millitary in good shape, the women of substance are intimitaded and think I'm just a shallow pretty face. Which by my rant you can tell I'm not . Humor would follow, then looks and personally, sex is important but over time theyll learn what you like and fantasies as a man. And most women will strive to please your needs so that aspect will be mended by the relationship and time. In a nutshell, just my personal tastes in women. Women are like wine, they come in different flavors, shades and textures some men love a davignon others a merlot and some a cabernet. So don't worry you'll find the proper afficionado of you.

Height:
I want someone who's shorter than me. I'm 5'9" or I'm fine with anyone who's shorter than that.
As far as too short, I'm fine with a girl as long as she's still normal height (ie not a dwarf).

Weight:
I agree with benjammin09; there's a difference between a heavy girl who takes care of herself and one who doesn't. Personally, I prefer a girl with a few extra pounds, but I'm fine with anyone who isn't obese or anorexic. That said, some girls look better heavier and others look better skinnier.

Personality:
Bossy is a real deal-breaker. I also prefer a more bubbly, outgoing personality. That said, anyone who's really nice and genuine is good.

Sense of humor:
I don't want a girl to have a raunchier sense of humor than me, but I want her to be fine with me making my potty jokes.

Face:
This one's hard to explain. I usually just see a girls face and either like it or don't. A skinnier face with high cheekbones is always a turn on. Also, full lips. Usually I don't notice much a girls eyes or nose.

Intelligence:
This one's a real dealbreaker. I find smart girls sexy. I want a girl to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation with me without having to talk down to her.

Sexual:
I want a girl to tell me what she wants so I can make my move.

just be yourself. None of this sh*t means anything, it's just a feeling the guy gets when he meets you, just like a girl would get, so stop stressing. Girls have a different outlook on life then men and that's where we differ. Women are content with just hanging out with their men, guys need a more deeper feeling. That's why I think its more difficult for men to fall in love than women. You guys are content with anything, we want it all!

-too short is below 5', although exceptions in this category can be made. above 6' is a little tall but that's just because it makes me feel less empowered. I can get over the feeling.
-i don't like girls that are too thin at all. those supermodels? not all that attractive to me. a little bit, but not really. a curvy balance is great.i think I would have to be emotionally attached to someone, and then they gain the weight for me to stay with them, because I would not want to become attached to someone I was not attracted to. I do not want to have to make that compromise if I don't have to.
-i like girls that are clever, witty, deep thinking, down to earth, and someone who is very open minded. positive attitude is the best. these are the musts.
-i like smart, wacky, or random senses of humor. the only substitute for humor that I will accept is high intelligence.
-i don't know how to describe it, but a cute chin...yeah. I love eyes. they don't have to be big or a certain color, just expressive and kind looking. I'd prefer if she has long eyelashes because they'll look good without makeup. I like mediterranean, latina, mixed, or asian girls. this category is the most flexible though.
-i want a girl who is shy about sex on the surface but is actually a monster. sometimes I want to be dominant, but other times I want her to so f***ing CRAZY on me. ahem* sorry.

so yeah, that's the general outline of my dream girl. =]

Im really tall so unless you ridiculously short I don't care too much on height. (Really short girls are hard to kiss lol) I keep my self in top shape so I expect others to do the same (I am notorious for dragging my lazier friends to the gym). Personaltiy, worldly and likes to try new things, competive and fun to be around. Looks, I like blondes, no idea why, ahtletic frame, that's pretty much it. She has to be reasonably intelligent I don't like dumbing down my conversations. Sense of humour, she does have to be funny, but I like to make people laugh, so if she doesn't understand my jokes or teasing, then there is a problem. Sexual - physcial and confident.

Okay for me height is big, I'm only 5 ft 7 and well it would be hard to date someone taller than me. It depends with weight, because there is a difference between big girls who take care of themselves, and just completely fat. Same with skinny girls, although I don't want stick thin, I want you to look like you eat. For personality, I want someone sponataneous and somewhat talkative since I'm a quiet guy, but not too talkative, and I want them to be smart, and I guess that's what I notice. Also shy can be okay, but not overly where you don't talk to anyone. Sense of humor is great too, make a few jokes, laugh, its okay. As for looks I guess I like looking at their eyes and just the face in general, smile is important too, and eyes that can melt me. As for body stuff, I don't care as long as you look good. I definitely want intelligence, I mean I don't want her just to sit their and laugh and say "thats nice". As for sexual, I don't really know much, except I want someone whose willing to wait.

I don't think I could date a 6'0 giant
Thick girls are good. All in the right proportion also it shows that she takes care of herself.
Laugh...god if she has a good laugh easy way to talk to me. A cute face because even when your body turns to dust and wrinkles a cute face can last just a little longer.
Got to be witty, can tell a few raucous jokes
Intelligence- see this is complicated I've met some...thick headed women that were down to earth. I've also met some smart and sophisticated ladies but superficial.
Sexual: Be open minded I'm pretty open minded. Much prefer physical act than talking...

height: something like between 4'-5'10"(im only 5'6")

weight: heavier than this girl link and skinnier than this chick. link

personality: I notice how sweet she is and if she is kinda shy/innocent but not too much so. I like her to be smart but not conceited or cocky. artistic and be able to really appriceate music(not just "oh yea I listen to whatever" but to pick out intricacies in the music) she's not slutty at all, maybe even a virgin.

as for sense of humor, I like a little bit of sarcasm and the ability to appreciate my stupidass jokes for what they are, (sometimes I say them not becuase theyre acutally funny, but just to amuse myself) she doesn't have to pretend its funny if it didn't make any sense.

face: this varies a lot, but id say my favorte by far is a naturally dark haired girl. especially when she's got long dark eyelashes... oh my god, there's this one girl at my church that when her eyes meet mine, I seriously melt inside. so yea, dark features are sexy as hell. but not when a girl dyes her hair and puts on 67 lbs of eyeliner to look like this. pretty eyes are nice too, nose as long as its not really weird I don't care... I like pretty lips... that's def. a plus. teeth don't have to be super strait or white but that's always nice I guess.

intelligence: I already said that I like a girl whos smart. I don't really mean booksmart though... I could care less what she got on her chemistry exam, I like a girl who is open minded and thinks for herself. not a girl who thinks she's open minded and parades it around like "im so smart and openminded screw you" but like she is intelligent and thoughful.
i also look for a girl who shares my moral and ethical beliefs.

sorry that was so long... but yea there ya go.

I don't think that having standards is being superficial. But at the same time the reality is that love truly is blind.I know that sounds so cliche but its true for me. What I mean is that I can imagine all of these ideal traits about a perfect girl but... Once you start a conversation or just glance at a certain someone youve never met before they might surprise you and blow all of your "standards" out the window. I have found beauty in many different types of women.It all happens at the point of contact.The rest is just a pipe dream.

Height - Don't care

Weight - Nothing extreme (very thin or very fat). That said, I'm more inclined to like a very fat girl then a very thin. I find very fat girls tend to still have pretty faces (dunno why, they just seem to), where as very thin girls are a large turn off.

Personality - I could never go out with a girl I didn't get along with. If she's a bitch I'm gone.

