I have had a crush on this guy for the past few years. I'm pretty sure he has no idea, I used to see him regularly, but haven't seen him in a while. A couple of weeks ago, I decided to email him just to see what he's been up to. He replied to my email asking me where I was and what I was up to. I want to continue dialogue with him and realize that email exchanges back and forth get old and boring very fast.
My question is how do I let him know that I'm into him without coming right out and saying it. I am extremely shy and find myself acting like a bumbling idiot where he is concerned. I don't want to do or say anything that's potentially embarrassing.
Tell him it would be nice to see him, but you are pretty busy these days. You could however make time for a coffee or quick drink. If he doesn't get it and ask you out, get a new crush.
Ghidorah
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
You might just let him know plainly. If you are using email, it should be much easier than in person or on the phone. Or you could invite him to do something with you. Whatever the response may be, it is important to know how he feels. Something good always comes out of every experience.
That's such an easy question lol. All you have to do is to be very obvious. Ask for his # and email+ flirt and talk to him. He'll know that you like him automatically, of course, unless he's too stupid.
The best thing to do would probably be to outright tell him. However, if you don't want to do this, why not ask him to go somewhere with you (biking, a movie, the fair, etc). You don't have to use the words "date"...who knows, maybe he'll make the first move!?!?
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