My boyfriend has always been very sweet and nice. But here recently he's been a big perv. He asked me if I would give him a blow job, if I would have sex with him, if he could finger me, and a lot more. He wanted me to come to his buddy's house in Tower Hill. Did he just want me to come over there because I said that I might have sex with him if I was there with him? He's been talking about it an awful lot. I'm scared that sex is all he wants. Guys HELP me PLEASE!
How long have you two been dating? If you don't want to do anything, then tell him you don't want to do any of that stuff. If he leaves you, then obviously that's all he cares about. From reading this and your other question, sounds like sex is all that he really thinks about, and that you're not really interested in that kind of stuff. Do yourself a favor, ditch him, and find a guy that knows you aren't looking for it, and doesn't have a problem with it. Obviously if you don't know if this guy likes you or just wants you for sex, he probably just wants you for your body. Just my thoughts though.
Thanks ur really good at giving advice. - 7 months ago
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Thank you. You're very pretty and you can find a guy who wants you for who you are, and not for your body. Just be very picky and know what you want in a guy, and then be patient. I know it's very tough to be patient, but it will be totally worth it! - 7 months ago
Actually,Man or Boy wanna sex always and we'd like say it to our girl straight. I think its not big deal. But you should find out he love you or not, right? The point is LOVE and That FEELING
Most relationships are centered around the eventuality of sex. Were you ever interested in having sex with him, or just keeping him around because he's nice? I know everyone has their own pace they are comfortable with. You need to communicate with him your intentions and plans. If you want to wait until you're married, you should let him know that. If you are already having sex, but just not as often as he would like, you need to talk about the frequency.
Even nice guys will want sex in a relationship; that's one of the main reasons for a relationship. I'm not suggested you just "give it up" to solve the problem, but I do suggest talking to him about it. Hopefully he understands that he is placing you under too much pressure.
Well, if you're not ready, then don't do it. If he honestly cares about you at all, talk with him and tell him how you feel. If he blows you off because you want to wait and make it special, then he's not worth it. I know that if you do care about him, that you're going to be afraid of asking him, and probably afraid of losing him. Even so, you don't want to be stuck with a guy that only wants sex from you. If that is all he wants, don't give into him or anything. There's always someone who's better and will appreciate you more, and that you would rather have sex with. I hope that helped!
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