I have had one proper boyfriend, that was when I was 15, and was for 3 weeks. I've had another 'relationship' last year, when I was 17 and that lasted about 6 months, but he didn't realise we were dating, he thought we were just getting together for fun, and having sex as friends, I was like what?! anyway, more recently, I hooked up with this guy who I met at a bar, and me and some friends were staying there anyway, as we were friends with his roomate. So we had gone out as a group, and ended up getting together, and he invited me back to his house this weekend, but it got cancelled at the last minute. He also isn't replying to my texts very quickly, and when he does, he doesn't seem interested in asking me much, although he was the one who asked for my number, and who was texting me a lot at the beginning of the week, but it has sort of faded out this week. I have also been told by a friend that he has kind of got something going on with an ex of his, who he was with for 3 years, up until about 2 months ago, and also another girl. But he did tell me that he wanted me more, but I really don't know what to do. It seems like every guy I like doesn't like me, and when they do like me, they either treat me rubbishly, or kind of forget me within a week or less. Its not as if I'm a crazy girl, I haven't been texting him all the time, or calling, or anything, so I'm not being possesive, but something seems to have happened to make him scared off, or not want me any more. He is also 21, and I'm 18, so I don't know if the age difference is part of it? but then its not that big a gap. Sorry this is so long, didn't realise how much I had to say!
Don't try to be in a relationship or find love. Right now you should be carefree. Meet a lot of guys so you can have a lot of options. Be carefree, guys can kinda tell if you are really into them early on and they don't appreciate it. If a guy treats you like rubbish set his ass straight then send him up the river and find another one.
Thanks! I know I should do that, its just hard when you meet someone you like, I can never play it cool, you know? I mean I'm not like falling in love with them crazy, but I kinda want to get to know them more and spend more time with them, maybe I just move too quickly. Thanks for the advice anyway! - 14 days ago
Leave this nonsense be and find a man who actually cares about you for who you are, not for what you offer him. Let the right man find you, and stop being so worried about it. You are still young, and you should focus more on maturing yourself and enjoying your life right now, otherwise you'll just be bait for scavengers to clean up. If you aren't content with yourself, no relationship is going to make your life any better, only worse.
*hug*. I'm sorry to hear that- it reminds me of me. I've been in and out of at least seven relationships, none of which lasted longer than a week, and two of which were on-again-off-again and semi-abusive. (If you leave I'll do X to your reputation). She ended up screwing my life over big time when I eventually DID leave, but on my way out of the state I met someone I've been dating for over a year. I hope the same happens with you.
So in this particulra one, where you went out with someone, if he isn't replying to your texts quickly then he isn't placing a huge importance on your communications and therefore probably just isn't interested, I'm sorry to say. He also doesn't seem all that honest if he didn't tell you about his ex up front. Good luck, though.
not sure you don't seem to have a lot of experience yet , which could be part of your problem .you may also be trying too hard to find a boyfriend rate away and not focusing enough time on just meeting people who could lead to something down the road . that is a mistake I made before , I worried too much about being single and not enough on just meeting people .
When you're looking for love or a boyfriend or anything of that sort... odds are you won't find it. Stop looking. Focus on you and what you like to do. Go out and find new hobbies or take classes. You could find guys there and even if not, you're still occupied. Finding guys in bars generally doesn't work out, or so I've heard.
A watched pot never boils ever heard that saying like tinygurl said when you look for love you won't find it you need to stop looking as the more you look the more desperate you will become and I don't mean that to sound mean I've been in ur shoes when you so desperatly want a boyfriend the only type of men you meet are users!!
it doesn't sound as though he is interested if he doesn't relpy to ur texts quickly so put him out of ur mind and move on as there is an amazing guy out there waiting for you - An hour ago
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