Should I be offended by his Myspace?

Honestly there is no way I can answer this question truthfully without sounding insulting to you, so I'll try to keep it as calm and respectful as I can.

You are being an obsessive psycho over this. Myspace means absolutely nothing in the real world. The fact that he only checks it once a month obviously means it doesn't matter a whole lot to him so why should it matter to you? If he found out you were obsessive over it this much he would probably kick you to the curb for being a psychotic drama queen. I know I would, and I wouldn't have any regrets about it either.

Well my Girlfriend found me on myspace. And she saw all my friends. When we started dating exclusively. I dumped anyone the she could even remotely get jealous over. No reason to create drama when none is necessary.

Umm, seriously? If I had a bad breakup, and had a chance to be on good terms with my ex again, I'd take it. But then again, I don't like being angry at people. Don't worry too much.

I have a hate/love relationship with Myspace. It just pisses me off when a guy uses it too much and has a bunch of girls on it. Yet I love having my page. Haha Crazy Myspace. Try not to worry about it. He barely even checks it and you have proof of that. UNLESS he's using that new code where you can make your last login date any date you want so people don't know when you were last logged in. I had mine like that for awhile and it always seemed I hadn't been on for weeks when in reality I was on the day before lol Now I found the code to hide my last login date all together so. Hmm, food for thought? Sorry.

But the important thing here is that he isn't hiding the fact that she emailed him so be happy and trust him.

Ok. This is very minor, I hate to say it. You didn't know about his myspace because he didn't have to tell you. I don't see an issue with him creating a myspace and not telling you, especially since you have only been dating for 8 months. My fiance didn't change his status to into a relationship until after we were together for like a year and half.

As for that girl being in his friends list. Do not worry about it. I think myspace is more of a popularity contest that anything else, just to see how many friends you can get. I have friends on my myspace that I dated, in fact several guys, but it doesn't mean anything at all. A friend on myspace is typically the least personal thing you can have. If he starts texting and calling her, then you can be worried.

But for all of this, I think you might be overreacting.

If I were you, I wouldn't be super worried, since he seems to check his My Space page so infrequently. True, he didn't tell you about his My Space page, but that's probably not a big deal if he doesn't check his page much. Meanwhile, it's good that he told you about the email from his ex. Overall, he doesn't seem to be hiding much of anything from you. But if that changes, then start getting concerned. Good luck!