How to get rid of my trust issues?

Ok 1 if you can't look deep inside yourself and figure it out, it probably isn't worth trying to make it work for this guy. 2) what ever you do don't spy on him, he will get pissed and leave you. 3) just keep him busy with doing stuff together, also trust him for short bursts of time and then worry about trusting longer

You need to talk to him and determine if your fears are justified. When we are hurt, it's easy to transfer this hurt to other people without justification. Time will help you get over these insecurities.

Letting go of the fear is not something most people can get over overnight. It takes time. Best way it works I have seen is taking baby steps. And that by itself may also cause your current relationship to fail. But, if you fear that everything you do, everything you touch will break and fail, than you won't be able to live anything anyway you want it either. So baby steps or cold turkey, you have to start somewhere.

You have to realize that this guy is not the same guy who caused your trust issues. It's not fair to judge him based on your ex-boyfriends. You simply have to let go of the fear and the mistrust and hope for the best.

Hi, I struggle with this one at times as well. Trust needs to be earned.
When he tells you how he feels do you really listen. Do his actions match his words? What was it about him that first attracted you and then kept you there? What is his past record in relationships like?
I myself am now dating a fellow, who has completely swept me off my feet.I have trust issues at times, but one thing that I have learned is that we need to take our insecurities to our girlfriends not our men. Men get insecure as well, only they do not voice it like women do.
Time will tell you the truth. In the meantime, enjoy each other and love like no tomorrow. Enjoy every moment. Trusdt your instinct and gut. It will never lie to u. Know the difference between your head and your heart. WE can set ourselves up for disapointment and then when it doesn't wotk out,say to ourselves, see I knew I wasn't good enough, pretty enough, etc.U are good enough. And when you love yourself unconditionally, so will he. He will see your confidence and men love a confident woman as it intriges them. Don't make him TOO sure of himself. Keep him on his toes a bit. They like the chase and the seduction.
Happy days in love , Lynne

Every relationship is deffinetley a risk!!! Don't let a past relationship ruin what could be a great one. You have to let go and enjoy what you currently have going on for yourself. If you don't take the risk you will never know!!!!

Getting over fears in relationships can take a long time. You'll just have to realize that he obviously cares about you and stuff because you are still together.

It's hard to say but you have to learn to trust him if you want your relationship to go good and to keep on going.