Met a guy about 2 months ago. He took my number and texted me a few days later. We never ended up getting together for almost a month when we went for dinner. He paid, we talked for over 2 hours, it was great. We hugged and said goodbye. About a week later he invited me to see a show with him that he had an extra ticket to. He did not ask me to pay for the ticket, even though I offered. The show was great, had a good time with him. He dropped me off and we hugged again. Since, we have been texting every few days. Now it has been about 2-3 weeks and we are finally getting together again tonight. I want to move forward a bit.. the dates have seemed to "friend"ish.. no sexuality or anything. Should I go in for the kiss at the end of the night? What should I do to show him I am interested in more?
Make yourself look sexy, wear makeup (not too much) and good clothes that show off your best features. Tell him how wonderful he is - listen to him, be amazed by his stories. Try to have relaxed and open body language (hard, I know). Make and hold eye contact. Smile. Find reasons to be close to him. Make it easy for him to take it to the next level. If he doesn't act, then he is either:
1. Not really into you 2. Into you a lot, which he finds scary
I agree, his non-physicality either means he's not really into you (not likely since he's been hanging out with you) or that he's really into you and he's afraid of screwing it up. If you give him the slightest push into it (grabbing his hand or something) he may feel more comfortable making a move. - 4 months ago
Touch him on the arm, shoulder or leg when you're sharing a laugh or having a good, lighthearted conversation. Smile at him a lot--a whole lot. Laugh at his jokes. Tell him you're having a really good time with him, and if you feel like, compliment him on various things. As a last result, if he hasn't done it already, go in for the move yourself and kiss him.
I love this question, because I'm afraid of coming off like a friend too much, but I also don't know how to show sexual interest in a girl without being awkward. But here, I'm just telling you the things I would respond to. Best of luck.
Flirt with him and do some things to introduce more touching, but let him be the one to initiate the kiss.
So, when I like someone I introduce casual touching, like touching them on the shoulder or teasing them in a way that allows for me to touch them. Find ways to close the space between the two of you by the end of the night, say talking to him when he drops you off and standing closer to him and looking into his eyes and allowing for a pause in conversation before you go to your door, whether it is the door to your house or the door to your car. He will get the hint. He is probably just afraid of offending you and coming off as moving too fast.
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