What can I do to give him a hint for the next step?

I agree with some of the rest here you need to talk. Strategy and game playing are a bad way to enter into a Marriage. You need to talk about the future, where it is going and how much you love each other. If you can't do that calmly and without putting someone under the gun then your no where near ready to be married to him or him to you.

Open conversation will make or break your marriage, start it off right.

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If you want to always be leading in your relationship with him (deciding where to eat, what to watch, where to drive, etc) and if you're comfortable being the Driver on the Relationship Bus, then feel free to simply ask him out for dinner (like a date) and don't even bother calling it a date. Then kiss him at the end of the night. If he's into you he'll kiss you back.

BUT if you're not interested in driving the Bus, and I don't blame you, then you're either going to have to give him more clues (flirting heavily, touching his arm, laughing hard at his jokes, and telling him about that dream you had with him, etc) or you're going to have to simply move onto some other guy who's way more interested, and who's way more comfortable making the first move.

I'd suggest moving on simply because I hate seeing some guy who's got no balls being lead around by his girlfriend especially when she doesn't even want to be leading to begin with.

Usually a guy will make a move if he's really interested, and if he's got any confidence at all.

~ Robby

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You could try many of the ways that people have already described.. I'll tell you a couple more that could get the point across as well.. Ask him about hanging out somewhere alone, best place would be a movie, a park, something where you two would be close to each other. Then while watching a movie cuddle with him and hold his hand or at least touch his hands and see how he reacts. If you are walking through the park, go in for the hand hold and again see how he reacts to that. If you squeeze his hand a little bit and he squeezes back then he is almost sure to be into you.

You could try some non-verbal tactics like holding eye contact with him just a bit longer than is strictly necessary, or "casually" standing a half-step closer to him than you usually do... Maybe touch his arm during conversation a bit more than you normally would. Basically just keep softly breaching his space in one way or another and it should eventually start intruding into his awareness. The eye contact will hopefully help him realize that what you're doing is not accidental, and it's not just his overactive imagination.

You don't need to be all "Take me, big boy!" or anything, but if he doesn't make a move, it's possible that he might think that it'd make you uncomfortable. Hitting on one's opposite-sex friends all the time (or at all, sometimes) is generally considered bad form, so I personally tend to mentally flag female friends as "Off limits until something changes." If you use some of these tactics, hopefully he'll realize that something has changed, and additionally since you haven't actually "done" anything, he's free to make the de-facto "first move." (If those sorts of traditional roles are important to you and/or him.)

In this day and age, I'm not sure why some people still hold on to the expectation of the guy to make the first move. If you have feelings for him, let him know! Personally, I find it very attractive when a girl's not afraid to go out and get what she wants, especially if she wants me!

By telling him how you feel about him and that you want a relationship because you are ready.

First of all that's a ritorical question...He has to be ready...you don't want to rush him...trust me when the time is right he will know and you will too.



P.S. Keep loving him the way you do( Good Luck)

Pop what question? The "will you be my girlfriend" question? Be an adult. Hang out and tell him that you're interested. You might be suprised. He might really like you too. If you need something a little better as far as a safety net, then ask his friends what they think. Tell them you are interested and wanna know if they think it would be a possibility. But be careful of whom you ask.

kiss him. If you wanna know if he loves you so, its in his kiss...thats where it is! sho-wap

You can either tell him how you feel about him in hopes that he feels the same way about you
Or... if you want him to notice you, for him to ask you out. Then you can keep hitting to hang out, saying how he's a good guy, etc... but I advice you to just tell him how you feel... it might make you feel venerable at first (and I know, I don't like feeling this way) But it will keep things out in the open.. Just be you, just be real... if its meant to happen it will. hope everything works out! (:

1- Tell him that you want to hang out someplace.. alone..
or else bring someone maybe your bestfriend..
2- Then talk about stuff that you have in common and if you find many stuff yu could tell him: omg we re so meant to beeeee (in a joke way)
3- Start playing games that involve truth or dare or stuff like that so yu can ask him about his personal life and enter his mind like ask him if there's someone in hismind right now etc.. That way he knows that you re interested in his thinking, likes and dislikes...
4- When you get back at home send him a msg telling him you had fun and wana do it again
5- Call him or Missed call him or talk to him on msn or comment on his posts on Facebook or write on his wall from time to time, that way he'll make sure that you re thinking about him from time to time

I Hope I helped you.. That's what I do..! And It Works.. :P
Tell Me What Happens If you try it :P