What do I do when a guy I just met breaks up with me the day after he meets me?

I met my girlfriend on Singlesnet almost a year ago. She told me that she had dated a lot of guys on there, some of them who were attached but acting like they were not. She said that a lot of those guys were just after sex and would say anything, just to get you in bed. In your case, I believe that is what John D was doing. He was trying to make you a victim of his weenie.

He either didn't like what he saw, might not like your personality or he thought you was going to be easy sex, online personalities are never a true reflection of your real personality even if you really are honest about everything.
Online dating is stupid because speaking in text and speaking in person is two completely different things.

Be cautious that its two different worlds between who you type to and who you can see and talk to in person.
If you must persist with the online dating route then just be as honest as you can be, make sure they know what they are getting and I would suggest chatting via video chat is a good step to take before a date.
It will be hit and miss for a while but pretty sure you will find someone who just wants to settle down and enjoys your company.

Sorry to say he is a liar. He either lied then or he is lying now, my best guess is he was lying then. Hopefully you did not fall for the oldest trick in the world, and sleep with him because he said he loved you. If you did, still count yourself lucky that you know what kind of jerk he really is before he did worse. Move on and don't give him another thought, you might be very lucky that he has "moved on". Who knows what the real truth is about him, but you can rest assured that what he showed you at first was not it.

Good Luck,
James

Ok no guy says on the first date that they are in love with you unless they are playing some dumb game. If he really liked you that much on first site he would be too concerned about screwing things up to talk like that and would be a bit anxious that he found someone so rare right away.

Walk it off and keep looking, the thing about contacting people especially guys is unless your in each others world (friends, neighbors ect.) it's hard to turn a guy around. E-dating is a hard and bad way to date but it's faster and easier to meet people that way.

You take the good, you take the bad

He was lying to you. And a coward for breaking up with you through Email.

Move on. He isn't worth pursuing.

Leave him alone! He's just after one thing, hun.

in a nutshell, he was saying those things to get laid and when he didn't get what he wanted he moved on. forget about him, he's not worth it!

He said he loved you to get laid. He clearly didn't actually like you that much.


Though he was in the wrong for lying, what on earth are you thinking? You're more than double my age and I know by now that someone doesn't fall in love till they really get to know someone. He didn't "dump" or "break up" with you, you went on a date and he didn't want a second one. Simple, happens all the time. You act as if you had some sort of legitimate relationship or even friendship with this guy, which you clearly didn't. You were meeting a stranger. That's it. And this weird creepy horny stranger said he loved you, and you should have ran.

Please, take it from the recently dethroned online dating queen.

Perhaps I'm being unfair to you, and you haven't had much dating experience in your lifetime, in that case, it sucks. Go on a lot of dates, meet a lot of men till you find one that TRULY amazes you. Write down the (general) personality/lifestyle/moral traits of the man you want, so when you see a man you think is just great cause he sweet-talks you, and tells big stories about how great he is, and tries to get you in the sack, realize maybe you have nothing in common and he's useless as a long-term partner in your life.

Consider your lesson learned and date with a level head from now on please, I hate seeing women go through this crap.

What an ass, sorry to hear that. He was lying to you. Move on to something worth your time girl.

Yea, he is a d*** hun. Your a Queen, clearly not worth the headache, he just didn't have to courage to tell you face to face...you don't want that in a long term relationship, trust. FAILS. Take it for what it is, and know that you must not think about it to deeply. Never trust what any1 says over their actions..im here..i understand..I have been there b4..if you want more advice or just to talk twitter me..twitter.com/quella_de_mattz I will be here and I have it on my phone so we culd discuss this or under things non-stop.

Keep your head up!