I'm wondering what questions to ask a girl when I go out on a date with her. We run out of things to talk about and I'm wondering what questions I should ask to get conversations started?
Don't ask her "what do you do for fun? " I get asked that so many times. It gets so old. Don't talk about other people either. The date is for you both, not you guys and some other people. Its ok to talk about family though, just not too serious talk if it's first couple of dates. Girls love to talk about themselves, so she'll probably talk a lot at any subject you ask her about herself. But if she's shy and stays quiet then its up to you to make her feel comfortable.
1. So how have you been? 2. What do you usually do for fun? 3. Where do you like to go with friends to?
If you run out if things to say then just say something like "hey did you hear what _____ did today? " if they say no then tell them the story. Then it will most likely lead to a conversation.
Hmm. I suggest if you are already out of topic. Let your eyes focus on her. Eye to eye contact. To bother her. Until she will ask you. What are you looking at?. Then you will answer. YOU -Joemar
There does seem to be a problem with your question, and it isn't really because of your desire to "chat it up" with a girl. The problem I see, is you want small talk, you want to "entertain" her so that you can get through the night without too many harsh moments in your night. You don't want her to think you're a "noob" righ?!
It's your approach. You're looking at it from what you think SHE will like. . . Why?! This dating thing. . . It's pretty selfish actually. You have to go into everything like you're going to just take! No, that doesn't mean that you should be selfish, in fact, I encourage you to be quite the gentleman and give her anything you possibly could. . . Within reason.
What I mean by take, is: You have to walk into every date and ask the questions to YOUR benefit. Not; "how can I entertain you" but, "what can I ask to tell me more about you, so I know if you're interesting to me or not. " That's what this is all about right?! You're trying to meet someone that will make YOU happy, not the other way around. Sure, you can try and try and try to please her, but it doesn't mean a thing if you're not happy in the end. Yes, have fun, start off with a little small talk. . . But when it gets down to it, ask her things that mean a lot to you. If she doesn't bite. . . Then you two weren't meant to be anyway.
Dating is just the examination process for marriage. . . Choose wisely.
Your problem is in your question! Don't look for questions to ask the other person. Start the convo on your own. Tell stories, interesting ones. Forget about the questions. You tell a good story the convo is bound to form around it.
This is to the what the girl said answers 1. Good 2. Hang out 3. Movies
You ask questions people can give you one word answers, boring, and that can turn out to be that the person thinks you are boring and you ruined you chance. - More than a year ago
These are actually called lead on words. Even if they are 1 word answers, it gives you the opportunity to divulge more into a topic. Ask her where she hang outs or what movies she likes. Once she gives you a movie, you add your 2 cents about the movie and then maybe ask her why or why not she didn't like it. It's easy to keep the conversation going, you just have to keep asking open ended questions where they have to give you more than a 1 word response and from there it just keeps going. - More than a year ago
Oh, another big part is the reflection part also. Give your input on her answers to show that you are being attentive and also that you have a mind of your own. And if you have mastered the art of observational humor like I have, it also is the perfect time to make little smart witty jokes if you can. Women eat that up like you wouldn't believe even if you are kind of making fun of her a little bit. You want to get into the play fight zone, where both of you are comfortable chatting. - More than a year ago
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