So I took your advice and told him I'm in love with him and boy was I wrong. He's in love with me too but now it seems like all he wants from me is sex or to see me naked and I'm not like that. And every time I say no he asks the question in a different way. How can I let him know that it makes me uncomfortable without losing him? Any advice will help.
Let him know that you want it too, if you do, but tell him your view on the topic at hand and that's SEX. Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do. If he loves you HE WILL understand and live with your decision. I gotta be honest though, seeing your age, if he's your age he'll continue to press for sex. If he doesn't get it eventually he'll look for it else where. I truly hope that this is not the case because it seems like you care about him, but just know if he leaves he's not the last guy that find you attractive and want to date you. Be smart and have fun as young person.
Tell him that you love him but you aren't ready to do that yet, tell him you need your time and when that time comes then you will tell him, he shouldn't keep bothering you about it though, no means no until you tell him otherwise.
slideshop
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Please don't de-value yourself to this pig and to other guys (they will find out about it) by just giving in! most guys that age are pervs and don't need to hear that from you. And besides he is not in love with you he is in love with your body. LOVE IS NOT SELFISH, IT DOES NOT NEED TO BE PROVEN, LOVE IS PATIENT. He is definitely not worth your time.
This is the way guys are, especially in your age range. If you are not ready to do anything physical, then there's no point in having a boyfriend. He's not going to let up on this, the urge doesn't just magically wear off. So if you are just not ready yet, then you guys should probably call it quits until you are older.
PureFury
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
You shouldn't be afraid to tell him that you aren't ready for that stuff. If he cares for you then he won't mind the wait. Sounds kinda pushy and narrow minded anyways. I'll bet that's a turn off for any girl. Well maybe with just most girls. lol
Well he's a guy first of all and you know that is hormones tell him this. Guys like him honestly don't like to be told no. If you don't want to then don't, he can't make you do anything you don't want to.
petitemissy
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
You don't need to prove anything to him to feel uncomfortable in losing him. If he just want you for the sex only, then you shouldn't waste your times on him anymore. Sex is not the only important part of a relationship.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually try to use humor to break the ice (no not stupid jokes or creepy sexual innuendos) I'll usually ask her a question about a class (if she is in one of my classes) or about something else. I might also comment on her clothing or smile, or something.
Once after that I'll tell her my name, and get a conversation, I'll usually tease her a little to ease any tension
How do they typically respond?
Well, it's worked 2 times and I've used it 2 times.. so 100% so far!
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