Sense of humor - See above, but I like a girl with the same humor style.

Looks - Love high cheek bones and brown eyes. I also like red hair on girls (I'm a ginger, so does that make me a hair cannibal?). I'm also a sucker for white skin (or even make up). Not quite Gisha girl white, but really close. Might be a fetish.

Intelligence - Without meaning offense, the smarter the better. I want a girl I can talk to, argue with, and discuss, everything that I find interesting. If a girl comes up to me and says "you know, I just read this paper about quantum computers and it's really interesting" I'm in love.

Sexual - I like girls that are prudish 90% of the time, because that 10% they tend to turn into sex demons. One of my ex's was a virgin, and by the time we broke up (friendly break), she was as perverted as me. My current Girlfriend is 'squeaky clean' 90% of the time, but occasionally (and often when I'm least expecting it) does something way out there. EXAMPLE. When we first started going out, she dropped me off home and as I was leaving played "Let me be your dirty fing whore" by machine gun fellatio on the car radio.

thats a lot of questions to answer ... lol
well,
boys have an expectation that the girl should be short, tall, chubby, slim and brilliant and so..
With all these expectations they will never get a girl. It is good to imagine a with all qualities we like only in dreams holding the pillow.
It could be any one of whatever you mentioned (for me the first impression by looking at her face) made me to think about her again and again. Then as we get closer to the girl, we start compromising the other qualities. Yes we will fall in a situation where we start pointing the negatives, but if we really start liking the girl then it really doesn't matter whether she is short or tall. All it matters is whether she is able to change herself to someextent for me.

Hope my comments helps you...

As a general rule, I will f*** anything that moves, as long as she doent have a beard, and nobody finds out. even if she is totally MINGING! I will still f*** her

Preferable shorter than me so nomore than 6'3. And I don't want to have to go on my knees to hug her either

Im more into a girls eyes, hair and face overall. As long as you take some kind of care for your weight like not overeating I'm fine with it. I don't like super skinny girls who eat like birds everyday

I love a girl who is selfless and isn't so fixated on themselves. I don't like girls who just talk nonstop about nothing - its tiring

I like witty humor not stupid humor

Her EYES. The most important feature to any girl for me. Her hair and teeth close second

I like intelligent girls - getting 'laid' isn't what motivates me in searching for a woman. I like having reasonably educated conversations. At the same time, I don't want ALL of our conversations to be like that

I like physical contact more than anything. I like a girl who likes to cuddle and hug and kiss. I don't like a girl when all there is is sex...

I'll start out with the "shallow" mmm. When it comes to height I tend to like short girls but that's not a rule that's gonna stand in the way of the forces of love/lust besides my shortness ha forced me to have amazing charm and personality like many other famous men such as Napoleon. Extra love all the way. To use a phrase that was meant to be sarcastic and uttered by drunk frat boys I like some cushion for the pushin, and looking as well. There is something both comforting and attractive about a woman who is curvy and slightly round. I don't mean fat but perhaps what someone else might call fat. I love a sort of round face with cheeks that stick out a little are a little puffy, that's why I tend to be into Latina native or Asian girls those are all Mongolian traits. Don't have a strong nose of eye color preference. I like long hair but I don't rule ot short hair its a plus. Not gonna date a fake blonde hair dying is not that cool in my book. I am attracted to that mature sexy mama look not look at me I'm like totally gonna hang out at the mall. Sense of humor. A girl who was funny would be interesting, maybe I'd be intimidated, I'd liek to say I wouldn't because it seems a little sexist of me. For sho she's gotta like humor I want her to be caring and loving but not the kind of woman that's gonna try and make me feel bad for the occasional off color joke. Intelligence is very good. I don't want to talk her ear off, I'd like us to take turns talking each others ears off serious funny lovey dovey crazy spiritual theological and fgure out life and then go for an afternoon nap/delight (Ithink we all know what that song was about) Oh she does have to have a heart and de concerned about things. I don't want her to be too happy in the gullible sense. She can not have had some lousy suffering free life. Because a woman like that will be either irritating pitying or insensitive or probably both and bad at making decisions and judgemental of me being a disorganized overeating messy procrastinating eccentric scatter brained stubborn (willing to be the one who lets the boss know the words other employees use to describe him in their heads) poetic horny fool who has made a hobby of checking out girls butts(hey I was looking at her face and hair too geez I see It as appreciating the beauty of gods creation+the hours that girl spends in the bathroom to look this good) is not gonna stop now that he has a boyfriend a regular guy. In a way I am screening based on class. I am not sure my kind of crust will go well with the upper kind of crust. If you hadn't noticed sex is a plus. I am tired of "virgins" because many of them are emotionally slutty and will try to get as much ego boost and break as many mens hearts as possible before anyone gets to break their hymen. In the context of a strong relationship sex helps build and maintain a strong bond. I want a girl who wants it doesn't use sex as a bargaining chip but loves to be wanted and had

Physically: I don't really have a standard. Maybe someone who doesn't have some freakish disease.
Personality: if she spends most of her time being a nice, respectful person (to everyone, not just me), then that'd probably be my cutoff. No bitches for me.
Intellect: this is my standard. I generally feel no attraction to anyone who isn't smart enough for my liking. Generally, my liking is someone at least as smart as I am. Stupid girls get boring fast.
Sex: sex is always nice. If she isn't going to be sexual, though, she can't complain when I masturbate.

I like girls that are smart enough to not judge me when I do silly things or I get caught up in awkward moments.

My answer to your questions, in order.

At least 4'8 - 5'5 No freakishly short or tall women.

Under 135 A little "cushion" is okay for her curves but no more. If she moves her arm and the skin in her brachial region jiggles after she stops I won't touch it.

Adventurous, Sexual, Confident, Likes To Party, Relaxed, Motivated, Ambitious, And can keep me guessing without playing transparent, moronic head games. I hold women with careers and education in a higher bracket. To clarify this; they must have the Ambition and Motivation to move themselves toward these goals. Women who tell me that they're going to be (insert a bobble headed far too advanced for their level education or career here) come off as idiots to me.

Don't Care. As Long As She Has One.

Blonde Or Black Hair, Blue Eyes. Slightly Upturned Nose. A Chubby/Round Face Is A Deal Breaker. Naturally tan is definitely my preference, lighter skin I can look past, pale is a definite no. Should be physically fit.

MUST I repeat MUST Be Intelligent. If I just want to be satisfied, then it's a matter of finding a "thing" to play with long enough to make "it" like me. Let's face it, there are any number of vegetables out there that would give the same overall sensation (physically as well as emotionally). So she HAS GOT to be intelligent enough to keep up with me.

Physical, Talk Is Cheap, Actions Express Feeling Far More Accurately. I will not date a prude, nor will I date a whore.

Enough said...

It's ALL a matter of preference, but if you had to ask:

I'd want a girl who was up to my nose, about. Not too tall, not too short, it's definitely a must, and I'm a 5'8" guy too, so.

I lift, simply put. She should care for her body as much as I care for mine. Again we're talking standards here, not shallowness. It's OK to want something, then look for it specfically.

