Home | New Members | Expert Answers | How To Videos | Our Blog | Sign Up | Sign In
Invite Friends
 
GirlsAskGuys.com GirlsAskGuys.com
  Chat Flirting Dating Relationships Sexuality Break-Up Behavior Style Other
Anonymous User

Too good to be true?

Average Rating: Not yet rated!
Your Rating: 
MiserableBoringEnjoyableInterestingFascinating
 
Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 26 days ago
Views: 170     Category: Dating

I have been going out with this girl for a while now. And what's weird is she accepts EVERY single day I asked if she wanna hang out.
We talk almost everyday - online/offline. And its a balanced thing - if I don't talk, she talks. If she dont, I do.

When we hang out together, its kinda comfortable and stuff. There's hardly any awkward moments. It's just too good?

So, yup, on 8th October - I asked if I had a chance, she said yes. And I asked if she'd accept me. She say "Hmm. Kinda fast."
I took it as "maybe" so we just agreed to see what happens.

Now? We are still going out and such. She never said no. It's good that we are spending time, but I got a whole lot of things and places to show her! But its not possible cos I wanna take it to the next level.

Sounds like I'm stuck in a friend-zone thing. But if she knows it...lol damn I'm confused.

Question is: What do I do to get her?


3000 characters left  Anonymous Spell Check Spell Check
 Report Question Widgets Note This
SocialTwist Tell-a-Friend
 Share on Facebook

Answers

    From Guys  
2
From Girls  
5
 

What Girls Said

CuddlyCarla
287  
CuddlyCarla      When: 7 days ago
Oh boy. Your first big mistake is asking her to hang out every single day, whether she accepts or not. There's something to be said for patience, build-up, and anticipation. If you don't have that, your situation is already getting off on the wrong foot. No matter how much you like someone initially, don't overdo it. Once a week in the beginning is fine and it gives you both something to look forward to that will strengthen your personal time together. Even online or offline, don't overdo it at first. Don't stay on too long, leave room for a next conversation or date. It sounds like both of you are being too instantly available which is unhealthy in the sense that you should both have your own lives and friends. Healthy people do, and whether someone agrees to that time or not, it's going to look desperate and like you have no life if you just spend every single day together right off the bat, it's destined for burn-out. It becomes somewhat lazy and comfortable and too friendship-oriented when you both take each other for granted. It sounds like you have a problem with confidence, if you actually used the wording 'Do I have a chance?' It suggests that you aren't sure that you do. Women aren't attracted to that and won't see you as a potential date if you have to ask something that way. Women are attracted to people who know they have a chance and just go for what they want, not people that actually have to stop and ask if they are liked or have a chance in heck. That's probably why she was hesitant to agree, she might already have lost some respect because you are too insecure. If you are stuck in friends zone, these actions are most likely responsible. Next time, do this all differently. To see if it's salvageable, change the rules. Make yourself less available, but continue to let her know you are interested. Take her on nice dates, and make a real effort to assert that you have value and that this is a romantic thing, not a friendship. Stand up for yourself, stand up for her, and believe in yourself. That's what it's about.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

 
Anonymous User
N/A  
Anonymous User      When: 16 days ago
So I have a question about this. What if she is seeing another guy or guys too? Then what? What if she is telling them that the two of you are just friends?
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

ALWAYSclassy
21982  
ALWAYSclassy      When: 26 days ago
I don't think you're stuck in the friend zone, it seems like she likes you more than a friend she just wants to take things slow. If you want to get her keep doing what you're doing, don't rush things just enjoy the time you have together and when the time is right she'll let you know.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

 
Anonymous User
N/A  
Anonymous User      When: 26 days ago
You need to sit her down and talk to her about how your feeling. Maybe she is just be cautious, I'm sure like most people she has been hurt before let her know how you truly feel about her and I'm sure her walls will come down. Good Luck
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

lollypopleanna
64  
lollypopleanna      When: 26 days ago
just ask her where the relationship is going. and if she says something good then go to the next level.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 

What Guys Said

StarBuckeroo
193  
StarBuckeroo      When: 22 days ago
Shes considering it an option...sometimes girls who have already put you into the friend zone, have to adjust to not thinking of us as friends. . .She may be needing a little bit of time to consider the pros and cons of it all... I know when I had dated friends that it had been a concern of theirs that if a relationship didn't work out, if we would/could still be friends... most the time, from my experience anyways, we have not continued to be friends. So, I would give her time, keep showing her that you deserve her and that she deserves you. . . just be sweet with her, but don't show it too much. . .sometimes girls get comfy with the whole, You're my friend and act like a boyfriend but I'm just going to keep you as a friend...I have always taken that as being taken advantage of...but, depends on the individual I guess...
But, yeah. give her some time, keep showing interest... don't kiss her butt TOO much, but just enough to show her that you are interested. . . that's all I got..hope it works out for ya
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

D3adkl0wn
153  
D3adkl0wn      When: 25 days ago
tell her that you want her to be your girlfriend.. I'm sure based on what you wrote here she'd accept..
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 
Find more questions on I'm stuck in a friend-zone     
Home > Dating Questions > Too good to be true?
 
Join GirlsAskGuys
Members earn points to get Expert Advice on Video, Amazon & iTunes Gift Cards, books and more!
Male Female
 Open Contests  
Crazy Thanksgiving Story with Family
Thanksgiving is right around the corner and just like the last year and the year before, you will most likely spend it with your family. And just like everyone else, you have a crazy uncle or an...
$20 Amazon Gift Card   $20 Amazon Gift Card
Check out the winner of the last contest!
Worst Pick Up Lines
Winner received $20 Amazon Gift Card
View All Contests >>
Questions on I'm stuck in a friend-zone
A Girl Asked I'm stuck in the "friend zone!" -- GUYS! HELP!
This is new for me. I'm stuck in the friend zone. Now I know how you guys feel! OMG! If you help me out, I promise never to put a guy in the friend...  
A Guy Asked Too good to be true?
I have been going out with this girl for a while now. And what's weird is she accepts EVERY single day I asked if she wanna hang out.We talk almost...  
More Questions on
I'm stuck in a friend-zone
Expert Advice
More Video Answers
A Guy Asked  Question: What do girls think about first date hand holding or kiss?

Video Answer From Tamsen Fadal
Click here to watch larger video
Disclaimer: GirlsAskGuys cannot guarantee the accuracy of answers, opinions and advice submitted by members. Please use common sense when following or omitting any content on GirlsAskGuys.com
Browse Categories: Flirting  |   Dating  |   Relationships  |   Sexuality  |   Break-Up  |   Behavior  |   Style  |   Other                                         Home Top
  Site Links     About GirlsAskGuys     GirlsAskGuys Widgets     Help Us Improve!   RSS Feeds
Home
Videos
Partners
Search Questions
Terms of Use, Privacy
Help, New Members
About Us
Contact Us, Send Feedback
Sitemap
Advertise With Us
Resources
Post your questions on your blog, website, or any social networking page. You can embed into MySpace, Facebook and more. Click here for more info.
Have a suggestion? See a problem on the site? Click here to give feedback and suggestions on the new GirlsAskGuys, and help us give you a better experience. Visit our blog here
 Subscribe
Add to My AOL
Add to Google Reader or Homepage
©2009 girlsaskguys.com™. All Rights Reserved.