I am trying sooo hard, well maybe too hard! But I told him in a little morninh text that he is my drug and that I am addicted! Tonight when we talked on th phone, he said something about it to me, and I replied to him that "I guess that they will be sending me to Rehab for this one" He told me that there is no rehab involved in this circumstance.
Tell me guys does this mean that he don't plan on sending me to Rehab(breaking my heart). Or is it that there isn't one to help?
You need to take it down like 10 notches. Even I would be scared and turned off if a guy said those sort of things to me. It's like hello? Needy and clingy much?
You're putting too much stress on it from the start. I don't even want to imagine how it'll be after (IF) some time passes. You'll get crazy and possessive and overly dependent and you really don't want that.
If you keep that up, you WILL get your heartbroken and not because he came into the relationship with the intention to break it but because you MADE him break it by scaring him off.
Also, for your own sake, don't depend so much on a guy, it's not healthy. Yes, it's a great thing to have someone you like so much in your life and be with him. However, he is a PART of your life, not YOUR WHOLE LIFE.
To avoid getting hurt (although it's unavoidable sometimes when dating) relax and just enjoy the time together. Stop worrying all the time that he's going to hurt you, take all negative thoughts out of your head and just be you.
You are right, I am glad that I asked! I really didnt even look at it like that! Honestly I don't see him backing up to it at all! We still talk all the time! We have plans for the weekend. He wants me to cook him dinner. So now I will just do what you have said back off and just let it happen. I will not stress it. Thanks for your insight, it really does make me look at it in a different light! - 7 months ago
Go find someone else who will appreciate you love and affection. Millions of men would love to be with a passionate woman like you. Being clingy can be somewhat of a problem but it can also be manageable too. To be wanted is a good thing, nobody can say you are not doing your part in making a love happen. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Um, first off, you shouldnt' be that infatuated with the guy. If you are that infatuated, and he's not as into you, you will either get used or get your heart broken. Everyone likes to be liked, but if you come on too strong, it will push him away. NO ONE wants a friend or relationship where the other person is clingy or desperate, or needs to be around you. We will want the opposite.
Ya I see what you are sayin, but he likes it. Really. Belive me if he didnt I wouldnt do it! He liked the text! He told me that it made him smile when he read it. I was more on why would he tell me that there's no rehab to help this one. Really he is a Leo so A LION! He likes the attention! For real! It hasn't changed a thing between us. But I am glad that you gave me your insight! I like that I can look at it from a mans point of view! Thank you! - 7 months ago
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When: 7 months ago
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