For about 2 years in high school, I had a a huge crush on this girl. Skip 1 year and 1 Girlfriend later, I had a dream about this girl-- I had completely forgotten about her until this point. I haven't seen her until about a week ago, when I was at a house party. She runs up to me, gives me a hug, and completely remembered me-- it took me a while to remember who she was, but then I became completely re-infatuated. We talked for a while at this party, and numerous times she touched me/ danced with me, and at one point even grabbed my face with her hands and stared at me while we were talking. I was completely hammered, and she was somewhat drunk. I forgot to get her number, but started talking to her on a Facebook for the past few days. We've had a few small conversations, yet I get the feeling she still thinks of me as the same, "sometimes impolite" guy from high school. To be honest, I would do anything to date this girl. Should I try to show her how I've changed, or is there no point to it? She will more than likely be at a football game me and my friends have next Friday, which will probably be the first time we've met completely sober since senior year. Please help, I can't stop thinking about her!
First of all, don't become that desperate and needy guy who chases one girl hoping to marry her. That will scare her away faster than you telling her you're a rapist.
Instead play it cool.
I suggest the direct approach. Say this, "Hey, I hate chatting online, let's do it Live. I know this new place that makes the greatest desserts... join me Saturday afternoon around 3? I'll pick you up!"
Don't scare her with "logic" like "I really like you and I want you to be my girlfriend." That only works in grade 5.
Your power as a man will come from your understanding of how women FEEL.
Women aren't attracted to guys because of how they look, or what they say - women respond to who you're BEING. Be fun, be honest, be sincere, be attractive.
Being attractive is about taking action, leading, and escalating.
Action - ask her on a date (but don't call it a date.) Lead - suggest the place, time, and even pick her up if you can. Escalate - move from chatting online, to chatting in person, to chatting in person a lot, to touching, holding hands, hugging, kissing, marriage.
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