Hey, I have a major problem. I've been sort of seeing this guy I met at work (I don't work with him now) but ever since I hung out with his friends (Jim and Joe) I've been so attracted to them both! They are so much fun, they make me laugh, and Joe treats me so well. BUT dustin really likes me, I don't know what to do? I don't want to screw things up friendship wise with Dustin, but I don't want to be with him if my feelings aren't as strong as they are for Jim or Joe. Please help!
You will probably 2nd-guess any decision that you make with the three of them, because there are so many choices. All you can do is pick one of them to try out as a potential boyfriend, and see how that goes. Good luck to you. ;-)
Have a threesome, just kidding. Well at one point in your life I think you gotta be a little selfish and go after what you want. Because who is really gonna give it to you. But the main question I would ask myself if its worth it to you, what do you want more? Because if you don't give them a answer you gonna just lead them on, I would make a decision before their emotions grow too much then you would hurt them. I think if you get with one of them now the damages might be minimal but if you keep going like you are their emotions are gonna get stronger and then that's where damage comes in. But find out what's wort it to you. No one can tell you that. Cool?
Well. I'm not that smart. But I think you should chose what guy you like the best. And start hanging out wit that one. But that's me. I'm just giving you a advice. But you should just pick one