The girl say I treat her very nice and I asked her is she uncomfortable about it , she say yes, well I told her that maybe 1 day you will accept me ... then she say she is confused ? I asked her but she don't want to say it.. What does she mean she is confused ?
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Update: well, maybe I really misread her intention...she only want my friendship only... I am so stupid...
20 days ago
No girl is going to be interested in or date a guy that actually has to ask to be accepted or say that one day she will. If you already accept yourself, so will she. It's all about self esteem. Don't expect her to believe in you or take you seriously if you can't do that for yourself.
IC...well becos when I told her that I like her..she didn't say that she will reject me.She say let the nature take it course.I don't know...I throught when you like a person you will treat her nicely but nvr expected she felt uncomfortable....when I say one day you will accept me,i actually mean I hope that we can been togather ,,,, - Yesterday
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When: 20 days ago
how old is this girl? and clearly she's not interested.
She is 30 years old... I express to her once, she say she didn't reject me but prefer to let the natural take it course..So that mean I stand no chnace with this girl ? - 20 days ago
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I suggest you leave her alone. - 20 days ago
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How to I leave her alone ? althrought she don't like me...isnt very bad if I just ignore her..this is not a gentleman to behave... - 20 days ago
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You give her her space. that's what she wants. stop contacting her. also, is she a native english speaker? or does she speak the language that you natively speak? - 20 days ago
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I really don't understand, if she really don't like me..why she still call me and talk to me, and asked me out ? like today, she asked me whether want to meet for dinner .....what she trying to do ? - 20 days ago
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I don't know. you didn't mention that before. it seems she enjoys your friendship but isn't interested in you in a romantic way. - 20 days ago
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She is not really a native english speaker..she most of the time she speak malay ith her frined.. I spoken to her in either english and chinese - 20 days ago
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Ok, because I was going to say, if she's a native english speaker, then you need to work on your english, because it could put her off. but if she's malaysian, then I don't think it matters. - 20 days ago
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Well, I think I got no choice then.. I think I had accept this is the fact....i don't think I want to get involved all this stuff again... it so hurting...Thank you for all urs answer..... - 20 days ago
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When: 20 days ago
It means that she does not want to see you right now. A lot of girls I know say this when they don't want to hurt a guy's feelings. If I were you, I would stop contacting her and look for another girl. If she changes her mind, she will probably contact you.
So she only me as a ordinary friend ? So she say those so that I would not feel hurt ? You mean you just me to feel better only ? isn't more hurt if she don't tell me the truth ? Should I asked her for a answer ? - 20 days ago
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No, don't ask her anything else. She was trying to be polite. She doesn't want to see you. - 20 days ago
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Something I don't understand. if she don't want to see me.. why she still call me and chat and asked me out ? - 20 days ago
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She should not do that. You need to tell her to make a decision. - 20 days ago
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Pardon me.. she say this to me" I mean let it natural" "means like normal you and me...But you are too nice to me... " asked her to make a decision ? isit becos ebcos she afraid to lose my friendship ? - 20 days ago
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I think she is not interested. Maybe she just wants to be friends and that is why she is calling. I don't think you should call her. I don't understand what she said to you. If I were you, I would not contact her. Find a less confusing girl. - 20 days ago
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It been a while since I fall in love with a girl...i almost give up finding a girlfriend so when she appeared, I throught my girl had appear...what should I do now..i am very confused and very disappointment... - 20 days ago
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Well, she is being confusing! I know it is hard to find someone, but that is what you need to do. This girl has said that she does not want to be with you right now. Don't waste your time waiting for her. The only thing you can do is look for someone else. - 20 days ago
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Well, I think I got no choice then.. I think I had accept this is the fact....i don't think I want to get involved all this stuff again... it so hurting...Thank you for all urs answer.. - 20 days ago
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