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How do I make women understand that all I want is sex without a relationship?

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SlickCat (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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Well here's the deal I am 22 year old college student. Not good with women at all but I know I am not bad looking guy, and I have a pretty good head on my shoulders. I don't have much sex because I guess I don't know how to turn women in that direction with me, but I can see steady progress. But now that I know I can get women I don't want to get into a relationship, or have a lot of the extra emotion that comes with sex because I just don't have time right now. Its hard enough managing my own life, without having to manage a girl. I know I might come off sounding like a asshole but, I am being honest, and I don't want to be that guy that screws a girl who thinks there is something there and burns her.

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hermosa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I hear guys complain about this all the time. I think you have to think about the type of girl that you're dealing with. Let her know right up front what your intentions are. Make it super clear to her. Most women think that they can change a man so it's very important that you make your intentions clear.

If she says she's cool with that, then cool, but you also have to watch out for her because most girls get emotionally attached as soon as sex comes into play. If you feel that they are becoming attached and don't understand that you are only looking for sex, then that's when you have to use your common sense and start backing off.

Don't give any girls mixed signals and don't say things just to have sex with them. No matter how good the sex is, if the girl already has feelings or feels attachment, don't lead her on. Stop, immediately!
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Question Asker Thanks that was pretty good advice. I think I have begun to get it figured out. - 4 months ago

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scorpio23 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I'm 23yrs old and got married at young age with a wonderful man and all this to say is better to make love than have sex with ONE person and not 1 million.

Is your thing if ya wanna catch a STD. If that is your avatar than to me you're not that HOT just stupid for simple fact that what goes around comes around.

Karma and men like you are why a lot of women are still single. Likewise,Be honest and up front and tell the women hey wanna booty call. And make sure to run because she might hit ya in the face.

Or kick ya in the balls.

Is disrespectful to treat women like subject or toys. Get going and get a STD or HIV.

You make me sick.
I suggest a hooker or a escort because they get paid to sleep with jerks like you.
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kimberlyinspired I agree. do it the "hick "way and get it on with a goat. You will have more luck there. - 5 months ago
Question Asker You being 23 and married you obviously have this love and life thing figured out. I would like you to come back and talk to me in about 10 years and see if this "marriage," lasts. I can tell you really love your man judging by the avatar. Your exactly the kinda wife I want flashing her body all over the internet. I never asked whether I was hot or not. Your opinion of what I look like doesn't mean much. As a matter of fact your opinion doesn't mean anything at all to me because you are already - 4 months ago

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iridescent (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I'm going to be honest with you too and say that its not going to be very easy to find a woman at that age that is going to agree or appreciate being approached as a sex object. Maybe the best way to go about is asking a woman how she feels about being in a relationship when you are interested and if she goes into the "perfect relationship" scenario you know that she isn't good booty call material. To be honest with you, most women that are at a stage where they just want a FWB situation will just let you know off the bat, and usually (not always) stick to their guns about it. But that is really coming from my own experience.
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pearl1979 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
No matter what having sex without a relationship most of the time can trigger a feeling a connection when you both orgasm. I 'd say the majority of the time the woman will have a connection with you whether you like it or not. So stick to porn and your hand
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Well if you don't want any feelings attached with sex have you considered your hand? Honestly its a great utensil, has no feelings, and hits the spot if you use it right.
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StarDrifter
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StarDrifter (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
A street corner and $100 might do it for some women. The women who respect their self won't give you the time of day. Since your not looking to respect them, go with a hooker or the hand.
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NotSoBad (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
You will have to probably find drunk girls at a bar who want to hook up. let them know you aren't look for a relationship right now. Spend some time with them, hook up and then they might get horny and give it up. Then just go on with your life. If she starts to get to attached let her know that you all ready told her you weren't looking for a serious relationship. If she can't accept it then move on to the next. Be honest and don't avoid telling her you don't want a serious relationship. That way if her feelings get to strong she knows that you all ready told her. And you know you all ready told her. G' Luck. There are girls out there that want that too.
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 5 months ago
No offense man, but you aren't going to get many women to give you the advice you want to hear on this one. Not too many people can have no-strings attached sex; doesn't work that way!
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