well actually it hasn't been going that bad so far although I haven't dated any of them yet or done anything . I feel my visits to this fairly hot new nightclub have gone pretty well and there has been some fairly hot girls there as well . of course there are some issues here as its not a scene I necessary feel that comfortable in or would I normally go to this specific bar normally . so I've been surprised that it has gone so well and that I've actually enjoyed myself at this bar and that there has also been some quality girls there . now if only I could figure out how to actually pick them up ?
In my perspective, here's some of the things a guy could to do to catch my eye: - smile. Simple as that. Not a "hubba hubba" kind of smile, but just a simple, genuine smile. (I'm European, it might be a local thing :P) - you could send me a drink. Since I go to clubs primarily to dance, I might not notice you unless you do something concrete. - dance. Even if you can't, I somehow find guys that try to be endearing (and I'm not talking about the ones that make the smelly face and the awkward hip thrust either). :D
Hm.. if something else comes in mind, I'll sure write again.
Honestly, when me and my girlfriends go out, we go out to dance and have a good time - not to pick up. Most guys we met at clubs are obnoxious, drunk, arrogant and some even borderline sexual harass-ers who just try to grope their way through the dancefloor. Not saying all guys that go clubbing are like that, but just warning you now, most girls you'll meet out in these places aren't looking for long term relationships, and I'm sure most guys we meet out are only looking for one night stands as well...
It's a bad ass technique and super simple. I've tried it and it works...a little gimmicky but you'll see what I mean when I say it's "Bad Ass" and a major shortcut.
Just be casual and friendly. A simply, "hi" or "hello" would suffice for an introduction. Then ask them to dance. Your chances of dating a girl from a club is slim to none, since most girls go there to dance and have fun, not find prince charming. But if you play your cards right, you might develop some friendships that could lead to something more.
Define pretty well. Seriously nobody "dates" girls from any night club. As long as your not playing grab ass or being an obnoxious drunk most girls will be somewhat nice because they don't want to pay for their drinks. Its very important that you never under any circumstance buy drinks for a girl you just met. Again not sure your idea of picking up but if things are going well you ask for their number if you mean just for that night lay the charm on real thick,and don't over think things.
Its quite simple really, Talk to them! Don't tell them their beautiful or hot or anything of the like. If you're going to compliment them, make it subtle and indirect, like their accessories or something.You have to trigger attraction. So don't look like a putz who is desperate to pick up a girl. Finally, be funny, be cocky, be witty. Show only a minor amount of interest in the girl you like and a lot of interest in the girl you dont. hope that helps. These tips really work in a club setting. Remember that women have a completely different frame of mind in a club setting. I don't usually find any quality women worth keeping around at a club because of this.
Being as you have found "Quality" girls at these locations, I applaud you - rarely does that happen. In the event that you are not being mislead, to pursue them as a potential date- you need to follow up and be persistent with respect to her desires - if she doesn't want to pursue you, ease off and be a friend - if she doesn't want that, walk the other way and move on while enjoying the dance.
Get them away from the "night club" setting and show them who you are away from this environment. Make them have great memories of being with you and have give them something to look forward to. This can be achieved by being funny, being confident, or many other things; however, don't take it too far and become "arrogant" "rude" "perverted" or other derrogatives personality traits.
I hope the information helps- Be persistent and follow up! Best regards, ArtistBBoy
Well its not for everyone and you'd have to know what you were doing to have any chance there I think , I'm fairly expeerienced in the club scene but still not totally comfortable there - 4 months ago
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