Mind Problems

I agree with the guy below. There is no hard and fast rule that you have to pick whom you want to date before you know them. Honestly, a chick likes a guy better when they have to fight for his attention. I would say to stay away from being an asshole though, be honest and tell them both that you are seeing someone else and aren't in a hurry to get a girlfriend. Also remember that you haven't known either for long enough to get married, so why try to settle down with one when you need to let them prove themselves to you. You can also tell the more reserved girl that you don't like that about her, maybe you might see another side of her. Beyond all of this though, have fun and make it work out for you. Don't go out of your way to impress either and you won't be as disappointed if it doesn't work. Good luck man, Kyle

I say try to do the a-hole thing and play both hands for awhile. Wait for one of them to make up her mind for you. I had a similar experience with 2 chicks I was in love with at one time. It was rough but I let the situation flesh itself out and I ended up a winner anyway. Cause what you should be worried about is choosing one and dogging one out and then have the one you chose like flake out 2 weeks later.