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Why is he blowing hot & cold?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 13 days ago
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Hey all, well here's a brief (ish) description of my situation. Please answer honestly.

I met this guy off the net, we chatted for a few weeks and then met up, clicked straight away & have now been seeing each other (bf/gf) for 2 weeks. When I see him he's really affectionate, likes spending time with me etc and when were apart we speak via text & phone calls (sometimes) were more of a texter! lol.
He is always telling me how much he likes me and misses me but he has also told me he doesn't get attached to girls easily.

However, when I'm with him he says things like he can really see himself liking me a lot, and that he really wants us to work etc. He keeps looking at me, & playing with my hair etc & saying lovely things.

BUT, this week we was meant to be meeting up at the weekend & he had told me earlier in the week that his mates had arranged to go out a while ago & he had told them he couldn't go because he wanted to see me, so I took it has he still was. But the day before he text me & said he had to leave it because he had got to go out with his mates has it was prearranged.
I was a bit annoyed has he had told me that he really wanted to see me, but then suddenly he had to go with them! So that made me think he's a bit unreliable. When I asked about meeting up another day he made his excuses. & said we would have to meet Wednesday.

I asked him out rite if he is still interested and does wanna see me again and he said yes, & that he really really wants to be wit me and for us to work. But he has said that he likes me but likes his own space & only wants to see me a couple of times a week and over time has we get more serious it will become more.

Is this acceptable for a new relationship? Why does he say things and then push me away?


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girlsguys88      When: 3 days ago
he's not pushing you away, he's not letting things get so intense that both your energies are so focused on each other.

let him have his space and time w his own life before you, his friends, hobbies etc.

take it easy and be into the things in your own life too so you don't want him so much in a clingy way and hopefully things'll work out :)

also, the space he needs and you should create as well is healthier for a relationship, you need your own lives, a balance
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