I really like this guy from my job and we have been flirting A LOT lately. In the past six months, we have grown to be REALLY good friends and and I feel like I can really be myself around him without having to act a certain way for him to like me He even let me know that he thinks that we would be a good couple. Lately he's been asking about what I do in my spare time like on my off days and weekends. I'll tell him about things that me and my friends to do on weekends and things that I sometimes do with my family. He always talks about how fun it all sounds and hints that he would like to come along sometime. I think this is great but there's one thing that is always in the back of my head. Most of my girlfriends that I am close to, are what guys would consider "insanely hot". I would consider myself to be the "cute" one in my group of friends, but my my other friends are always called "Hot" or "Sexy". I'm afraid that if I introduce him to my friends too soon, that he will fall for one of them. Even though he's a really great guy and I believe he's more open minded than that, it still bugs me. Has anyone had anything like this happen to them before, and if so what happened? I feel like I would be more comfortable with my friends around first as I get used to hanging out with him, but should I suggest that we hang out alone first?
I think it hinges on whether or not you guys are together. Have you shown him enough interest that he knows you're into him? If so, you definitely should have him hang out with your hot friends (because even when you're dating, he'll see plenty of hot women there's nothing you can do about that. Might as well see how he reacts first hand). If he doesn't know that you're interested in him romantically, though, then he'll have no reason not to fall for any of the hot girls if he feels like he is clicking with her. I'd make sure that you took a step towards letting him know you want to be together with him before I took him out with your hot friends.
The girl that I like has some EXTREMELY HOT friends but I already know I would never date them or fall for them because the girl that I want to be with is the kind of personality I fell in love with. As for your situation, I bet that if your man is serious about being with you then after meeting your friends he will continue to chase after the woman he already has. This would be a great TEST to see how into you your man really is.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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