I work security in a strip club, I have been really close with this girl for a few years, she knows how I feel, we always tell each other I love you when we leave the club and we slept together a few months ago. Things have always been hot and cold between us. We do like each other and have said when she gets her head together we would be serious. I have taken many girls home that had too much to drink, just part of the job. And I am close to a lot of the girls I work with! Everyone know I like this girl and she has told the girls about me, what I don't know because they keep it to themselves. My problem is last week I had a really hot girl ask me to go out. She used to work there but is at another club now. i said yes and she picked me up at the club I work at. I told the girl I like I was going out and she said she was cool with this girl and to have fun. I said I would be back before closing to say bye. about an hour before closing I got a text from her asking what was up? I said not a lot. She texted again asking if I was having a good time, I said not really. Then she fwd a text , from gas pump, I think. Saying I want to go down on you slowly then come up and f__k you real good. I thought it was odd and my date didn't like it much. So I got back to the club and walked my fav girl to her car. She asked what I did and I told her that it wasn't fun, my date was just riding around town playing with her new implants and I was bored. She wanted to beat this girl up. Over nothing. I was going to give her a ride to work the next day, but she stayed home to work on her home and the girl I went out with worked at the club. the next night she worked again and my favorite girl worked too. I could feel the tension standing between them. I thought she was cool with her? The girl lost her cell phone and got dressed to leave and my favorite girl went off telling her she can't just work a few hours and leave, and told me not to bring her back there. I told her I had nothing to do with her coming back there. Everything settled down and the other security, that took my place when I went out, said that date got her attention? I reassured her many times through texts that she was the one I want to be with, and it is true, everyone knows this! We are not dating, I wish we were! So I don't think I did anything that should have made her act like this? I didn't sleep with the girl. It was just a date. We didn't do anything but drive around town. Probably because my fav girl was texting me during my date. What do I do to get my favorite girl to move forward? Did this date really bother her? She seen me leave with girls before and never acted this way? What is going through her mind? Can you girls give me any help? I want this girl but it isn't up to me, she knows how I feel about her.
get her something nice and go to her house to apologize. show your passion and tell her your thoughts maybe she will listen and accept your apology. good luck to you, I think she was really feeling things for you and then you went out with someone which made her jealous so now she doesn't feel you anymore. take my advice I'm a woman I would know!
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