I am pretty and smart, but no one ha ever asked me out. I feel as if I am uglier than all the other girls in my school. Do you have any tips on how to get one. Guys tell me what you like in a girl because all my friends have been asked out more than once. Even the ones that are not very attractive they get all of them. And I think I am one of the only girls in my school who hasn't
Update: I really would appreciate more than just 1 answer!
You don't see the problem? So I suppose are are smart and pretty.
The problems 1. Good percentage of the guys are too shy to talk to pretty girls (they think that they are out of reach) 2. Even those who do talk are either not interesting or stupid 3. You are smart, which to most guys is a no no
The solutions 1. You don't need to act stupid or degrade yourself. You are who you are. 2. Dress yourself in a more feminine and cute fashion, occasionally sexy but not trying to be someone else in the process (thongs are a plus) 3. You don't think there is one guy who you are interested in or the other way around? 4. If there is, go after him. You have to be a little more proactive, talk to him, flirt with him, and even a little touch sometimes. (it works, trust me) 5. Don't complain too much about stupid things Tell me how it goes
I am pretty and stuff and I am smart but not being smart is a no no but like being a nerd smart is a no no. I try to do all the solution except the touching and definitely the thongs. Um the problem is no that the guy I like won't stop staring at me and stuff but he already had a girlfriend and he knows I like him cause someone told him because they got mad at me and I don't know if the staring is good? - 7 months ago
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You need to confront him. Ask him what the staring is all about. He already has a girl friend but still flirts with you. Does he like you? You need to do that so you can move on instead of trying to guess this and that all the time. - 7 months ago
You know guys wouldn't mind if a girl asks him out too. I would just relax, just because other girls have boyfriends doesn't mean you have to have one to. Too many people purposefully ask out anyone that crosses into their lives without seeing if they are the right person. I've never had a girlfriend and I don't really care, I'm not forcing anything on myself or others. If you really want a guy just be a little more flirty with them. In general any flirtatious actions by a girl will get a guy's interest. Also, if you like a guy make eye contact and make sure to laugh and smile. You're probably not doing anything wrong. I'm sure most guys like you it's just they don't want to have a relationship or they're intimidated so make them feel comfortable by laughing and telling jokes.
Oohh girll. I understand on this one. Same thing with me when I was in high school, even now I have that problem. My guys friends tell me it is most likely that other guys are intimidated to ask me out. So that could b the same thing with you. Guys probably think your too pretty to ask out or they think you might already be seeing someone
U are probably right. I was at this party and I was with all my friends and I told my friend "just because I have never been asked out before does not make me any different from you. " All the guys were surprised. Especially the one I like. He said " are you kiddin me? " But he don't like me well only as a friend I no that because he already has a Girlfriend. - 7 months ago