I fall for girls who are VERY well rounded. What does that mean exactly in my world? An adventurer, an optimist, someone who likes to travel (and in this case, is preferably European like I am, :) ).

I'm not much of a "face" guy, I tend to notice body's first off, and then I get to know the person behind the body. This one could definitely be considered shallow however, because she needs to be at least fairly cute looking, sue me, I have my preferences, only human, hah.

Intelligence is KEY for me, she needs to be aware of what's going on, and really into her future, whether that be a job, or a role, whatever, it does not matter. Bonus points for speaking multiple languages, preferably ones with R-rolling, mhm.

As far as sexuality is concerned, I don't look to get into anyone's pants, nor am I looking for someone to get into mine. It'll come, with time. I do enjoy a whole lot of flirting, cuddling, kissing, etc though, no doubt about that.

Hopefully I helped.

Height - I perfere someone smaller but It wouldn't bother me if they where taller.

Weight - as long as I can get my arms around her to hug her I don't care,

Personality - Girls that have a sense of humor and love to laugh and smile.

Sense of humor - I would like her to be fun, make a few jokes laugh at my crappy jokes once in a while lol.

Looks - Only major turn off I have is lots of acme. I don't mind if she has a little.

Intelligence - As long as she has common sense I don't care if she is a rocket scientist, or works as a Janitor.

Sexual - Yes I would like her to express herself and tell me what she likes.

not into the slutty wild girls as they attract to much attention and I like them to be smaller than me <6ft 2 inch

If I don't want to have sex with her with alcohol in my system, then I don't touch her.
If I wouldn't have sex with her in the morning once all her preening has gone to pot, then she gets a ONS attempt.
If I'd have sex any time, any place, then that my standard.

There is nothing specific to what can create this effect. Though general feminine charm is the best option - curvaceous but trim figure, long silky natural hair, sexy form fitting clothes showing a little skin, a little makeup, flirty/girly personality.

height wise as long as she's shorter than me
weight I don't care, honestly I like chubbier girls anyways
personality wise I notice how a girl carries herself...if she kinda flirty and if she's funny
funny as in she can make funny jokes, most people don't know how
intelligence is more of her personal business, she can't be dumb but if she was like average idrc
i would like a girl that does it but only if she wants to...girls that feel pressured aren't ready and therefore shouldn't be doing that stuff

Basically, if a girl isn't a whore, stuck up, high maintenance I would give her a chance. I don't wanna go out with a girl right when I see her cause I don't really base it off of looks. If they have a nice personality then I like them. Lots of hot girls have crappy personalities, that in turn makes them ugly. An extra is also a girl who knows what guys are good and what guys are assholes. Girls who hang out with the "right kind" of guys are usually more attractive because they don't waste their time with immature, ridiculous guys. They wanna hang out with nice, focused guys with way better personalities than the immature douchbag gus

If I really care for her, and she doesn't fit perfectly into my preferences, I found that my preferences seem to change to suit her... its weird, I have no clue how that works.

I think the only time I put a "cut off" point, is when something about her totally turns me off and I am unable to look pass it.

the biggest and most important standard I've got for women; don't be a whore.

Height, weight, and a lot of factors are utterly negotiable. Every time I try to say "I like only X type of girl," the universe conspires to throw somebody into my environment that totally contradicts everything I just decided, and is yet somehow totally hot. So I try not to make grand pronouncements anymore because I just look stupid. :)

About the only hard cut-offs for me would be:
* totally asexual (because, what's the point? "Friend" and "girlfriend" are different things.)
* completely unintelligent (because even bunny sex eventually ends, and OMG then what? :D )
* smokes (because I'd like to kiss that mouth, and gagging in the process might distract me.)

Everything else is case-by-case.

5'2 to 5'6 ( see I'm only 5'8 so if she's wearin heels and is taller than me that's a no go)
i prefere the athletic build (but I don't mind a soft chick either)
intelligence/humor (I hate stupidity... and you can't have fun with someone who's dull)
i'm all over the board... I love comedy and I don't care if people are laughing at me or with me
as long as they're laughing
eyes/teeth(pretty almond shaped eyes with a beautiful smile)
as previously stated... intelligence is paramount haha
a little bit of both... communication is key... cause if you don't know what a person likes you can't give it to them and if you don't give it to them they'll find it somewhere else

This can really vary from male to male. From my experiences, the first thing that catches the eye is the face, for me that would be one that exudes peace and grace. After the face, the body is passively taken into consideration over some time. Height, weight, general physical features are found attractive by different men depending on (usually subconscious) preferences. Intelligence and personality are the most important things to me, but attractiveness in physical form is also very important (just not the most important).

If men are looking for women on the foundation of sexual desire, then they are being self-seeking, shallow pigs. Of course sex is important, but that is something that should be shared with someone who fulfills all other parts of you as a mate (intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, etc.). Men can override their original aesthetic preferences if they care about a woman enough. Actually, I've found that as they are around and care more for a woman, their preferences shift completely to find that woman extremely beautiful. Physical attraction is a catalyst to a relationship, but it isn't the substance of it.

Ultimately, even if many man are completely unaware, or won't admit it, they want a woman in their life that they can consider their confidant, their best friend, a right hand, someone who cares for their wellbeing and estate, and desires their success. Beauty preferences will be sacrificed (initially, but in time will simply reconstruct itself in the womans favor) by a rational man who knows a good woman.


-Count D.

well I don't have a set type eg blone 5'5 100lbs green eyes...i will date anyone from 4'8" to 6'8" 100lbs to 200lbs but the first meeting is all about chemstry - animal attraction. Only once this connection has been formed will I (or anyone) start to get to know the personality / intelligence.

If a guy is just looking to get laid, it is almost entirely physical but then the standards will be lower than looking for a girlfriend.

You know, it really does not matter where the other person cuts off their standards.

What matters is whether you accept their standards or not.

Think about that for a good 10 minutes and I promise you will be a different person.

height I'm 6'2 so I don't care
weight Everyone likes a hot bod, but over wieght does not bother me to much, fat and obese does
personality If there funny and playful like me, that is great.
sense of humor Just someone who laugh easily.
looks That's a hard one to define. A friendly face with energetic eyes, (I know that does not make to much sense but it is hard to define for me)
intelligence If they have some wit and charm it would be nice. If you can't hold a intelligent conversation with someone is does not bode well for anything to serious.
sexual Once I get to know you, aha. Someone who can really enjoy it and get into it

height - under 5'8 but over 5'4
weight- don't care, better not be skin and bones, so ill take a few extra pounds you no
persoantliy- be funny, have fun, be cool and laid back and don't take yourself so f***in seriously and dotn bitch at me for every little thing f***
sense of humor- laugh at my jokes that is sencre you no, no fake laughs, I hate that, if you can't tell me jokes, please make me smile
looks- just a good face, ill notice a good face before anything else, I'm a breast man my self
intellegence- be smart but don't be a condecending douchebag about it, don't talk down to me, but please be smart above anything else, say something intresting please don't bore me and be stupid
sexual- when I'm in the mood :)

i like my gurls shorter than me. she would have to be extremely sexy for me to be with a chick my height. I'm 6'3. I like chicks thick! small waist thick thighs phat booties (kanye's gurl). love straight long hair. hate short hair. nice soft skin, and very feminine. and she most get all my jokes haha she can't be stupid because I play on witty humor with social references. and she must be very sexual! down for whatever just no anal AT ALL. or anything weird. and she has to be down to wait till she is married.

