The first one is fine. I like when he faces me so we can talk anyways. The second one is a pain in the ass. It suggests that you are clingy and can't let me have a life outside of the relationship. When I am at work I am working and don't need to be worrying about entertaining you. It would be very unprofessional and annoying. Stopping by for a second or coming for lunch is fine, but no more than that.
Thanks, in Scenario 2, we had plans to go to breakfast together. Actually it wasn't my idea to do it. It was a mutual female friend of ours who thought of my keeping her company. She then suggested we could eat breakfast together after whe was done. Now that you say that if we don't have such specific plans I'm not going to come by her job. - A month ago
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That's a good idea. Even stopping by to surprise her would be ok but don't linger for too long, especially if she's not on break. When I worked fast food my ex would come sit there all day long and just hang out at one of the tables. I always felt guilty for not entertaining him and worried about being fired if I did. It was very uncomfortable and made for long days. And when I told him he was totally offended and didn't understand. A nice surprise visit or lunch is great though. - A month ago
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