I've known this guy for 2 months. We're in our early 20's, both single and have a lot in common. The first day we met my group of friends left early and I said "Fine, I'll walk by myself" and he walked back over to me saying "I'll wait for you" when I was getting my stuff and then we walked to our cars together. The next time I saw him he seemed to have been in a conversation, but stopped talking to smile at me and say "Hey!" in a very surprised way. He looks at me a lot and we've had some really good conversations. Some were actually pretty deep for not knowing him so long, but it's never awkward. I always feel like he listens closely to what I say, and he remembers little things. The last time we met up with our friends he said hi to everyone and came up to me last and gave me a hug. He didn't seem to mind being near me most of the day... I told him that I don't have many close friends since they all live far away and he said "I'll be your friend". I told him that I'd like that a lot and added that he has best personality out of everyone I know here and his jaw dropped and his eyes opened up all the way. He looked pleasantly surprised and smiled with his mouth open saying: "WOW."
I know everything points to yes, but could he just be a nice guy? I now he likes me as a friend, but I want to know if there's something there. I need to be sure before I make a move.
Update: By the way, when I say "make a move" it would just be for me to give off a less subtle hint, not actually ask him out or anything.
A month ago
I sounds like he is into you. If he wants to be "friends" why don't you hang out with him and see where that goes. I know that its 2009 but I'll be honest, I still believe that guys like to do the chasing. I'm not saying you shouldn't make a move, but you shouldn't have to do more than make him KNOW that you are into him. Body language is key... every woman knows how to flirt... all you have to do is put the nervousness aside and your body will do the rest for you. Don't THROW yourself at him, but just make it clear that you are okay with him making a move.
I think it ends up working out better when the man is the one to make the first move. You want him to pursue YOU. But that's just my opinion.
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