All guys have different standards. My personal standards:
Height: a girl taller is a massive turn off for me lol. Mostly because my sisters use to always tower over me.

Weight: A girl that I can see the ribs makes me sick lol. As for being "extra loving" a thick girl is perfectly fine to me. It's generally when the girl walks that the floor shakes that I cut it off ;D. A chubby girl is about right for me.

Personality: Generally a positive, nice, and funny girl. I love any kind of humor!

Looks: Hair color or size doesn't matter (I do however find long hair attractive), eye color also doesn't matter (however I do love clear eyes), having ALL front teeth lol, (don't ask why, but when I see a girls smile and she's missing teeth I cringe) lips don't matter, scars don't matter, ears don't matter, cheeks don't matter, and neck doesn't matter.

Intelligence: Close or more intelligent than me. A girl with a low intelligence makes me feel guilty and I'm one of those rare guys that doesn't mind the woman being right all the time.

Sexual: I love a girl who's openly sexual. It sucks when you're with a girl and she's scared to do or say anything in bed. The best sex I ever had was when she told me everything to do. Take it from me ladies a guy wants to know what you like. (as long as the affinity isn't toward pain or castration. Of course some guys like pain though.)

Everything is a key factor, in a relationship. looks fade but personality can make up for it. 0 - 4 size is what guys find hot (80% of males) because society built that image of females. Plus a well toned female can keep up in the bed room. emotional and physical I look for

-Height is not a big concern. Although I've never been with a girl my height and think I might enjoy it.
-weight, there is a limit (per my standards). a chubby tummy doesn't bother me, but if you look like you're pregnant when you really not can be too akward. And can make intimacy even unfomfortable (and this is speaking from experience).
-personality is everything, and can make all the rest irrelevant. a light-hearted, fun-loving, girl who loves to be happy and smile can really lift the spirits
-looks (face), is a big deal as well. well groomed, if you need make up use it (some girls honestly don't need any, and some wear way too much), but much of it's in the eyes. the eyes are like a window to the soul.
-intelligence is a must. the ability to sit back with a woman and have a conversation that we can both keep up with each other can be so exhilerating (converstaion can be about anything from dumb subjects to politics).
-Sexuality, well honestly I do enjoy a girl who likes to talk dirty but also enjoy getting down to it. My main thing (personally) is that there is flirtation and intimacy.

Hope this helps...

First off, you must realize that this question will only ever apply to each man seperately as there are no general standards for all guys.

My preferences are as follows:

Height - don't care at all.

Weight - I much prfeer a skinny girl with nice hips and at least some breasts of some kind, but if I loved someone or just really thought they were amazing I would let it slide.

Personality - good tempered, modest, easy going, intelligent, someone pleasant to be around.

Humor - I like clever humor rather than laugh at anything stupid silly humor.

Face - large eyes, either level or slanting outer-side down a little, any colour can be great. Soft lips, not too thin, not huge. noses are hard to say, different ones each add their own strong sense of character. it is a little much to go into bone structure.

intelligence - as I said, very important. I would have sex with a girl who wasn't smart, but I wouldn't date her. sounds harsh, but I can't be around some dumb girl all the time, how could I ever spend time with her? real good guys want intelligence, TRUST ME. if they don't care then they are jerks who just want the sex.

sexual - I'm into all kinds of stuff sex wise. I like when we talk sexy, I like all sorts of physical stuff, whatever happens to turn on each guy is different. role playing is fun. I like pretending she is a little school girl and I am her teacher for something and she gets naughty and tries giving me a blowjob for her first time and she pretends she doesn;t know what she is doing and just experimenting. wow, really turns me on. girls think that if they are unexperienced they look stupid but trust me, it is a huge turn on to have a girl play with you penis like it was the first time she ever explored one.

ask me anything else if you want.

I don't really have a standard like "oh she's gotta be at least this tall or she can't weigh more than this many pounds."

As long as I find her attractive in some way (looks, personality, whole package), I would be interested in pursuing further.

If a girl or guy goes through life with standards that are far to elaborate...he/she is not willing to ever accept the imperfections that makes everyone unique.

If 'standards' apply to looks then the person is shallow.

There is nothing wrong with being a little shallow, we all need to feel good about out partners and choosing based on attraction is always shallow, but I recommend it. Its only negitively shallow when we already had a partner we are seriously into but a person gets "greedy" and wants someone else just because they look better, are younger, richer or whatever floats your boat as the saying goes.

Its a deal breaker if a woman is shallow in the second sense. Its no problem in the first sense.

Tall is good, 5'9 minimum.
Thin is good, but not "skinny" (this only matters at first, all women become overweight eventually).
Care and love in the personality.
I like a girl that can joke and I love the girl that knows when to make me laugh (i'm thinking of her right now, just like every day).
A thin, long and kind face (eyes and lips very important, looks wise).
Inteligent very, very, very vital (though I am lead to believe most men follow their lower regions like a lamb).
Don't trust any girl who is too obviously sexually aware.

Curiousity satisfied :).

Height: Above 5'-1" I'm tall, so no upper limits.
Weight: Curvy like a woman should be is good, but never never FAT or to Skinny with no tone.
Personality: Likes to have fun but it not a flake.
Humor - goes with the fun.
Looks -- Face, breasts, Hips, Legs -- they all count. If you are very strong in one area, it can make up for weakness in another.
Intelligence - depends. Not necessary, but can be good if it ads to fun & fortune. Not a priority, except for insecure guys who can't find other intelligent people to associate with.
Sexual - talk with action is good. A girl that is a slut, but only for you and/or for what you like, is the best.

1. I'm 6'3'' so in my standards she should be at least 5'5'' or 5'6''. Anything taller than that is good
2. If I want to be with her just for the night, she has to be thin, but if I'm thinking serious business, then I don't mind some 'extra love' as you say. As long she is not really way to fat
3. First thing I notice is is she easy to talk to. For me that is very important. If she is easy to talk to, then conversation is never boring even if we disagree most of the times. Of course, that about some important issues we have to have similar oppinion
4. As long as she has a sense of humor, its good
5. Eyes. Don't really know why
6. Intelligence is important if (as I said in the 2. answer) I'm thinking serious business. If its a one night stand, then less brain is actually a good thing. But ONLY in that case
7. Any guy would rather be physical, but it depends on guys level of emotions for the girl. If he loves her, then he is willing to wait and just talk about it as long as it takes. If he doesn't care, there is no talk that will keep him there with her if there is no action

1. My height or shorter than me is perfect.
2. I'm most attracted to girls within a normal weight range.
3. An easygoing, lighthearted personality will get me every time. Good conversations with comfortable non-awkward silences. Responsive to my flirting (while dating) and my affection (once in a relationship).
4. I like ironic humor and intelligent comedy. I love it when I can make a girl laugh, and I hate it when I can't.
5. It's hard to pin down the kind of face I find most attractive; I guess I gravitate towards girls with soft, rounded and youthful facial features, and sometimes girls who are more "exotic" looking.
6. I'd get along just fine with a girl of normal intelligence who I can occasionally talk to about very deep intellectual subjects.
7. I'd appreciate a few hints, physical and verbal, thrown my way. Nothing too brash or forward, but something that I, as a laid-back and kinda shy guy, might feel comfortable to responding to in kind.

