I ask this girl out like this "how bout a date? you me movie". She rejected me with this "lol I don't think so hun." Some people that I know said this is a complete and forever rejection which means I don't have a chance with her. What do you think? Do I still have a chance or should I just back off completely?
Update: I just want to know because I still inexperience
A month ago
it seemed a bit too .. pushy to me. this is what guys who are positive they will get a "yes" answer ask. I have to agree with serm416.. and yes, come off a bit gentler around the girl next time. never say never :) you might have a chance sometime.
Consider that the impact of the request was too flip and came off as being more insincere that a genuine offer.
So now - spend some time getting to know her and make her feel comfortable around you. Then if you are stil interested after getting to know her - ask her on a specific date - and a more enticing offer would include doing some activity you know she likes or has wanted to do. Then when you ask in a couple of weeks or so...she may be more receptive.
And last - don't take rejection personally - it may be nothing to do with you...she could be gay, or recently broken up, or have stress and unhappiness in her life...you just never know...so don't assume.
Did you ask her out over the computer/text (hence the 'lol')? If so, girls don't usually like being approached that way, at least most that I know; they like when I guy is personal with them and shows an effort (and guts) by doing it in person. Other then that, the girls seems like a bit of a pill. I'd say forget her, act like you don't even mind, that tends to jerk us girls the most, it makes us think twice about having the upper hand in the situation. You should want to forget her too, someone who turns another down like they're a two year old "hun" is not worth it.
well firstly the way you asked her out couldve come off a little cocky and she might not have liked that and also the way she said that she thinks that she's out of your league so I would probably just become closer friends with her and see if it leads to anything
I would wait awhile before giving it another go. It honestly sounds like she's not that interested... although the "lol" and "hun" DO come off like she's a b**** or playing coy...
That is why I am asking for advice because I can't tell at all. She seem like a nice girl when I am talkin to her but the rejection was harsh. - A month ago
I would call that complete rejection... The only way it could work out is if she thought you came off as a real '"playa" by saying it like that... but I'm thinking it's more of a pretty big rejection... stay friends and see where that goes... :) (sorry I don't mean to be harsh... :S)
maybe she wasn't sure if you were serious? I definitely know that feeling! no false hope here, but you could try again, but make sure she knows you're not joking? :D
Judging by her response, she thinks you're a jerk, and does this with every woman. There is a fine line between cockiness and confidence. You came off as an arrogant jerk. Which is why she laughed when she brushed you off. This is what you tell her...
"I am sorry. I did not mean to come off as a jerk. I think you are very attractive. I would love to get to know you better. Lets start over. My name is ______. Nice to meet you. I would love to take you to a movie sometimes if you're not busy."
If she accepts. Then she is interested. If she declines your offer, then you blew your chances...buddy!
That was not a pick-up line and I talked to this girl for a couple weeks before I did that - A month ago
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ouch. that's kinda harsh. but just how everything is worded, it doesn't sound like she's interested at all. but, what you could do, back off for now about going on a date. make casual small talk. keep her attention with you. see where that goes. and if she still seems uninterested, then I'd say move on sweetie. there are always other fist in the sea.
Stop talking to her. Cut off all contact for a week or two. See if she initiates contact. If she does then there's still a chance, or she's just HPD or BPD. If not, then it's done and you move on.
lol find another one man. you say you're inexperienced, as in, you've never had a girlfriend before? because if that's the case you seriously do not want your first girlfriend to react to your asking her on a date by laughing at you and say 'I don't think so' with the condescending 'hun' at the end. anyway yeah, she rejected you, but you shouldn't just move on to someone else because she rejected you, you should just move on because she doesn't seem at all like a very nice girl. I mean seriously who says that? do you really want to start a relationship with her and think about all the good memories about how you asked her on a romantic date and she laughed at your face?
dude stop talking to this girl (literally as in ignore her and in a general sense but that's all you) if anything you need to brush this off if yall still talk or txt its whatever just stop giving her attention and see what she does if nothing then walk away its that simple
I am way to nice to completely ignored someone, but maybe I'll try - A month ago
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Yea and see that's the problem I'm saying it in a way that you get her attention by you not giving her ANY which is my main point, but like I said that's if she's willing to even try just don't waste your time on one girl - A month ago
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If she talks to me, how would I go about not giving her attention? - A month ago
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Say you have a pretty good conversation......at the end of whatever it is you're talking about all you do is act like you don't give a f*** and say "i gotta go" and just walk away, it may make you look like a d*** but it also gives the girl the "wtf just happend" expression and she starts wondering and getting curious, after that if she tries to initiate a conversation don't act so interested in it, - A month ago
Just out of curiosity, did you ask her out on an instant messenger or did she literally say "LOL"? Because if it's the latter, I think you're the lucky one that she turned you down.
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