There is this boy that I meet a few months ago. We only hung out once and after that we would just talk on the phone.
One day he asked me to hang out again but then when it came time to hang out he said he was busy. He did this a few times. A few weeks later he called me and said that we should meet up for a few. Then he said that he was doing a lot of things that day and that he would stop by my house really quick but I ended up telling him that I had to do something that day.
Then this past week he texted me and said he was very busy that day but that we should meet up to say hi really quick. I'm so confused because the things he says makes it sound like he just wants to hook up.
Do guys that just want to hook up usually just tell you straight out or maybe he feels bad because he is always busy and he just wants to meet up to chat?. I don't know guys what do you think help =(
He definitely wants a quick hook up. Us men don't come straight out and say it, well maybe do maybe some don't. But this is not your case, he definitely wants a booty call girl.
And, from what you described, it sounds like he is unreliable. If you still want to see him, go into it cautiously, because you might see more unreliability from him.
Well when you guys talk, what do you talk about? Do you talk about sex at all? It's hard to know what he wants. But here's the way I look at it. We spend our time, and we make time for what is important to us. So if he's always changing plans and not hanging out with you, doesn't sound like he's very serious about you.
If there was a girl that I really liked and I wanted to get to know and hang out with her, I'd make time to do that. But the fact that he's really flaky, I say get rid of him. The fact that he's like this and you two aren't even dating is a big sign. We ALWAYS put our best foot forward when we first meet the opposite sex. And if he's not even trying now, then forget him. He is either a player and just wants sex, or he's a flaky guy who doesn't want anything serious.
When we talk on the phone we talk about normal things. Like what is he doing and how is his? My day going. What normal people talk on the phone about. He never mentioned anything sexually to me. Yea I see where you would think its best that I stop talking to him thanks - 4 months ago
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Well if he doesn't bring up anything sexual, then that might not be all he's after. But still the fact that he's flaky and keeps coming up with things to do other then hang out with you is a huge red flag. I know that if I'm interested in a girl, I will make time and schedule whatever I can around her. - 4 months ago
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