Height:
Don't care. Unless you got dwarfism, maybe.

Weight:
Anorexic or Overweight. A natural middle, a little tummy is fine.

Personality:
Demanding, bossy, bitchy. Anything else I would probably help her change.

Sense of Humour:
Doesn't really matter unless she's a brick wall.

Looks:
Doesn't matter a lot but a nice round booty sells it. A pretty face gets me staring.

Intelligence:
I'm sure most guys do want to get laid. But I'd want someone who I can have an educated conversation with. I don't want to talk about how much you or this guy got hammered last night 24/7.

Sexual: It doesn't matter to me, just be open with your feelings.

height: Some guys are intimidated by a taller girl but not me. I've been with girls who have been from four to five inches taller me and had the time of my life.

weight: I suppose I've been maintaining a double standard. I'm overweight but am desperately trying to lose it. I've always been more attracted to slim girls while I have seen girls carry possibly 15-20 pounds overweight and somehow carry it very well still looking attractive. At the moment I've been wooing, flirting and trying very hard to develop a solid foundation for a long term relationship with a girl who is at least 20lbs overweight. Why?...I don't know. It's like I've been shot with cupids arrow. She has something I need and I must be with her.

personality Guys perhaps will always be visually oriented. I'm no exception. Many years ago my sister has all these pretty girls for friends. It wasn't until one of her pretty friends did something that I knew that I wanted to date her. Personality is a factor. Her sense of humor would have to mesh with mine.

looks On a scale of 1 to 10 her face would have to demand a rating of at least a six. Natalie Portman is a six.

intelligence The girl I've referenced above has impressed me enough that I believe she's very smart and can mostly keep up with me. It is an important factor for me I've realized.

sexual I can't speak for other guys but I've sowed enough wild oats and want the ltr over just sex.

First off, I'd like to say that I don't think that "shallow" exists. We're all aware of physical beauty.. in that sense we are all shallow. People who date the ugly people often do so because a) they don't care, or b) they have no other choice. It's not a virtue to date ugly people any more than it is to date attractive people. Who among us would buy a clunker of an automobile just so we could brag that we weren't shallow when it comes to automobiles? Does anyone purposefully use an old computer, simply because it affords them the enviable position of being able to say that they aren't one of those shallow losers that needs a nice, shiny computer made in this decade? Of course not. The same logic applies to people.

When we have a choice, we do and SHOULD take the best that is available.

Height- Preferably shorter than me.. I'm 6', so that's not hard, but it's certainly not a concrete requirement.

Weight- No twigs or whales. Skinny and fat are subjective terms, but people should be *capable*. I don't have any interest in someone who is so weak they can't lift their own suitcase, or so fat they can't lift their own bodyweight.

Personality- Definitely varies, I don't have any particular favorite 'types'. I do however avoid materialistic girls, and overly moral girls (theists in particular). I suppose if it had to be narrowed down, it'd be.. the art girl. They're usually creative enough that they don't need to buy all of the latest clothing, and open-minded enough that they don't need to swallow antiquated moral sentiments in order to have a productive life.

Humor- Nothing is off limits. They have to be able to handle that coming from me, and hopefully keep up.

Looks- Average is fine. I personally hate anything more than a little makeup, and usually prefer even less. Ever wake up next to a girl the night after, when her makeup is gone, her hair is a mess and her breath stinks? Yeah. It's a rude awakening. I'd rather know and be attracted to what they REALLY look like, than bed some wannabe-barbie and get the proverbial crap scared out of me the next morning.

Intelligence- I like to think of myself as someone capable of unique thought (at least as unique as one can get on a heavily-populated planet, in the midst of an infinite universe). I'd hope any gal I'm dating would be equally capable. Talking about something, only to realize they're completely clueless -- always a letdown. I love to argue.

Sexual- I'm an open person. I don't mean to imply open relationships, although that's a possibility, just that I don't shrink back from sex. Or anything else, really. A girl who is incapable of talking about or doing anything remotely sexual is probably not a good match for me.

Average looks are fine, healthy weight is great. No dim bulbs, no Christians, and no barbies.

I wouldn't consider dating what I considered to be lower than a seven, and I wouldn't consider having sex with what I considered to be lower than a six. 1 Being The Elephant man with breast Surgery and 10 being Emma Watson.

this is a great question mgolden1

and its great that you have an open mind so you can get what guys really think



Height
- It can be odd to have a girl who is taller than the guy or a girl that is way shorter but I think most guys don't really care about this factor as long as she is beautiful and in proportion. Unless she's a midget or a behemoth not many guys say ' wow she's super hott, too bad she's too tall! '

Weight
- Well This is the area where guy can be seen as more superficial. Being overweight is associated with being in bad health. stretch marks and rolls look unsightly, and it can diminish the feminine figure which us guys are attracted to. How many men of value do you see walking about with fat women. you see the famous the rich and the powerful, with their thin gf's and wives but not often with fat ones and there's a reason for that. Most guys who go for larger women are guys with a fetish for a big woman or men who simply cannot get better, but believe me they would if they could.

Intelligence and a sense of humour
- This depends on what the guy wants from the girl. They are only important if you are going to be spendng a lot of time with the girl. IF a girl wants a relationship then ssebetter be packing these qualities. We can't be with someone who we can't joke around and have fun with nor someone that cannot stimulate us mentally. If you are not fun or smart, but you are beautiful, then yo are just for sex and nothing else as that's the only redeming quality provided.

Looks
- With attraction men value 80% a womans looks and only 20% social value including things like skills, money and status. Women tend to be the reverse. So its not too shallow that men go for looks first. These are very important. But for the most desired guys, a woman having a beautiful appearance is the minimal prerequisite she must have before he even considers her. He will want her to be fun and intelligent too so this is not shallow. What would be shallow is if he cared about her looks but didn't care about her personality flaws, dullness, or lack of intelligence.

Sexual
- I think that this varies from guy to guy. different people have different desires but I think that most guys would rather be having the sex rather than talking about having sex lol


FYI
- guys have a scale from 1-10 of a girl's hottness. Usually the scale is based purely on the physical but some guys include the whole package. The deal breaker usually comes around where she gets to the point where getting with her, even just for sex is not worth it, and this point is usually below the 5 point. many guys won't even get with a 5, but a 5 is the worst a girl can possibly before she is 'not doable' anymore

Height- any shorter than 4'6 will give me back problems so I try to stay above that mark
weight- less than 130 lbs is attractive, or a healthy weight per basis
personality- I like funny and flirty girls
sense of humor- I like clean humor that shows confidence. Not someone that puts me down
looks- Eyes being different (I like different color eyes that are catchy.. I get lost in them)
intelligence- I love a girl that applies her intelligence, not just the fact that she has it.
sexual- I'm attracted to girls that aren't shy of the bedroom. That can appreciate what I do for them and then reciprocate actions.

