It's true, we guys tend to be pretty obvious about our intentions, unless we're really shy.
I will say two things:
1) Assume attraction. This simply means that if you ASSUME he's into you, then you'll feel more relaxed and you'll enjoy your interactions with him more. You'll also likely start to flirty more heavily with him. If he wasn't that into at first, your escalated behavior might just make him so. And if he's already interested, then he'll be getting more signals from you that tell him to make a move.
2) Pay attention to some of his obvious behaviors that will help you to ASSUME his ATTRACTION. Here is a quick list:
- He smiles at you a lot.
- He laughs too much at your lame jokes.
- He finds reasons to hang around with you.
- He suggests activities for the both of you to do.
- He leans his body into you when your body is leaning away. It's unconscious.
- He pays attention to you and isn't easily distracted by other things.
- He has good eye contact with you.
- He is overly agreeable with your point of view on things.
- He talks about you with his friends.
- He texts, emails, calls you often.
When you assume he's into you, you'll be far more likely at act confident and attractive when around him.
Good luck!
~ Robby
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