That basically sums it up. I'm a 3 sport athlete, I have 3 jobs, and am busy with family stuff. Last my boyfriend and I got in an um well argument about me making excuses to not hang out. We were suppose to go to a movie a couple nights ago but swimming practice was at 8 and I didn't want to be tired so I said I couldn't cause of swimming. Than last night he wanted to come over for my birthday, but sectionals is this morning and I really want to do good, so I told him no again cause of swimming. So he asked me if I wanted to hang out any more cause "it seems like I'm always making excuses" It makes no sense to me because I'm always busy and he knows that. Oh another thing is that he never invites me over to his house...idk what to do we talked about it and he said he's fine with it but I don't know I don't like to get in fights... HELP!
Part of being in a relationship is spending time with that other person. The activity you are doing together depends on the people involved, but the key aspect is time TOGETHER. If you boyfriend wants to spend time with you and you keep saying "Can't see you, I'm too busy with X", it is completely understandable that he is going to feel as if you care more about X than you do about him. Even if he knows that you are busy, it's only natural for him to want to spend time with you and he likely also wants you to feel as if you wish to spend time with him. If you're just shrugging him off constantly and not even showing any remorse that you can't spend time together, he's going to think that you don't value the relationship (and therefore don't value him).
If you really like this person and wish to keep him around, I'd recommend trying to make some time together. I'm not saying that you should give up all those activities that are important to you because that could lead to resentment. Just try to make a little time together. If you're serious about it, you can make those moment special. If you are a good match together, he can understand your busy schedule and will also understand that those "special times together" are important to you because you sacrificed other activities to spend time with him.
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