How can I get her on my side and ask her about an answer?

She is young. That's it. I am young and at time I still expect a guy to read my mind. That's what she wants you to do, is apologize, and read her mind. I suggest you grow up, and let her do the same before you take a leap like that into an essentially doomed relationship.


Sorry, I am a little too realistic sometimes. Its apart of my territory. But as a suggestion, if she is not on your side, don't try. That would obvious, and dull, and exactly what she wants. She wants to manipulate you, because you are a boy, and she wants to make sure you will do what she wants you to do. But girls don't actually want that. Why do you think they stay in abusive relationships. Okay don't become abusive that is NOT NOT NOT cool. Be amazing, that's all you can do. Intrigue her, don't let her petty high school drama affect you life.