Their personality because even if their not the hottest guy they can still make me laugh and have a good time and looks tends to fade after awhile when a person has a good personality they are gorgeous because it's not the outside that you are looking it's the inside
For the initial attraction, I'm attracted to boys who are slightly skinny, taller than me with dark hair and dark eyes.
But all that's meaningless unless they can think for themselves and have some original ideas. My boyfriend wasn't quite I was looking for physically when I met him, (though he was/is gorgeous) but he had this way of thinking that I have never seen before - he's a deep thinker, I love and hate it about him.
I love the guys that ask questions about the world, question how things are, you know.
To pick only one is hard as they come hand in hand. But over the years I have realized Looks aren't that important. However hygiene is. But if I had to pick one. A sincere personality ( with good hygiene ) Sorry had to say 2. LOL
And yes attraction is superficial. It's a chemical reaction inside your brain to the way another person appears. And it always starts with the facial features. For both sexes. You can't become attracted to someone without looking into their eyes.
Humility, I hate nothing more than a woman who is arrogant. I don't care how hot they think they are, or how big they think their ego can get because they have this perception that they are god's gift to the world. For me a person who is down to earth and not a f***ing jerk is the best. Chicks like those have started wars between nations. That's still the same today in my book. - j
The one trait that I find the most attractive in a woman is their eyes. . Yes this is superficial. I have known women with beautiful eyes but could not carry on a conversation, and they quickly became less attractive. I like someone I can talk to
Initial attraction is almost always superficial. It almost always has to be. How often do you get to know someone's personality before you see their appearance?
That being said, the most attractive trait in a woman initially are her facial features, but once you get to know her, the most attractive is a great sense of humor
I agree. I assumed the question only meant physical attraction, but in the end personality wins it for me as well. - 4 months ago
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