Am I in a bad relationship?

You seem afraid. You have to decide how to handle that fear in terms of coming to a decision. I wouldn't necessarily call a relationship "bad" just because I know it has a high chance of coming to a pre-mature end. If it's the circumstances and not the person you are worried about, feel lucky that you aren't worried about your guy changing - just the situation.

Your friends just want you to try being optimistic. You can be realistic. Prepare yourself for the worst case scenario and appreciate anything that turns out better. :)

I hope it works out for you. I'm in a similar situation, except minus the other person and 2 months. lol GL!

i think just continuing dating him will make the inevitable harder. if he's not looking for a serious relationship, it will be hard to change his mind. were you even able to do that, the fact that he'll be moving would still pretty much end things, because the way you've outlined things, long-distance is definitely not on his agenda either. perhaps that's even a part of the reason he isn't willing to do a long-term relationship. which means he's having fun, but you've already lost. and in the end, it will just be that much harder. better move on now :(

Oh sweetheart. :(

Much as its going to hurt, you need to walk away now before your feelings start to run deep. I had the same happen to me, got involved with a man who I quote "didn't want a serious relationship", stupidly fell in love with him and it was totally unrequited, couple of months down the line after he dumped me it still hurts and I still love the bastard.

Don't set yourself for a fall babe, either tell him to pull his socks up and give you 100% or walk out now before your heart get broken.

Best of luck and stay strong sweety. xx

You should go. Stick it up to him if you want a real relationship with this man but if he doesn't want the same thing, you can't do anything about it other than moving on. Why waste your time again on someone whom you know you won't have future with?

If you want someone to share your life with then dating this guy isn't really the right move. You know you're already falling for him, what's the point when you know he'll move? I would say enjoy the moment if he was just a fling but you might get your heart broken for no good reason. I would break up with him.