Any ideas about how to win over a girl who has never been in a relationship before?

Don't do anything you wouldn't do regularly. You have to be yourself, because if you end up in a relationship with her - you're 'act' won't last a long time. Whoever you really are, is what a girl will always like. If she doesn't seem to like the real you, don't change yourself around for that girl - Find someone else, who's better & will accept you! You'll see everything will turn out better that way

start off just doing little nice things for her. maybe talk to her on a regular basis. it might also hep if you give her little gifts every once in a while. and maybe if you can sing, you can write her a song and sing it to her.

I am shy. I have a guy friend treating me similar ways taurusfemmefatale described except for sex/kiss/cook/flowers. I took it as he's not interested in me, if that make sense to the rest of you.
So I started treating him as a friend (asking for guy advice) and he's been distant since then. What part of those things listed were supposed to actually attract a shy girl? All it told me is that he wants something casual and is non-committal. the only thing it did was to open me up but I am NOT going to ask a guy for relationship. He should step up.

This is a woman who does not want to be labeled . She belongs to no one but herself. She does not like restrictions, and she lives in the moment. So being dominant will NOT work! To be able to win over someone like her, then you will have to get in the mind of someone like her.

This means
1. Live in the moment (take spur of the moment trips)
2. Take her out (but do not call it a date)
3. Have amazing sex (but don't call it a relationship)
4. Take her to a movie. No 'Chick flicks.' Comedy is a great icebreaker
5. Send her flowers on any normal day (not Valentines Day, Birthday, or etc)
6. Kiss her when she least expects it.
7. Avoid expressing yourself emotionally, use indirect jokes instead.
8. Cook her dinner. Serve beer instead of wine.
9. See 'other' people, or tell her that you are keeping your options open.
10. Listen to her intently...eventually she will let her guards down

When you have accomplished these things...she will ask YOU for a relationship, and not vice versa.

its either what TaurusFemmeFatale said... which is unlikely...
or she's just shy...geez

be confident of yourself, and try to build her up in the process of showing this.

making her gifts on any given day is a great plus if you're in a fixed relationship, but NEVER forget her on special days (Valentines, Birthdays etc.) because thatl give you a big fat minus.

and if you manage to make her love you, youve managed to make her commit.

Haha what? How old is she? She wants an adventure and someone she can trust. She doesn't want a romantic relationship if she's never even been in a serious one. She wants a best friend who is going to be a sexual adventure.

I suggest you don't. Why date a girl who's scared of dating?

Boring.

But if you're trapped on her simply because you lack self-esteem, then do this:

Date her without calling it dating.

Invite her to join you for shopping at the mall, then for coffee, then for dinner. But act like you're on a date. Flirt with her (Google "flirting with girls") and tease her (Google "teasing girls") take her hand to help her step up a curb (taking her hand is HUGE and is a great way to initiate touch) and otherwise act like it's a date, without EVER calling it that.

That way she can't say "I don't like dating" and you can say "Oh, we're not dating, we're just hanging out."

Then, when you make her really laugh at some lame joke, kiss her. If she didn't like it simply say "I couldn't help myself, the moment just felt right." Then be proud of yourself.

If she's still not interested then perhaps you can FINALLY move on?

~ Robby

P.S. It's a HUGE waste of time trying to "make a girl feel special" because she'll just assume you're trying to win her approval - and girls find that really gross and creepy. If you're going to compliment her, do it only one every second date, and make it about something that's not superficial like, "You know what? You're unnaturally honest and sweet. That's rare and a I really like that about you." Then don't mention it again.

Be dominant and assertive. Make all the choices and take her places she's never been.

Well there are too many variables missing here. Are you sure she is afraid of commitment or is that what you assume? Has anyone ever tried to be her man? Would most guys think she is out of there league?