I started dating this guy a couple days ago but we don't go to the same school, so we talk to each other on the phone a lot. But it so obvious that my mom doesn't want me to go out with him. When ever she hears me on the phone with him, she'll rush over and tell me to get off because I have homework to do. Which is true, but not that much usually. She hates it when I talk about him to her. My dad is fine with it, but my mom is just bothering me so much. Now she will barely look at me and when she does, its like a "death stare. " I really want her to except that I have a boyfriend. I hate when I get her mad, but when she keeps talking about how when I talk to him, I am always late for everything and that I am slacking on my homework, I just start to get so mad and backtalk to her. I feel bad, but she doesn't need to do it every time I talk to him. What should I do?
She just doesn't want you to get behind. You're going to have to put your work first and spend time with your boyfriend later. Prove to her that you're still in control and she'll back off. Oh yeah and try not to talk to him on the phone when your mom is around if that aggravates her.
Why don't you try to ask her the real reason(s) why she doesn't like him. If she decides to tell you, don't talk back and defend him; Just listen to what she has to say. Let her know you can take her point of view into consideration so she doesn't feel all that bad.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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