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What should I do?

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MLMN1234 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I met this guy on Halloween this year. We hit it off instantly. We spent most of the night just talking and having a really good time. We did make out for maybe 5 minutes at the end of the night. The next day we text each other and found out with had a lot in common. The next day he asked me when we could hangout again. He was hoping for that night but I had to work so we agreed on this Saturday. On Tuesday I messaged him and we both had a break in our schedule and I asked him if he wanted to hangout. He never answered me. So I text him a couple hours later and asked him why he wasn't talking to me. He didn't reply. So I didn't text him on Wednesday and I text him this morning and said hey how's it going? and still no responds. What should I do? I don't know if he is busy or just not interested anymore. Any help would be appreciated thanks.


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furiosity23
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furiosity23      When: 3 months ago
Speaking from experience, when a girl texts a guy, then guy doesn't respond, and then the girl sends a text along the lines of "why aren't you talking to me," it sends up a red flag of neediness. Don't text him again until he texts you.
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nyg718
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nyg718      When: 4 months ago
um probably not interested or just playing games stop texting him until he texts back don't look obssesive
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Xenophobia      When: 4 months ago
guys do not lose interest that quickly. id wait it out and think about other things in life in the mean time.
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kriskiss      When: 4 months ago
He was probly waiting on the anticipation for saturday and thought tuesday was soon maybe he got a pimple...but ya leave it a lone if he don't get back to you he ain't interested...guys like da chase
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breeezy23
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breeezy23      When: 4 months ago
my advice would be to stop texting him. if he truly is interested in you he will text you. girls shouldnt chase after guys make him chase after you. An if he doesn't end up texting you back then forget him.
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augustine_64      When: 4 months ago
...does it come up blocked or call disconnected that mite be it. also dating texting don't mix messages can take up to a week for answer. call him if you can if you at least get his message system tell him to call you back later. and if everthing else fails keep that plan and hangout on satureday and talk about it then. don't worry it's not that he doesn't like you it mite just be because he has his phone off or something. just breath and just act normal keep your plans to hangout.
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sonic241928
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sonic241928      When: 4 months ago
Just give it a rest. He could have any number of reasons why he didn't text, and they might be good reasons. (I know, because I have delayed answering texts from girls I was interested in, because of personal situations that couldn't be avoided.) If he likes you, he'll get back to you.
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d8880      When: 4 months ago
haha don't ask why a guy is ever responding if he is trying to avoid you he won't respond and if he is just really busy then takes a look at his text he thinks you are a paranoid just wait like 2 days for him to contact you if that doesn't work text him again
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xcountryrunner1
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xcountryrunner1      When: 3 months ago
prbly not intrested in you
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Anonymous User      When: 4 months ago
thats a turn off. don't text him anymore you may be coming on to strong. same thing happen to me me and this guy was talkin;; I thought we had somethin good going then out of no where he doesn't talk to me anymore, but I fond out his phone was just broke so give it alittle time and maybe hell come around if not let I go wasn't meant to be.
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hisangel      When: 4 months ago
In my experience, a guy is never too busy for the girl he really likes. I'm sorry to tell you that but its what I've seen. He can be attracted to her or he can have a little bit of interest. But for a guy to not respond to texts for several days tells me he isn't trying to give you the sign that he is as interested as you are.

You are texting him and he doesn't respond, so you text him again asking why. And then you text him again, still no response. I have a hard time believing he isn't getting the texts.

I'm sorry to say this but this is a guy you met at a party one night and made out with for a while. You have no idea what kind of person he is. And I think he is showing you right now.

I think you need to be cautious of him because I get that feeling he will rear his head in a couple days saying he is sorry with some excuse. But it will continue where he is never there for you. And for some reason, all the conversations end up talking about sex.

From a guys perspective, a girl was willing to make out with him at a party and she didn't even know who he was. He isn't going to think it's romantic and a great story to tell your children some day. He is wondering how much time he has to put in before you have sex with him. He is probably thinking that it won't be that much. That's probably why he asked you to hang out the next night. He didn't want a date, he wanted sex.

You don't have to answer this but did it go any further on Saturday night? I can't help but wonder why you talked about how great your text conversation was but left out the details on your actual date night.
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marley86      When: 4 months ago
It could be a possibility that he was turned off by the fact that you asked why he wasn't responding to your text. I have been really busy before, for legitimate reasons, and I didn't have my phone with me or even have time to respond. I find it frustrating when I open up my phone to see text from people seeming slightly angry about this. Yes, if it was family member, or a close friend I could see why they might do that, but, not somebody that I met over the weekend. I was actually pretty into this guy, but he kept getting mad when I didn't respond to his text right away. When I first meet someone, I want them to be into me, but not appear like they don't have other things going on too. If I was you, I would text him on Saturday and tell him that you can't hangout because you have something else going on. Never let a guy feel like you are waiting around for his phone call, because he will be more likely to take advantage of you.
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Anonymous User      When: 4 months ago
Well, who knows if he is too busy or not interested but you do know one thing, he is rude. With texting there is really no excuse for not getting back to someone. No one is so busy they cannot send a text, not even the President of the United States. If a guy ever tells me he is too busy to respond to a text, I tell him it sounds like we are not a good match because I am looking for someone who has time to date.

When a guy calls to ask if you can hangout on a moment's notice, it can be a sign they are hoping to hookup and have sex. My theory is that when a guy is in the mood for sex, he wants it then, he doesn't want to plan a future date and when he gets over the urge, well he's perfectly happy to wait until he is horny again to call you and try and get together that night.

When a guy is really in to you, he wants to plan a date because he doesn't want to take the chance that you will lose interest and go out with someone else instead.

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