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Every guy is different and has a different set of standards but that doesn't make him shallow just because his standards are set at thin, blonde, big boobs... etc.

My view on standards is what a guy likes in a girl or their idea of a perfect woman.

At the end of the day, you set your standards up for a certain person physically but it doesn't stop you from talking to the people that don't fit into your physique barrier. At the end of the day it is the personality that matters on who you will fall in love with. The looks just help you get there...

The shallow men are the ones that won't talk to the people that don't fit in their barrier and they'll probably go for someone on looks even though they're a cold hearted person in personality wise.

This generally applies for both guys and girls to be honest.

Every man is different. I define standards as more like: The bad habits a female has, can I live with that or is that too much to bare? Example:
Height: doesn't matter
Weight: Callista Flockhart - Queen Latifa
Personality: Can joke and be serious and verbalize which she's doing. Can make intelligent decisions and can think independently. Must be able to carry on a conversation and doesn't get offended if a guy is telling female jokes. *females do it too*(double standard)
Looks: Eyes and smile is a great plus for me. People can't help how they were born, but hiding behind makeup ALL the time is a possible sign of insecurity. Body wise: just as long as you take care of yourself and are happy about how you look...Ok.
Intelligence: If you are smart as hell...Great. But don't rub it in and keep trying to "one up" other people. If you're not the brightest crayon in the box, or are a little clumsy, don't bash yourself and say you're stupid...Ask questions if you don't know. Remember, a stupid question is a question not asked.
Sexual: A female that knows what she will and will not do and is forward about it is a plus for me. Tell me what you like and don't like and I will do the same. Expressing verbal sexuality is ok and physical. There is always a time and place though.

All of this is my personal opinion and is not meant to offend or embarrass anyone.
I hope this gives you an idea or answers some of your questions. Please let me know.

I honestly don't care as long as a girl is cute. I love big boobs and the girl I am super crushing on right now has an ok size and I don't care. I love busty women but for some reason I seem to always fall for petite girls so my standards probly die off after any conversation about standards and what I think would be the perfect girl cause you never know who you'll fall for

honestly idont really care too much about those things,
the one thing that attracts me is a irls self respect, and enough of it to want to look her best and treat her body to its rightfully desrved level and keep herself fit...but remember to be yourslef otherwise nothing else that you do will ever matter.
hope that helped a little

I think you get the idea from the "honest" answers in here. Face, hair, height, etc. When it comes to weight one dude used the word "balloon." I think that's a good description. Let's face it... there is a point at which a girl is just plain cut off from consideration. Skinny is never a problem... except in rare cases where a girl loses so much weight that her cheeks are sucked into her face and her 3 inch arms are ripped muscle. Beyond that a girl's weight might be broken down into categories. There's skinny, which means a girl has a flat, toned body. There's average, which means she's a little pudgy, but her tummy isn't rolling or anything. There's heavy which means she's fat enough to cause her tummy to stick out and fold, and her face looks less appealing because of the changing shape. And there's "balloon" which means a girl is so big that her face and body have changed so much that they no longer look attractive. I should point out that balloons usually weigh well over 200 pounds, at which point they don't need us to tell them that they are heavy and should do something about it. By that point it's not about looks anyway. It's about getting winded walking up a flight of stairs, your back freezing up from standing on your feet, and the surgeries you're going to have to replace joints that can't hold you anymore. Oh, and attitude is HUGE. Nobody likes a 8*+<#.

height (no shorter then 5ft &no taller then 6ft)
weight (no skinnier then Ashley Tisdale & must NOT be fatter then the woman in this youtube video
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personality (how friendly she is & how non-judgemental she is.What I like most is a great sense of humor & a big heart & open-minded

sense of humor(she should be sarcastic & she should no when not to laugh at someone)
looks ( big lips & big eyes because they're irresistible & must have long hair)
intelligence(I don't care how smart she is I just want a woman that's funny & knows how to have fun without alcohol
sexual(I like a woman to talk dirty just like the pornstars first and get physical at the same time)

My cutoff is simple. "You will be judged by how you treat the least amongst us".

height (how tall or short is too tall or short?)

As long as she is shorter then me.

weight (do all guys want thin girls or could

Now I like my girl to have a healthy weight.

personality (what do you notice first, what do you like most about a girls personality?)

I want her to have a over all happy personally and one that can make me laugh is a BIG turn on!

looks (face, what features do you like best and why?)

Looks are defined differently to everyone and so I would like to just pick a word.I like CUTE girls!(Just,because I think a girl is cute doesn't mean someone else will)

intelligence (do you even care or do you just want to get laid?)

Common Sense is about it.(I don't need a super smart girl,so avr is enough)

sexual (do you want a girl to talk about being sexual with you or would you rather be physical or what?)

This would be allow to connect more,because I wanna please her as much as I can and understand her more mentally and physically.


Also sometimes it can just be random,so it can be totally different,because most of the time people don't know what they want.


Done!

She should look like Jennifer Aniston

Well I'm attracted to girls that are...

- Shorter than I am.
- I like thinner women, but I love curves... Curvy yet fit :)
- A very nice girl that is easy to talk to and that cares about me.
- Yes, a girl that can make me laugh and is charming
- Looks? Brunette, beautiful brown eyes that I can get lost in, nice teeth/lips... I love a more exotic looking woman too, like latina women, but that's not a requirement obviously.
- Yes I love an intelligent girl
- Sexual stuff? I want to hold off till marriage, but I definite want a girl that I think is very sexy but can wait for me. I trust she'd do the same...

That's MY perfect girl... :)

Height - I'm 6'2 and find I'm attracted to girls that are shorter than me.. it just doesn't feel right looking up to kiss a girl.. plus smaller girls fit in my arms better. I tend to look for girls that are 5'5>5'10

Weight/Fitness - a girl with a good BMI is a good turn on, I'm a fairly active bloke, always on the go; trail-bike riding, sporting, fishing, camping, swimming, if a girl can't keep up.. that's just not cool, I need someone that can get out there and keep up, if not go harder then what I'm doing. (not saying I'm a buff jock type of guy, but I like being active). I was once seeing this larger girl (she had a bf.. but we hung out just as much) and found that she just couldn't keep up with my antics, much rather prefer someone who can stick by my side & laugh along with me.

Personality/Humor- I like the family orientated kind of girl, I would much rather meet someone at a backyard barbecue then at a bar. Someone who just likes to chill out every now and then and is not to "loud".

Looks- as I said in the Weight/Fitness part, someone with a good BMI is already scoring points, physical looks don't matter as long as they look like a female.

Intelligence- Intelligence isn't really a matter, one of my best female friends who is 21 has shocking spelling, but with our relationship I think that is kind of cute, however common sense is essential. BTW if she knows how to play a musical instrument.. that's an immediate turn on.

Sexual- Sad to say.. I'm 22 and havn't had sex in 3 years.. not that I can't get it but I'm one of those few guys that finds it just as intimate to curl up on the couch or in front of a fire & hold that special someone. this is not an issue with a relationship of mine.

