I have been reading some of these questions from the guys, and I noticed that a lot of these guys (whether they have a crush, are in a relationship, etc.) are just as worried about what their crush or girlfriend thinks about them in certain situations.
I've always been under the impression (until recently) that guys were pretty detached from their emotions. I think it's amazing and sweet to see these posts where guys really care about how a girl views them. Guys, do you really stress like us girls do, about how a girl perceives you or what she thinks about you?
Most times we do. If we really like a girl then we need to know that we might have a chance with them. I think that the reason that you were under that impression is most guys wouldn't want people that they know personally to know that they are really that stressed out about a girl. But since most people on this site don't know each other it's easier for guys to open up and such.
Depends. If you really want the girl of course. If your not interested then why? Of course we do, why do you think we dress up nice when we first meet you to try and make an impression. Also I think they are a little deeper than you think. That's just the outer shell you've seen, so yes to the emotions thing, and the thing is most times we just keep them in, as we are told and shown constantly that we shouldn't show such emotions. Some beg to differ with that, but try crying at work one time, you'll have guys on you in a hurry crackin jokes with the others on why they quote on quote "Really think your crying" Same thing. As my buddy and me call them types of guys,"Rough Tough guys. "
I don't expect you guys to cry like us girls but a little more emotion might help us out. When we ask how you feel the blank stare doesn't work to well. LOL. Thanks for your answer! :) - 4 months ago
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Oh, so your saying it's not ok for a guy to cry? Really? Well I can tell you I've cried. Not only that I've cried right infront of a girl that was a friends with benefits at the time. Reason why? I had due cause and reason to, I was hurt by my divorce. I didn't feel like I had any other outlet, and I had to let go. It actually helped. This garbage about guy's can't cry is nonsense, and the ROUGH TOUGH guy out there that thinks that's bull$hit, well I bet u've cried too mr rough tough guy. - 11 days ago
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I'm not saying that guys can't cry. I don't see anything wrong with it. I'm just saying that I don't want a guy crying over EVERY little thing that comes along. Crying is a great outlet sometimes. - 10 days ago
Absolutely. I think I was more emotional when I was younger, but there's no doubt that a particular girl's opinion of me could make me feel good and alive or just level me completely. Mostly what we learn is to hide our emotions and feelings because of some odd notion that it's not manly. So we sublimate them into sports.
Ever wonder why guys can be so passionate about some sweaty guys they've never met? That emotion's got to come out somewhere. Seriously, check out some sports stories and you'll see it.
LOL. Thats so true. I watch my 21 year old brother sometimes and that guy goes wild over anything football but its like pulling teeth to get him to open up about a girl he likes. He always has to pass it over with some crazy joke or something. I'm such an emotional person and I couldn't imagine holding all that in. You guys are good! :) - 5 months ago
The internet gives guys the chance to say what they are thinking, because no one knows who they are. But these are issues that guys always have had. . But in public, guys are brought up to be tough and not show much emotion, so, that's why you see so much more of it come out on message boards. ;-)
I never thought about it like that. Great observation! :) - 5 months ago
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Thanks. :-) - 5 months ago
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Lol of course we guys wonder about what our crush think about us! we also think a lot before we sleep lol we are not detached from our emotions we just don't show anyone or ourselves.
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