Now that we have been on a couple of dates, I realized I am liking him a lot. I don't want to fall in to deep, that quick, that it will be impossible to dig myself out. I guess I am afraid to be hurt, however I still want him to have the chase. How do I spice up the relationship, keep the chase on. Here is something about him, he is nice, respectful, all-over me, all the time! But when we are apart,he seems a bit distant, he's foreign, and he told me that he's afraid that he might say something wrong, when he may mean something else, so that tells me he likes me enough to care if he comes across indifferent. I see something different in him, I feel the bond with him, I never bond with someone I recently meet. So how do I keep the chase on if we have already been somewhat intimate?
I think the question is who's chasing who? Guys like to chase but they don't want the run around either. Someone needs to give in at some point, when they are ready, they need to decide to just go ahead with it and let go of fears. That's what love is all about.
Hmmm, well neither do women. Okay, I like him, do I tell him?! I figure he already would know since we have been some what intimate... do I keep communicating with him, or should I wait till he comes to me... cause lately it seems that I am the one whose talking to him first.. I wouldn't want to make him feel annoyed or uncomfortable.. does it matter if I don't tell the man 'I like him'? - 4 months ago
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Let him know how you feel or at least hint at it. Ask him how he feels about you. See if your giving him the run around he might just loose interest. Keep it fresh and passionate Let him know how you feel then he will have to make a move. Once you two acknowledge your feelings for each other than you take it to the next level after communicating where you would like things to go. - 4 months ago
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