To tell you the truth I'm getting a little sick of asking girls out and getting rejected. I'm not a bad looking guy in my opinion and I'm in shape I take mixed martial arts. By no means am I a jerk I'm very respectful to girls and can get upset when I see guys being jerks to them, for example the first girl I asked out said yes and slowly drifted away we didn't even get to go on a first date. The second girl said she would get back to me next week, well she didn't. I'm kind of picky but really can't help it the physical connection has to be there first. It really seems as if maybe I'm to mature for my age I don't drink and will never do a drug in my life it is really in my morals. It seem girls around my age 18 just want guys who party, I don't. Well lets talk about this other girl at work I didn't even bother asking her out because I thought she was too much older than me but it turns out I'm a little older. She is really pretty and I really don't think there's much chance but I need a date for prom I'm not sure what to do. I talk to her and she seems like she is a flirt and that confuses me so girls and guys give me some help/advice. I'm determined not to go to prom single!
If you like the girl then you should ask her to prom. Bring it up casually and be like "so I don't have a date for prom, and you're a really cool person so I think I'd have a lot of fun if you went with me. " You can't loose anything, you gotta take that chance or you could regret it and always have that "What if? " feeling. Don't already cancel the possibility of her saying yes just because the other girls didn't. Every girl is different. And even if you went as friends that wouldn't be so bad, spending some time with a pretty girl who's cool is never a waste haha. To me, it sounds like you choose the wrong types of girls. You seem like a really great guy who's really nice. You need to find a girl who's like you and holds the same morlas as you do which I agree is pretty hard to do in high school. But they're definitely out there (:
Should I get to know her a little more before asking her to prom? - 7 months ago
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Yeah you should get to know her better. It doesn't have to be like "best friend" close, but close enough to where you guys are both casual friends and you can call her a friend and not an acquaintance. - 7 months ago
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Well we talked a little more she smiled a few times to me she asked how my birthday went. Im afraid she might be trying to hook me up with another girl I work with I hope not as that kind of shows she's not interested. I really can't tell if she is just being nice, flirting, or if she likes me, any ideas? - 7 months ago
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What is she doing that's making you think that she's trying to hook you up with someone else? If she is trying to do that, then it sounds like she's just trying to be nice and be your friend at work and nothing else. - 7 months ago
Haha I kinda feel the same, like I'm too mature for the guys my age. No bitch, no party girl, no smoker, don't do drugs, don't get into arguments unless it's really important, things like that. But don't give up, never give up! There is always 50% chance the girl says yes and if you don't ask, there is 100% no. Just act really casual and ask if she wants to come with you! Good luck.
Should I ask her if she would like to hang out or just casually ask her to prom. When do I know I know her enough to ask her to prom or do you even need to know her. - 7 months ago
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It depends: when is the prom? Is it still far away, you can ask to hang out casually, maybe after work? Go for a drink or an ice cream, a walk in the park things like that. If the prom is soon, just ask her to the prom. You say you guys talk, so you know her a little bit, I think that's good enough too ask her to come with you. - 7 months ago
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I talked to her more and she asked how my birthday went. We talked a little I have a feeling she might be trying to hook me up with another girl at work if so doesn't that mean she isn't interested in me I hope not. - 7 months ago
Whoever did these age brackets suck, do you have any friends that are girls? and I would say it is more intimidating to know someone that's going to punch you in the face then to ask a girl out, because your priorities are screwed man, next little shindig your chums to throw where the smallest muscle t-shirt you have and most importantly do you have a ride? and I ain't talkin' about no yugo, stand next to it at the parking lot you will definitely be chick magnet, or else scope out the drama club chicks and the nerdy chicks too and the one's in the weight room if you work out
You are still young, so you should go out and enjoy life. You don't have to drink or do drugs to have a good time. What are your hobbies? Maybe you like to bowl, or go swimming. The point is to go out and meet new people, not as a hook up, but just as friends. The more outgoing you are, the better you'd be personality wise. And that is a big key for meeting girls, to be fun and have a great personality. Find something you're comfortable with and take it from there. And make sure you enjoy life, you are only young for so long.
Well I take mma, like dirtbike riding, swimming, weightlifting, bowling is fun and also a good first date. I really don't mind doing anything a girl might do like shopping because I'm spending time with them. - 7 months ago
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Yes, you get the idea. I'll do the shopping thing too, not for me but for her. (I just people watch, but hey I'm a guy) Girls are all about feelings. Make them feel important. Take an interest in their life, not their body. Get to know who they really are. Everything else will fall in place in time. - 7 months ago
Oh yeah and ask the chick at work what do you have to lose? - 7 months ago
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It just hurts to get knocked down over and over, I mean there are girls I could date but, I find the physical attraction very important. - 7 months ago
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