Yes.. I am kind of picky.. that's why I have been single for the last 6 years.. but I can't just change my standards. but hey.. all I ask for in a girl is to notice me for me.

height (how tall or short is too tall or short?)
at least 5'4" (i'm 6'0")

weight (do all guys want thin girls or could you fall for a girl with some extra love?)
within healthy bmi (health issues is another thing)

personality (what do you notice first, what do you like most about a girls personality?)
cool yet different (too typical is too predictable)

sense of humor (what kind of humor do you like girls to have?)
as long as she knows how to smile (if I live long enough to see cyborgs, then I'll have to get one)

looks (face, what features do you like best and why?)
4+ out 10 (10 being REALLY HOT)

intelligence (do you even care or do you just want to get laid?)
she was born with a brain and I'd like for her to use it (even more problems if your with a person that's dumb as a door nail)

sexual (do you want a girl to talk about being sexual with you or would you rather be physical or what?)
currently... some one has stolen my penis and my sex life is more boring than watching grass grow, anything is better than nothing (preferably sexually active)

height : taller then 5'5''. I'm 6'2 so a short girl means I have to get on my knees to kiss her.
weight : chubby is good. Don't like skinny girls, and obese women remind me of my mom.
personality : Wild girls are amaizing. They keep things interesting. I'm not talking party girls but a girl who will get kicked out of places with you and laugh about how p*ssed off the rent-a-cop got.
sense of humor : she has to have a sense of humor. The darker the better. I've been known to tell a lot of inapropriate jokes so if she gets upset over sex jokes, or racial jokes, or dark jokes then there's no future.
looks : pink hair and piercings is a plus.
intelligence : at least smart enough to hold a conversation with to where I don't have to be talking like I'm talking to a 5 year old.
sexual : openly sexual is good. Not slutty but at the same time someone who knows that sex is natural and isn't afraid to talk about it or try new things.



side note... has anyone else noticed that all the guys are like "sex: yes please" and the girls are more conservative about it.

You can get to know a girl, and then get emotionally attached to her. Then it doesn't matter anymore, because at that point she is the only thing on your mind. Personality is important and is a deal breaker for me. If I can't have an interesting conversation with a girl, because she is so clueless about everything and her vocabulary is comparable to that of a 10 year old, then she's out.

She also has to have a sense of humor, because if she takes every smart ass remark offensively, then she is not pleasant to hang around. She has to know how to laugh, but unfortunately there are many girls who don't know that.

1. Anywhere from 5'0 to 6'8. Yes I do like Tall women.

2. Few extra pounds is sexy. As long as she can still wear jeans lol there should be no problem.

3. This is a tough one because I have a soft spot for both outgoing and shy girls. My ex- was great because she could be really outgoing with everyone but when she talked to me alone she would always get shy. Its fine if she's outgoing just as long as she isn't a constant complainer or pesamist. Shy girls I like because they are more sensitive and personal which I like to an exstint.

4. I like girls who will make occasional jokes I don't mind if its at my expense. And an occasional laugh at my jokes as well lol.

5. Obviously if she has a very good looking face I will be sold, but I have found out a lot of times those women aren't the nicest. Only thing I can say that is a big turn off is a girl who uses a lot of makeup, a little bits nice but a lot I don't care for. Personaly I would date just about any girl regardless of what her face looks like as long as she isn't wearing a ton of make up or has an abundance of facial piercings.

6. As long as she has common sense I don't mind.

7. Maybe not right after we first meet but I would like her to openly speak to me about what she likes and maybe talk dirty to ;).

I think this is a question that will vary between men, just as it likely does between women. When it comes to things like height and weight I cannot equivocably say that I have a definite mold. I have dated tall thin girls, taller than me (I find tall girls attractive). I have also date girls who were shorter than me and had a bigger frame than your stick thin model type.

Physical looks are all to the eye of the beholder, but I would say some general standards do apply. I haven't met many healthy people who are attracted to people of a seemingly unhealthy lifestyle (i.e. you don't see many non smokers with smokers, and you don't see many track stars with obese people). If you were to ask me what first attracts my attention towards a girl I would say hair. Hair frames a face, and its unique to each person. Curly hair vs. long hair vs. different colors - they all project a different aura. Other guys may give you something different (and don't be surprised, were not as stereotypically drawn to "the goods" as pop culture might portray us to be).

The threshold for other things you mentioned - intelligence, sexuality, sense of humor, personality - are all, in my own opinion, largely based upon those same factors within a guy. A sexually inexperienced guy may like a woman who is sexual, or he may favor someone who is new to things just like him.

If you were to ask me my personal preferences on those things: I like a girl who has a body frame that is attractive, healthy, and physically comfortable for me to hold. I like a girl who has gorgeous hair and an attractive face. She has to have a personality that is out going but not overbearing, show interest in me, and she has to be tolerant of my corny, quirky, and unique sense of humor. I like a girl who is smart, but one who isn't into all the geeky things I enjoy (I am a tech savvy, political junky, with a love for baseball and have a keen interest in law). I think when a girl has an interest in something that I can learn from it makes things more interesting -- but cautious note, a girl who is so in love with her passions that she is distracted from everything else is a turn off. Sexually, I want a girl who is open and sexual -- but in a way that is relationship forming. I want her to talk to me about sex, but in a way that is respectful of our individual past experiences.

most physical requirements for me are minor. Honestly the main things that turn me off from a girl, are being severely overweight, and horrible deformities, I guess you could call them...like for instance I know a girl with a GIANT MOLE on the side of her face that has a lot of hair growing out of it...and I just can't get past that...

As far as personality, I like a girl who is, a bit strong, a girl who isn't completely down on herself, girls who for instance always think they are fat, or ugly despite being skinny, or gorgeously beautiful. Even if they say it just to get a little attention, it gets petty after a while. Her sense of humor is important, as 90% of what I say is meant to get a laugh.

sexuality...i could never be with a prude. sex, is a natural part of life to me, and it should be fun. Id prefer a girl to be open about it, and any fantasies she may have.

Intellegence...(yes I know I spelled that wrong I suck at spelling leave me alone)) one of the most important things, I'm smart, really smart, and I like a girl to be at least smart enough so the stuff I say doesn't go right over her head.

I know my "standards" are over and and above what a lot of guys will settle for, hence the reason for "standards". I think a woman should be herself, and ONLY herself. If she puts on a facade for me, how do I know who she really is. As for weight/height, no stipulations other than it must fit her. I've dated or lived with skinny girls that were tall and skinny girls that were short. I've been with chubby/fat/chunky/overweight girls that were tall and short and in the middle. I've been with what some would call gorgeous and what some would call ugly. It all depends on the woman how she carries herself.
Now that said, a girl has to have a sense of humour. If she takes stuff too serious, she won't be able to laugh at herself,at me or a stressful situation. I ALWAYS look a woman in the eyes. I want to know what she sees or where she stands. So I guess I would see a girls eyes first. Now for some reason I've got this thing about a girls nose. Don't know why, just have this thing.
I don't care what you look like, you need to be yourself and not worry about me. If you care for me, that's awesome but, be yourself..

mgolden1, out of the 7 criteria you asked about, how would you describe yourself in those 7 criteria?

