The last guy I dated was 28, and for the past month and so I've been having "text" conversations with a 20 year old I met. Just a reminder, I'm 23. He's really sweet, fun, and honestly when I first met him I thought he was 25 - but the more I get to know him, the age difference doesn't really come to mind. At the moment, we are just friends getting to know each other - and we hung out this past weekend - I enjoyed every minute of it. But the age difference keeps creeping up on me.
Guys & Girls who have been through this, any advice?
Age is no criterion for a relationship! There is about 25 years between my wife and I (she's younger). We've been married for 21 years. Before meeting my wife, I went with a woman 15 years my senior. It was a good relationship. We were perfectly matched sexually.
It's been a weird coincidence that nearly everybody I've ever dated, had kissed or hooked up with in any sort of way has been at least 2 years younger than me. This is not because I am attracted to younger women exactly. Far from it. I love older women much the same. I had a thing with one woman who was older than me by about 4 years and it was great. Age in the end is for the most part very trivial. Age difference is not very important. The girl I am dating now is probably the biggest age gap yet and certainly bigger than yours, and really there is not too much of an issue here.
On the odd occasion I think about it and wonder if I've gotten old at times but really, considering the kinda guy I am, the way I feel, and act... Naaaah. I'm an ok fella. Besides the age difference between us is only five and a half years. We still have a lot in common, get along great, we're happy together, we still make each other feel good, and we still both love each other very much. When you think of it like that, is there anything more important? No! The truth is compared to all that, or heck compared to even some of that a little matter of something like age really just isn't that fucking important.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for two and a half years. It started out pretty strong especially with how much I liked her, and how hard I was crushing on her. It's only gotten stronger and stronger since we've gotten together.
My suggestion here is that you take the time to think about why this age difference of only three years or less keeps creeping you out. Think long and hard on it to figure out your reasons, and when you do, ask yourself if they're really that important when it comes down to what makes a good relationship. Ask yourself what is more important. Really just hammer it out. Rationalize it all. But more importantly be honest with yourself on this one. I think you'll figure this one out. Don't worry about it too much. Relax ant think it through.
dear I to in same kind of relation but age difference never comes between me and my partner apart from there are few factors which are different in my case in compariosn to you...but still I feel age doesn't comes as a difference if the reation is moved in proper direction with good understanding, determination and mutual trust.
I'm 21 dating an 18 year old and I have no problem with it. Yeah sometimes I do notice the difference in maturity levels, but it's not a big deal to the point where I would end the relationship. We get along great and really that's all that matters. So don't stress about it! :)
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