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Do you all think that I scare men away when I am honest about how long I have been single?

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Miss-October (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
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Do you all think that I scare men away when I am honest about how long I have been single? I have been single for 2 years and counting. Men are in total shock or have this "Is she a crazy maniac? " look on their faces.

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Superstrength79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I've been single for about 10 years, so I don't think you're crazy at all. Maybe you haven't met the right person yet, or have other reasons. I would probably ask you why you have been single that long, if in telling me it seemed you were upset by the fact. If you seemed fine with having been single that long, I wouldn't have a problem with it either.
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xxsensuixx (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
It really doesn't matter. 2 years huh? Let me just put this down on the table. If men are really interested on asking you out,they would, and it doesn't matter when you've been single for a long time and I actually find it attractive when a girls been single. It kinda means that she's a good girl. And she's just waiting for her knight. It still depends whether I find the girl attractive or not. If they just ask you a question and move on to the next topic then it might just be a regular question and because you are not attractive enough. They were just curious. Any man would do whatever it takes to get the girl they like. Both good and bad guys
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
I personally don't think that is really a long time at all, to be single. I wouldn't even be concerned about it. I can't imagine that any guy would judge you for that.
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rock1281
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rock1281 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Honestly I think you shouldn't disclose any information about past relationships unless it is vital. The past is the past, and shouldn't affect how he feels about you, its almost like peer pressure talk the guys out of dating you.
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I don't think it would scare me away if you told me that. The WHAT isn't as important as the WHY. Obviously I'd like to know why you were single for so long.
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Lala85 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I went through a "dry spell" the year before last. I know what you mean as far as how guys respond when you tell them it's been a while.
I can't say they weren't bs-ing me but when I asked them why that was so surprising they almost always said "I just don't see how a girl like you could be single that long" which I generally thought was kinda nice, but that's just me.
Also, as a girl who has been in your shoes, I really don't think there's anything wrong with being single for an extended amount of time. As long as your happy :o)
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