My opinions:
* Height: Does not matter
* Weight: INITIALLY, as long as she does not look like a balloon, she looks good to me. After knowing her...
* Personality: Kindness (In fact this is the only deal breaker for me and you cannot fake it because I am extremely critical on this).
* Sense of humor: Does not matter
* Looks: I like women with sharp features
* Intelligence: Does not matter because everyone is good at certain things anyway
* Sexual: Yes, please!

Height - Height doesn’t bother my all that much but like everything else, everything in moderation. I would start to think about whether a woman is to short probably around 4"8 but that doesn’t mean I would let it stop me. It just becomes a factor. I would start to think about whether a woman is to tall probably around 6"5 but agen this wouldn't stop me it's just when it becomes a factor.

Weight - Skinny woman, anorexic, see your bones skinny is a definite turn off for me as is the opposite. I don't like women who don't respect themselves enough to take care of themselves. I would date someone on the heavier side of the scale but it's "everything in moderation".

Personality - I'm very picky with this. I don't like girls who socially have no shame. One-on-one no shame, love it. They cannot be girly-girls, they have to have a competitive, active, air about them but at the same time they still need to know how to be a woman while doing it. Now that I think about it I tend to favor the shy girls out there. Some of the best relationships I've had were with shy girls (the overall best was a shy girl).

Humor - So long as she has one I'm happy. She needs to be able to understand mine.

Looks - I've got a thing for brunettes and red heads with wavy hair. Perhaps it’s because of the stereotypical signs of intelligence, I don't know. I love blue or green eyes. They have a piercing aura about them. Dimples are a turn on; they give off a girly innocence which is appealing.

Intelligence - It's one of my top three requirements. If she can't hold an intelligent conversation, next!

Sexual - Good sex is important. She needs to be able to talk minimally about what she enjoys and what turns her on and also be able to hear about what I want. I like women who don't hold back when it comes to sex. This contradicts allot of the shyness that I find a turn on but she needs to be able to overcome her shyness in this category.

Height: I don't really care
Weight: Don't be fat
Personality: Don't be boring. Don't be Narcissistic. Don't be a bitch.
Sense of Humour: have one
Looks: I'm pretty lenient if the other categories are in the right place.
Intelligence: This one's critical for me. I expect nothing short of brilliance.
Sexual: As long as you're not waiting until marriage, I'm along for the ride.

1. too short is when she is midget short, the kind of shortness where people are like "woah, that girl has something biologically wrong with her if she's that short". Too tall would be like a giant, like a chick who is almost 7 ft tall.

2. Girl has to be thin, no fatties or huskies. But if she's borderline, like a little bit of meat on her, then she's acceptable. But also not too thin(ex. Paris Hilton), I want a girl with curves. go find the latest issue of american curves magazine, the women in their have the ideal body, thin but curvy, God's perfection basically!. There's in ideal body weight that is between thin and fat.

3. Personality wise, I like a girl who is very sweet and considerate, like the sensitive types. Down to earth. Not shallow and self centered only caring about superficial things such as popularity, what people think or her, money. Don't be stuck up. Be humble.

4. Just a normal sense of humor, maybe she'll point something out that looks odd about something and make fun of it. Nothing overly funny. The girl doesn't need to make me luagh as in humor. But being playful is a major plus. I like it when we are both giggling about each other acting stupid.

5. A pretty face is what I look for. Can't pin down exact features without getting all mathematical, but you (mgolden1) have a pretty face. You have nothing to worry about in that department.

6. don't really care too much about intelligence. But I would prefer a smart girl over a dumb one. But she can't be too dumb, where you wonder if she's retarded (ex. Anna nicole smith), that is a deal breaker. Dumb is okay, but too dumb is not.

7. Hell yeah I want a girl to be sexual. I want a girl who enjoys sex and talks about it at times.

Height - Not really an issue. I'd be reluctant if she was 4+ inches taller than me, but definitely not a deal breaker if she's okay with it.

Weight - Not a deal breaker unless it's so bad it causes issues. If you can't live your life you need help before I can be interested. A little extra isn't a dealbreaker though.

Personality can be a deal breaker. I like smart, funny, sweet girls. If you have a terrible personality that is honestly worst than looks.

Looks - Eyes and hair catch me. I like unique eyes and long dark hair.

Intelligence - I can't stand ignorant girls ... or people in general. Biggest deal breaker for me.

Sexual - I like more conservative girls, but a little talking to me is great.

I think every guy and gal has their own "cutoff" point.
the goal is to find someone you can enjoy being with, not merely tolerate.
for some, mental stimulation is more important than eye candy, for others, eye candy means more. just like aquired tastes, not everyone like coffee black, some like tea with milk and suger.
I used to think about women's looks more, I thought I was shallow, then I met some REALLY shallow and cruel women, and I now focus on women's personality.
case and point, all the news about the actress Megan Fox, she may be hot...but no one wants to work with her, or give her any good roles in movies, cause she is such a bitch to work with.

Height is a non issue. I'd date a girl who was 4'10" and I'd date a girl who was 7'0" tall, makes no difference to me.

Weight is a non issue as long as she wears it well and dresses in a way to still look good despite being overweight, which I've seen. I've seen girls that still looked gorgeous & sexy at 200 lbs because of the way their weight carried itself.

Personality she has to have a witty sense of humor and she can't be an obsessive clean freak. I hate that. Also can't be high maintenance.

Sense of humor has to be of the intelligent kind where her jokes are things that are hilariously funny but only someone intelligent would be able to pick up on it. Somewhat of the geeky/cute/funny kind.

Face, I prefer fairer skin or, if its tan, a natural looking one. Unnaturally dark tans on blonde girls are just absolutely hideous.

Intelligence is a MUST. The smarter the better. No ditzes and nobody who can't point to a foreign country on the map if asked. That's a dealbreaker.

Sexual.. hmmm... don't quite get what you mean there.

I reckon we all have some type of type but I don't stop dating people just because they arnt everything on the list. If I did that, I would miss out on so much these men have to offer. Anyway, when I am in a relationship will a man, as time carries on, they become my idea of perfect, as in they are just very attractive to me. Because I have taken the time to know them as a person, and their beauty has come out in their looks to me. I have never been a shallow person, and never willl be. diffrent people look good with diffent things. a sence of humor always tops it off :)

There's not really one specific thing that would be a deal breaker for me. I guess if all of their facial features look bad together, that would be wear my standards are cut off.

Standards, standards... well my take on it is this: if I really like his personality and we click but it would take a very good imagination to find him attractive then I won't go for it. I simply don't want to be in a situation where the man is not turning me on because he is not aesthetically pleasing and I have to imagine other people in order to get aroused. That sucks. Some aesthetic things I can't let go of are: height (5'10" and up), chin (he HAS to have a chin/jaw line), hands (they can't be soft and womanly) and body odor (they can't have it)!

I wonder what guys like and this question is a good one. hmmm.
for me anyway, I like taller guys who work out and are in university like I am. I like those who are nice like to just do fun things with me like ice skating or walking in a park. um having the same interests are nice and a guy who isn't shallow is an important one