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Why wouldn't a girl who liked me actually date me?

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(Age:25 to 29) When: 4 months ago

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thats sort of my question as I meet this girl about 2 years ago now and we got along really good and I wanted to date her but she just wouldn't go for it and she seemed to really like me so I don't really understand why she'd reject me if she liked me . maybe I was missing something or just wasn't up to her standards for guys . but then she seemed to like me so I was left pretty confused by the fact she wouldn't go for me . he attitude was sort of that she'd like me to find someone but just not her . which left me pretty confused considering I liked her and not really that into trying to meet someone else .

anyone have any thoughts on this or girls been through this before and maybe could explain why they might not go for a relationship in such a situation ?


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awol07 When: 4 months ago

She likes you as a person but is not sexually attracted to you. You should move on.

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I look fairly normal and she's pretty small so I was a bit taller than her , hinestly though we were a good fit physically for each other and that I could of handled her well in the bedroom . but yeah maybe she wasn't nearly as sexually attracted to me as I was to her . not sure how I go about changing this for future girls I will meet , seem to have a hard time creating attraction or geting them interested . - 4 months ago

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While a minimum standard of attractiveness is important, after that sexual attraction may have nothing to do with looks. Sometimes there is a "click" and sometimes there isn't, and a lot of it has to do with personality. I'm sure there is a girl out there who likes you just the way you are, and the best way to get a woman's attention is to have confidence in yourself without seeming arrogant. - 4 months ago

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Well my sad story is from the other end of the story you've just told, guy I REALLY liked, I mean pretty damn crazy about finally asked me out and I just couldnt' believe he was actually saying those words that I just sat there and didnt' respond. He of course took it as a rejection - which I tried to fix a million times, even asked him out months later but no good. So I don't know about him. But regarding you...is it possible there was some sort of miscommunication like this? Are you sure she wasn't already involved with someone? Was she maybe getting over someone and afraid to get back involved?

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So basically there might be complications in her life that might prevent her from wanting to actually date you... like fear of dating, dear of commitment, or just some issues with other people she might have. She might have thought you were cute/hot/ect and just was bunt about it,so she was seeking no relationship whatsoever...
move on - 4 months ago

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Sorry - ar you answering his question or my answer?! - 4 months ago

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AtomizerJr When: 4 months ago

If she wanted to date you, she'd date you.

It's really that simple.

The "why" questions don't really matter (though it's natural to have those questions).

Good luck.

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Yeah I don't know it didn't all make sense to be honest as she did seem to like me . not sure why she didn't want to date me , maybe I didn't come across as fun enough or missed my chance or something . I could of waited too long and got stuck in the friends zone . - 4 months ago

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