Is it wrong for a girl to want to be in a committed loving relationship before she has sex?

You shouldn't do anything you don't want to do. There are lots and lots of guys who would love to date you and get to know you first. Could it be that you are attracted to certain types of guys? You wouldn't be the first girl who knows that "bad boys" are bad for them, but is attracted to them anyway. Or do you look in the wrong places (bars)? Try to think of other places to meet guys who you would rather date, or think of interests or clubs you could join where you could meet some nice guys. Good luck!

The notion of love and sex have become twisted. Sex is so casual these days that it's no longer tied together with love.

Men have realised that we don't have to be locked into a contract bound by "love" anymore. We can still get what we want and be free.

I know it's such a nasty thing to say, but that's the way the world works now. And as the others say 80% or more of the guys on this earth are d***s and it's getting harder to find the right guy for you. I don't know what the answer is to that but you have to keep trying to find him.

But at the end of the day guys are animals. Sex is what we are here on this earth for. Love and playing the game is a vehicle to that. And because women are becoming more and more independent not needing us, we as guys are getting more desperate too.

If a guy tells you he wants sex, but he's not ready for a relationship, what he really means, is that he doesn't want a relationship WITH YOU.

Guys can be hypocritical in the fact that they want action from you early in the relationship. But if you give it up on the first or second date, their respect for you goes down, and your "stock" as girlfriend material goes down.

If you want to attract loser guys, put out. If you want to attract better guys, don't put out. But if you want to find a good guy, you have to be able to attract a good guy. If you were a good guy, would you date you? Why or why not?

Guys who are looking for sex out of the get go aren't looking for a long term relationships.

If you offer sex to guys. In a guys view if you give sex right away, that means you're easy.

So you can't win with either approach if you're planning on building a long term relationship with somebody.

Your best bet if to hold off on Sex. Time is money.

The losers will run away fast, because to them wasting time on girls who won't put out is not worth it.

Guys who really like you won't mind waiting.

The key points are to never start a relationship with sex right away. It will lead to failure.

Good guys won't take you seriously and losers always are in it for the short haul.

Wooo boy let me do this one at a time.

and is it wrong for a girl to want to be in a committed loving relationship before she has sex?
Your not wrong for this you just run into lots of pigs and let me tell you 70% of guys are truly pigs.

But the girls who don't put out you stop talking to? Cause they aren't men. They are pussies that don't know how to commet to a relationship.

Why is it that you'll try to get a girl to sleep with you right away but when they do you wouldn't want a relationship with them? The term is a PLAYBOY they chase anthing with titts and A$$! THey look at a lady like they are nothing but a pu$$ywhole.

Am I just outdated for thinking and feeling this way, or do I just still put to much emotion with sex since I've only had one partner and we broke up five years ago do the math I'm 24.

No your not out dated! Not in my books. I know how you feel. I am a Guy with the same way with the ladies. I can't sleep with them with out knowing they will be their down the road. I have to have that passonate feeling for them. And that is truly missing in society today. And ladies that you show passion for they just think your playing them like a fool. Cause so few guys do exist.

No it's not wrong, honestly I think that's the best way to go about it.

Guys who try to get a girl to sleep with them right away don't want relationships. I actually like when guys do that, it makes it easier to X them out. They just say they want relationships because that's what most girls want to hear. They can't say "Oh yeah I just want to beat it up but after I do I want nothing to do with your ass" so they have to lie and lead you on. If he stops talking to me I'm glad because he just showed who he was before I had sex with him and got hurt.

A guy that seriously wants to get to know you and wants a relationship will rarely try to get you to have sex. He'll respect your decision and wait till the time is right.